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age diffrence does it really mater
im a younge girl turning 16 in march the 1 and i been going out whith this guy for 9months now but the only diffrence is hes 21 a five year gape i dont see nothing wronge whith it but some people do im really in love whith him and he says he loves me and wants me 2 be hes 4 a enternity hes in jail at a moment but 4 somthing his friend done and i dont want eny one else to be his girl sep me can i hear what yous got to say plz
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If you really like/love him then who cares about the age difference. My boyfriend and I are five years apart to and at first my mother didn't argee on it but then she really got to know him and now she loves him. Don't worry about what other people think, if anything they should mind their own business. What you two have going could be something special, so don't just give it up because people don't like it. Eventually they will forget all about it and it won't matter to them.
Hope I helped!
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You can't even drive and your boyfriend can drink. If you can find a legit reason as to why that isn't bad, then you win.
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Wow well i can see why people trip over it.. he`s a bad guy don`t believe that i didnt do it..it was my friend cuz most likely that was bullshit.. and that is a big age difference your a baby compared to him and 9 months isnt a very long steady relationship especially if his ass in jail.. how you know he ain`t gettin done in his ass.. you might be wasting your time with him and he`ll come out gay.. plus a guy that much older knows how to get a girl your age to believe anything cuz we fall for guys easily and are emotions control us and we don`t think.. this guy must be sick in some sort of way to want a girl so young.. sorry to say but thats my opinion.. Bye ♥ Dez
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Hunnie... Why are you with someone who is currently in Jail?? You may think your in love.. and in reality you might be.. your 16 years old... You have time.. Be a teenager...I'm 18. and my boyfriend is 16.. so mine is the opposite of yours... but.. he got sent away in April... and was able to come home at the end of June .. So I Guess I Know how you feel.. I cant tell you not to be with him.. because people told me the same thing when my boyfriend was gone... And I've been with my boyfriend a little over a year now.. You need to tell him that you truly have feelings for him.. and that you want to be the only girl in his life... and if he cant do that.. Then.. you can move on to someone better... you dont want to be with someone who is going to have other girls besides you..thats not far to you..
Hope This Helps.... Good Luck..
*Jackie*
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ok...i think you should wait on this guy because obviously he loves you and you love him...dont listen to what others say listen to your heart instead of other people...Do what truley makes you two happy...good luck with this problem i hope i helped you some!!
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YOU'RE FOURTEEN. Use proper English if you want to be taken seriously, expecially about something like this.
-young
-with (multiple times)
-difference
-gap
-anything
-wrong
-enternity
-the, not a
-something
-did
-anyone
-except
-you
-please
Can you use punctuation??
As far as this goes.. If he actually love you, he won't have another girl. If / when you talk to him tell him that you don't want him with anybody else, etc. Good luck.
♥ Melissa
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Hi There,
I understand what you're going through. If what you experienced is love as what you have said. I suggested you take it step by step. Age difference is not really a big deal. But in any case you still should take this relationship slow. Maybe after you understand all about
relationship because sometimes even if you believe its true love it might not be the way you think. After a while, your way of thinking might as well change as time passed. Don't ever listen to what other people said. You know its not true, the person you should listen to is yourself not others who didn't have clue of what's really
happened. You could try to talk to him about this. He will surely understand if he really cares for you.
Take care.
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Though I don't think 5 years is too big of a gap, at this age it matters. Despite how good of a guy he is or how good yalls intentions are, it's illegal. If you really love each other, then you can wait 2 years and then it won't be illegal, but be aware, words are cheap. He can say a lot of things that aren't true and if he's a good liar, he can make you believe anything he wants, so be careful. Considering the fact that I don't know anything else about your situation, I really can't comment on anything else.
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ok what kind of english do you speak?
thats a really big gap considering your only 15. He could get himself in ALOT of trouble being with you! nothing personal, but why a 15 yrl old. cant he get any1 closer to his age?
i mean you have like 3 more yrs of high school left yet. What do you possibly have in common with him?
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some times it does. some times it doesnt. my best friend and my brother have the same problem. shes 15 hes 19. but they love each other. but cant be together because of the parents. but when they r together there like so inlove. but even though they date other ppl they still know each day that they r in love with one another. if the guy starts pressuring you into haveing sex and you dont want to then dump him casue he only wants one thing. guys that age only want one thing. thats prolly y ppl who love you dont want yall 2 be together.hope i helped
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Alright sweetie. I say since hes already in jail, you dont want him to get out and have to go back in because of a dating you since you are under age. I personally dont see to much wrong with it. But look at the numbers 16 & 21 they dont look right. I say hold off until you're 18 to become really serious, if he was to get caught with you he'd have to register as a sex offender, you know how that would fuck his life up? Think about it. Love is choosing the highest good for the other person. Think about it, would you risk his person future for a love so young?
<3 Holly
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It's kind of wrong for a couple of resons.
1. If you two were to perform any sexual acts it would be considered rape, even if you did agree to it considering you're a minor.
2. you're a minor! He could go back to jail if he was caught doing anything that the police consider inappropriate.
3. He's in jail. That should be enough of a reason. Even if his friend did the crime, the fact that he's in jail should be a turn off as it is.
4. It's a five year difference. Most likely he's looking for sex. That's more than illegal.
5. He might not truely love you like a boy in the same age group as you might.
Try to just find a nice guy around the same age you are. It shouldn't be too hard.
-tekcoreht
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