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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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=( This has been really bugging me; I really like this guy. I've only known him for 2 weeks, and talked to him a few times, but I can't stop thinking about him. He's such a great guy, and I'm happy for any girl who gets him. But I can't get him off my head.

What's wrong with me? :(

yOUR just crushing on him most likely...there's nothing wrong with you! lol need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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my boyfriend says he would like to go to 2nd base..maybe even 3rd. the problem is..i know people have so many ideas of what the bases are that i don't know exactly what he means. could someone please clear this up for me? also, we have been going out for three and a half months..is it too early for me too go that far with him?

hmmmm... well to answer your first question the bases are 1st-kiss make-out 2nd-touchy feely, fingering, hand job 3rd- head, eating out...and to answer your second question i mean 3 1/2 months is a small amount of time me and my bf didnt go to 3rd base till we had been together for almost a year...but it's your choice wat ever you feel comfortable with...if you wanna then go for it! well hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?

I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental?

No your deffinately not being to judgmental i know people who through that word around like nothing and they just say it just because they're going out with the person and they don't mean it and who is to say that if someone for example: me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years say i love you to eachother-that we don't mean it...when your inlove and love someone you just know. people use "love" the wrong way because they really don't know wat true love is until after they've had their heart broken a couple times. when you find someone you trully love and you say it and mean it then people say that your not inlove or you don't know wat love is then that person can go screw off because they don't know how you feel for someone and just because your young or w/e doesnt mean you can't trully love someone or be inlove! it really gets on my nerves! people through it around when its not true then wonder why people get hurt

Caitlin♥

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alright well heres my deal, i'm 14/f and my best friend well i LOVE her brother i went out with him secretley but then she found outt and she was pissed..so then we had to break up bcus his parents were always yellin @ him and she wuld always cry about it i dnt see wat the big deal was but anyways we got back together and we got sexually active, agen she found outt and we had to break it off except this time it was BIGG. I still love him and he still lvoes me we arent reallyy dating but together my mom says i can do better but i def. think hes it. wat shuld i do? end the relationship or just go for it and forget about his sister.

If you REALLY love him then forget about his sister and go for it i mean be like if you don't like it then to bad i love him and there's nothing you can do about it! that's what i would do! well hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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okay first off im sorry this is long... okay im 13 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years.. i know thats long lol.. anyways .. this year we're going to be going to dif. schools.. he'll be in middle school and ill be in highschool.. hes in 6th im in 7th...well .. i love him more then i could explain. but my boyfriend.. eric thinks ill find someone else at the highschool... i know it could happen.. but it wont because i love him.. and hey who knows he might meet someone else.. and im just so worried things wont work out for us.. what do u think i should do..? i rate all 5's !!! THANKS!

HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!! ok my bf is in 8th grade and i'm in 9th well goin into and i'm goin to a different skool oviously because i'm goin into high skool and he is worried i'm gunna meet some one new too which like you said i said to my bf that i wouldnt because i love him so0o0o much and we've been together for almost 2 yrs..! that's so weird lol! but any ways...lol just keep reasuring him that your not going to meet any one new and that you love him and you wouldnt do that to him and make it work don't just give up because things arnt going smooth i know things will prolly get a lil bumpy for you guys but i'm sure you'll be fine and make everything work out! hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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I think I'm scaring my crush... she's not showing any signs, but that's just so far. I mean, first, I told her how much I love her. Then, I asked her to the fair. Then, I wrote a song about her, and anyone who knows me knows that I can't write songs for my life! I think maybe soon she'll get scared off, but these things are just bugging me, and I feel like I'll keep thinking about her until I do something for her. Please help!

Awww that's so cute! i would love if a guy did that for me well if my boyfriend did lol but i'm sure your not scaring her off she oviously knows you have feelings for her! but yea... just don't like over do it you know wat i'm saying! talk to her and see how she feels about you then maybe use could have something! well good luck tell me how things work out! hope i helped need anythin ask*

Caitlin♥

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ok so me and my ex girlfriend broke up over a month ago now, but i still like her a lot, and i kno she likes me to, but shes said she wants to wait until 2 weeks into school before decide if she wants to get back together, but she also said if she misses me she will come back after the 2 weeks. i still talk to her everynight on either AIM or phone, and i think im just ruining my chances....should i stop talking to her or should i ruin my chance and just continue wat im doing?

plz help

-anonymous

Continue talking to her becuz if you stop then she will think that you don't like her anymore you get wat i'm saying?!? just keep talking to her and wait till she makes up her mind! hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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how do you make-out with a guy? i have never done it before and most of my friends have and im going into 8th grade..so idk if it will happen or not but i should be ready. and..what do guys like? thanks.

Well there's really no wrong way to make-out or french kiss w/e! just go for it when you french kiss its different from making out french kiss is just using your tongue its not hard so don't worry about it...then making out is like for a while french kissing but also being all touchy feely its not complicated! and just cuz your goin into 8th grade and you havnt kissed or made-out wid a boy yet don't mean any thing so good luck and hope i helped if you need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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heyy i was the girl who asked about how my friends bf was flirting with me and stuff.. he hasnt said anything lately.. should i still tell my friend about it? or just keep it quiet and wait to see if he keeps doing it... thank s

Well just notify your friend about it and keep her posted so if he duz it again you can tell her and she can beat his ass! jk lol but yea so she can talk to him and see wats goin on! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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sorry this is so long

(15/f)

alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?




once again... im so sorry its long..

It's ok it's not even that long but any ways... well try it out see what he's all about but if he's just about the sex then if i were you i wouldnt go for it but if he really likes then yea sweet go u stay wid him! lol well hope i helped you tell me how things work out k hun need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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I was just talking to my boyfriend about how he makes me feel; wonderful, amazing, incredible, and how I wanted to make him feel that way too. Well, I got something I totally didn't expect. He told me sometimes I make him feel unwanted. I never knew this. My heart is in my stomach. I'm getting chills every other second. What do I do? How can I make him feel more wanted?

Just talk to him preferabley in person and hang out snuggle and just hold him tigh and tell him you love him (but only if you really mean it) and just tell him what he means to you! cute stuff like that so he knows that you care about him and that he is wanted by you! well hope i helped if you need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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My best/only real friend just said he likes me, but i dont like him like that what do i do?

He is always depressed and i dont want to hurt him.
Help fast!

I'll rate 5's

Just tell him that you don't feel that way for him and that use are better off as friends but be nice about it oviously and just comfort him when he's feeling sad or depressed...hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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My borfriend and I's aniversary is coming up soon and i want to get him something realy specail but i don't want to spend a lot of money.. any ideas?

Make him sumtin cute like a photo albumn with pix of use togetha or sumtin like that! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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Okay. I have make-out before but for some werid reason I am scared to make-out with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i made out with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!

and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out?

Don't worry about the kissing things he'll think your fine...and i kno exactly wat your talking bout i'm in 9th my bf's in 8th and if use have a strong relationship and use have trust then you'll be fine! don't worry if use really love each otha and stay true then it will work out! need anything ask*

♥ Caitlin

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sry this is really long but I rate really high!!

well i really fell for this guy over the summer and hes been away at summer camp for like 6 weeks and I was wondering weather or not i should tell him because i dont know if he likes me back and hes rarely online so if i do i have to tell him when hes actually online because i cant call him and then I have another problem, I'm not really allowed to have anything to do with boys both my parents think its crazy to have boyfriends at this age!! im 13/f by the way so i cant be with him if he likes me back, I've had a boyfriend before but i had to sneak calls on my cell phone with him and we never actually went out on a date and i cant talk to my parents about it, i mean my mom is ok but my dad would TOTALLY freak out even if i mentioned boys hes so overprotective in that way!! well I'm really sorry this is so long but i need advice!!

Well when he comes online IM him and talk tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same then try n get togetha...wat daddy don't know don't hurt em'! so0o0o yea do wat u want just TRY not to get caught and if you wanna chill wid him be like I'm goin to the mall wid my friends then invite him to go then just hang wid him that's wat i do! and it works so0o0o yea! good luck...need anything ask*

♥ Caitlin

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i want to know how i should ask this girl out...but i dont know how? i know her phone number but what should i ask when she answers? can you help?

Hey well... just call her up or talk to her in person and maybe first see if she has feelings for you and if so then go for it and just approach her and ask... just be like um... will you go out with me or sumtin like that lol but yea just dont be shy about it i hope i helped good luck and tell me how it goes if u need anything else just ask*

-Caitlin*

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i really like this guy dylan, but i dont think he likes me. all of my friends say he does, but i dont really feel like he does. he doesnt call me or im me and that is making me feel depressed. i need help, cause i really want him to like him. what can i do to make him like me again? oh, and by the way, i am throwing a party and inviting him...what should i do there to get his attention?....thanks in advance!

Hey well... you cant make some one like you but you can give them reasons to like you! dont ever change for a guy just be yourself and see how he feels about you and tell him your feelings for him and you never know he could feel the same for you... just talk it over with him and at your party just be yourself and be fun and chill with him and talk and if use are into each other then do w/e ya want ;)! but yea.. hope i helped and good luck hun... If you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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ok theres this kid that goes to my school and i really really like him i walk home with him everyday and people always ask us if we go out because we are constintly flirting and i always say no well one of my friends on her science book is all pictures of her friends and im on it and i borrowed it once and i wrote things next to them and just playin around i put sexy on mine and so he had the book the next day and he scribbled the comments i wrote on other peoples pictures and put something bad but on mine he underlined what i wrote and my friends thinks he sweats me and i really like him but id feel stupid if i said somethin and he didnt but theres alot of stuff and i think he does but im not absolutley positive what should i do

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Well.... maybe you should just talk to him and see how he feels about you before revealing how you feel about him and if use both feel the same for each other then use should go out and if only one feels that way then i'm sure you can remain friends.. but i mean just talk it through and tell him how you feel and maybe he will feel the same for you... well hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
Thank you!

Well i wouldnt tell people about this because yes he could because that is considered rape so i would keep it on the down low... and im not sure about your second question yes they could probably but i wouldnt really worry to much about that just dont go around telling people that your dating some one who is like 9-10 years older than you... well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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Well, i dont know what to do anymore. I used to be in love with this kid, we met almost a year ago and it was love at first sight. Now he knew i was in love with him but at first he didnt feel the same way back and he also had a girlfriend at the time. So i wasnt going to do anything to break them up since he said he was in "love" with her. I guess he wasnt in to much love with her because he cheated on her with me, we didnt have sex but he did finger me a couple times and i gave him head twice. Now they ended up breaking up at the end of the summer. I thought it was my perfect chance for us to finally be together, but i was wrong because he said he needed time since they had been together for a little over a year. So i wasnt going to push it or anything, but one day we were hanging out at his house and i let him take my virginity. Now i was in love with him and i do not regret it at all and i never will but people say its bad that i did that, what do you think? Okay thats my first question, my 2nd question is this: He started going out with another girl in Oct. now at first i will admit i was very upset but now im pretty much over it and only because me and him still have sex to this day. Now I am not in love with him but i do love him and he loves me because we are best friends and we always will be nothing can change that, but the thing is i dont know whether I should stop having sex with him or just keep doing what we are, So what do you think? Thanks!

Well to answer your first question it is kinda i guess if he had a girl friend i mean he should have maybe broken up with her before you did anything togetha, but oh well!!! lol Now for your second question i mean if he has a girl friend while you guys are having sex i dont personally think thats right on his part he should just end it with the girl he's with instead of sneaking around with you. I mean it is your decision whether or not you wanna keep having sex with him or not so i can't tell you what to do, but what i would do if i were in your position would be to tell him to end it with his current girl friend so you two could have a sexual relationship and not have to worry about him having a girl friend! well i hope i helped if you need anything else just ask*

-Caitlin

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