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what do i tell my parents?
okay..well i'm a 13 year old girl and i like this 17 year old guy and he liks me too. my best friend is going out with his cousin so we get to spend a lot of time together. he's a really awesome guy and i know he'd NEVER hurt me. he really cares about me..but the thing is we want to be friends with advantages before we date but it's hard cause he lives in a different town..even though he can drive i don't want him to come over cause i don't want my parents to freak about the age difference..he's the same age as my sister. how should i tell them how old and how good of a kid he is..my mom's met him before but it was only for liek 2 seconds. idk what to do..if you can help i will rate high. please and thanks to those who do help me.♥
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sweetie a guy that wants to be friends with advantages before you date is no good. It shows hes using you. The 5 years isnt a big deal.. but what is a big deal is that you're 13 and hes 17 there is such a big matureity diffrence there. I'm not trying to be against you at all but he may seem like a great guy that has good intentions but a great guy wouldnt say he wants benefits before you date. No matter what your parents probably arnt going to like it. He is almost illegally out of your range. He probably is and I just dont know the complete rules. But if he was to turn 18 soon. you're relaly screwed. I know this isnt what you wanted to hear and i'm sorry. But if it means a lot to you then tell your parents. see what happens. But dont completly trust this guy by his words. Guys are pigs sweetie, remember that.
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Before you go out with him have your parents meet him and tell him that you two might hook up. the best thing to do is just be honest with your mom and your dad.
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he's almost an adult, you are a young child (even though you might not think you are) so if he touches you he will be breaking the law.
he cant love you, being friends with benefits means theres no commitment so he'l get what he wants from you and at the same time he can see other girls and do sexual stuff with them. dont let him use you like that.
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When a guy of 17 is interested in a girl of 13, he wants only 1 thing! Older guys go for younger girls because they are naive! They know that theyll give them what they want, because they think its so awesome that an older guy likes them! If he truly cared about you, he wouldnt try and take advantage of you like that. He doesnt want a relationship, just friends with benefits! What is that telling you?
Hun> dont let him use you. Whens hes done getting what he wants from you, hes gonna leave you and never talk to you again. I guarantee it!
Dont give him something to brag to his friends about. He obviously cant get a girl his own age to use, so hes choosing a 13 yr old.
Listen to every1 here, and listen to your mom. We all know what were talking about!! Youre gonna be sorry if you dont!
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she's right at that age thats all they think about is sex. look for some one close to your age. :(
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Guys at that age should only be your friend...and nothing more...because sooner or later they will want sex and if you don't want to go through that then most likely they get mad, etc. It doesn't matter how much you tell your parents how good he is because the age difference will still be in the way. They wouldn't want you doing anything with a guy that old especially when he's going to get out of school in a year or so. Plus, if your sister is the same age...maybe he will start to make moves on her...?
I probably didn't help... uhmm..
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