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Older women.. Am I weird?
Well here the thing. I'm a sixteen year old guy and I have a problem. The thing is that... I like older women. Not just like a little older. MUCH older. Like women fifty and up. I know its weird and gross probably, but I can't stop thinking about it. It's not like I want a relationship with an older women I'm just extremely attracted to them and I can't stop thinking about them. I just want to have sex with older women, and even if I did try to get with an older women they might think I'm weird and I wouldn't know what to say to them in order to try and attract them to me. I just need help on what I should do about this and how I should go about it. Please help me A.S.A.P.
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As fetishes go dear yours is pretty damn normal. No need to get all Freudian about it. It is just part of who you are.
The only thing you need to figure out is whether, like many people with a sexual interest, you keep it in the realm of fantasy, or if it's something you really want to explore in reality.
Millions of people in this world have happy, healthy, fulfilling sex lives that include a large does of fantasy. Fantasies are things they know they shouldn’t, couldn’t or don’t really want to do (although they may pretend or role play doing it).
"Rape fantasies" are a great example. Lots of women have them, but next to none of them actually want to be raped! There is just something in the thought that appeals to them, and they might choose to play with the idea with a trusted partner...
That choice of what to do with you interest is entirely in your own hands. Just remember, like hundreds of adults, you might need to make compromises on your desires in order to find long-lasting happiness. I’d urge you to think pretty seriously about what it is you want out of your sexual and romantic relationships before you start chasing down the blue-haired set.
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um maybe your so attracted to them because at your age girls arent that mature and you like how mature they are and stuff. but idk try hanging out with girls your own age is all i can give you for advice.
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Okay, Its not uncommon. So you're not completly out of the norm. But step out of your shoes for a second and think about this... a lot of males that have this sexual craving dont have either a mother figure, was abused or abandoned by their mother... so their looking for that "mom like" figure in their life. Even though most dont look at it this way. It's just sort of a fantasy. There's nothing you can really do but if you dont want to be with an older woman... then dont let it come between you and someone you may be with for the rest of your life. Also there are a lot of older women or older men that date younger people.. they wont think its weird. Just gotta find the right person.
Good luck.
Holly
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LMFAO omg is this a joke?
okay well um
you're pretty weird.. but thats okay :D
.. try getting attracted to girls your own age.
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youre in a confusing time of your life. youre going to be interested in things you never thought you would be. youre just a teenage boy. you need to realize that this little fantasy of yours probably ISNT going to happen. its illegal. try to hang out with girls your own age.
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