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HELP.bestfriend boyfriend?
okay so ive been best friends
with this boy,his names JR,for
a couple years now. ive always thought
of us as best friends and stuff.
i never really thought of liking him
liking him..but the other night we
were texting and i was like "so how
are things goin with katie?"who is
this slutty girl that i always tease
him about liking cuz he did a long timeago,
and he was like "i dont like her natasha.god damn." and he got mad kinda so i was like "wow wtfs wrong with you"and he was like "well i like someone else,and it makes me mad that you always think i like her" and i was just like"ooh ok sorry" and thne i was like "so then..who do ya like?" just wondering u know since he is my best friend, and he was like "i dno if i should tell you,you'll think im dumb." and i was like TELL ME! and it took a couple texts to get him to come through then he was like "ok are you ready?!?" and im like "yah" and hes like "ok jfdladajldajfyoujlafjdaljfad find it in there"at first i didnt see it so i was like"huh?"and hes like"omg jflajlfadIljfdaljdaLIKEjfdjallaYOU!!jlfdjla"and i couldnt believe it so i was jus tlike"r you serious"and he is and everyhting...what do i do?
i actually have began to like him.but hes my best friend, if i got with him and we broke up it might ruin everything.he said it wont, but i ndo.
HELP.
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well if you said no it will probably ruin it he is just saying that so you have choices and he wont fell like he is pressuring you. i would say yea if you are beginning to sorta like him and just see how it goes.i am going through the same thing right now. i have a friend and he said he likes but he said he would have to choose between me and another girl he choosed the other girl. but that didnt effect our relatinship. we are best friends still but im still a little jelly
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you should talk it out. Explain your thoughts about how you are worried about the friendship. Also, guy bestfriends are always the best boyfriends. You start out with a good strong friendship and then you build off of that. Take it slow, dont officially have the name "going out" be "together" for a while to build up to see if you like it without the full commitment yet. If you feel weird about it just let him know. If hes your best friend for that long and you decide its not working out. He'll most likely understand! Just talk things threw. And take it slow.
Hope everything works out for the best hun!
<3 Holly Sunshine
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Best friends go out & break up but the only way that you can fuck up your friendship after a break up is if you both let it be that way. If you truely like him & if you're ready to go to the next level with him then go for it! You guys seem to be very close & you seem to have a lot of trust with each other and that's good. You get along & I don't see why you guys would break up but still. Just do whatever you think is right & think about being happy not what the outcome will be.
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well think about it. do you REALLY like him? if your just going out with him to have a bf, then don't, but if you find yourself thinking about im all the time, that's definitely a sign thatyou like him. that exact situation has occured for me to, and he asked me out and i said yes and things have been going great. make sure you let him know if he asks you out, that if anything happens, you'll always be friends.
thats about it, but i hope i helped you out enough
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