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what should i do?
i really like this guy dylan, but i dont think he likes me. all of my friends say he does, but i dont really feel like he does. he doesnt call me or im me and that is making me feel depressed. i need help, cause i really want him to like him. what can i do to make him like me again? oh, and by the way, i am throwing a party and inviting him...what should i do there to get his attention?....thanks in advance! <3 Carly
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First of all, please try not to feel depressed because a guy doesn't like you. I know it really sucks, but there is no need to be depressed about it. However, I do have some advice for you on this one. Does Dylan know that you like him? If not, you should let him know... either you can tell him yourself, or have one of your friends tell him. It would be a lot easier and less complicated if you told him yourself. He may just be shy about this and that may be the reason why he doesn't call you or IM you. During this party of yours you should be really friendly and confident and try and talk to him... even if it's just small talk... do something to get his attention. Just remember, before you get all sad about this, make sure that this guy knows that you like him. Maybe if he knows that you like him he will admit that he likes you. Who knows... well, good luck with everything and remember to be yourself! Let me know if you need anything else! Thanks soo much for hearing me out!
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Sometimes you've got to meet people half way. You can't always wait for him to talk to you and call you. You can't force him to like you, no matter what you do, so don't try and change yourself just to impress him (that includes trying to get his attention. Guys can be turned off by that) Friends tend to pick up on the signs a guy likes us more than we do, so maybe you should trust your friend son this one.
But for now I think you should just start talking to him more and getting close to him. I assume you have him on IM which is an easier way to get to know people without dealing with awkwardness. As for your party, why not have an 'innocent' little game of spin the bottle (or something similiar to that) lol. And use your party as an opportunity to do some flirting and see if he does it back.
Good luck.
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well.. if you really wanna know, then talk to him yourself.. just be like "Hey Dylan, all my friends are saying you like me and i just wanted to know if it was true?" and then see what he says and if he says he does like you then ask him to do something, if he doesnt like you just say oh ok, i just wanted to get that cleared up so i knew.. thanks bye and then walk away.. and if he doesnt like thats ok .. just hang out with a bunch of friends.. girls and guys and see what other guys you might like and dont like. and you never know, you might stop liking him at the party and like someone else. hope i helped.. love Nicole*
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When you say dylan, he thinks you're talking about dylan thomas.
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Hey well... you cant make some one like you but you can give them reasons to like you! dont ever change for a guy just be yourself and see how he feels about you and tell him your feelings for him and you never know he could feel the same for you... just talk it over with him and at your party just be yourself and be fun and chill with him and talk and if use are into each other then do w/e ya want ;)! but yea.. hope i helped and good luck hun... If you need anything just ask*
-Caitlin ♥
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