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Okay. I have make-out before but for some werid reason I am scared to make-out with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i made out with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!
and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out?
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Don't worry if your good or not, just do what feels right and everything will be o.k. And as for if you stay together, if you really want it to work out you will find a way to see each other and stay together!
Love ~Ash~
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Aw. Sweetie if he really cares for you, than it shouldnt matter if your good or not. Plus there is really no wrong or right way to makeout, so if he says your bad, you can just say your unique =) hehe. Have fun with it ;o)
During the school year.. hmm - try going to each others houses after school and make sure you see each other each week .. that should prevent the "distance" thing
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Don't worry about the kissing things he'll think your fine...and i kno exactly wat your talking bout i'm in 9th my bf's in 8th and if use have a strong relationship and use have trust then you'll be fine! don't worry if use really love each otha and stay true then it will work out! need anything ask*
♥ Caitlin
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for the last part of the question:
"and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out? "
my boyfriend of over a year and a half is two years as well as two grades ahead of me. he is a senior this year while I am a sophmore. and we go to different schools. when I was in eighth grade, he was a sophmore, when i was a freshman, he was a junior, but we never attended the same school. and everything has worked out fine for us! we see eachother on the weekend and talk on the phone daily!
Best of Luck!
oh,and your probably nervous to make out with him for the exact thing you said, you love him, and you dont want to let him down!
-Kels-
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You've kissed before, so I don't see what the big concern is. My first kiss was when I was 14 to a 17 year old boy whom I thought I was ridiculously in love with. I didn't know how to kiss, and I just told him I wanted him to teach me how to kiss better. It worked out better that way, because we could joke around about it and use it as a game and have fun. If he really likes you, and you like him - you're going to have a chemistry that goes far deeper than the way you kiss. Theres no reason to worry, everyone has a different kissing style & everyone accepts what the other does and reacts to another person's kissing to fit into it. Everyone adapts their kissing style to fit the person theyre with. As long as you dont drool, you'll be fine! =) lol
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First of all, age dosent matter. Really, it dosent. As long as you like the guy, you're fine. Second of all, he's your boyfriend, why worry? you trust him, he trusts you, and past boyfriends said you're really good. When i first when out with my boyfriend when i was 12 i made out with him and i didnt even know how to, but he showed me, now we both look back and laugh at it. And plus if he says he dosent like the way you kiss, ask for lessons! lol, it'll be fun, and you'll get better. So dont worry about it. Just do it with him and go one step at a time. I hope i helped, and also keep me in mind in the future if you want!
*Jill*
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If it's meant to be, it will always work out! i know how you feel, i've been scared like that before too. First of all don't stress about it. the more you think about it, the more nervous you'll get. Everyone kisses differently. People kiss the way they want to be kissed. Try to follow his lead but also use your own technique as well. Don't be afraid, just do it! If he really cares for you, you shuldn't be worried about waht he'll think. i hope i helped some! <3
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