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This isnt a real love life kinda question but like ive heard that chewing gum actually makes your breathe stink? is that true?

No... thast why its minty.......

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is it unusual for a guy to like 2 girls.

Nope. I've liked maybe 5 guys at once, lmao!
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First of all, you are really pretty. Second of all, I was wondering how you would get a guy to notice you. I really really like this guy named Peter and we like talk to eachother and stuff, but I like LOVE him. He kind of ignors me when he's around his friends. How would I get him to REALLY notice me without going ALL OUT (if you know what I mean)?

Aw, okay thanks. To get a guy to notice you you should flirt with him. Maybe smile at him often, twirl your hair in front of him, bite your lips in front of him, and hug him. But before that you should become really good friends with him so that you have a good friendship. Then try to hang out with him more often. After a while make your move!!

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what does it mean WHEN A GIRL SMILES AT ME? when we're walking past each other, and we make eye contact, and she gives me that little smile, you all know the one. does it mean:

1. she thinks i'm cute
2. she thinks i'm hott
3. she wants to talk to me
4. she wants to kiss me
5. she wants to do dirty things to me
6. other

come on ladies, i need to know what you're thinking. i have a pic on my profile, if it helps. (i think it will).

I think its 1#!! :D
[♥] Melissa
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Same guy here from the "Romantic or Creepy?!" Topic earlier,

LadyGoodman mentioned that she would find it creepy if she made it very clear that she wasn't interested before.
My question is WHEN does a women actually make it very clear that she's not interested,
I mean when they are interested, they play hard to get or they are nice, they're not interested they are nice or they do what, to me, looks like playing hard to get...
Personally I would only take it as very clear when she literally tell's me not to bother her again, or to F%$#-off, and I'd be happy to hear the plain and simple truth, but women have NEVER done that to me, they just keep me on a line till I just stop calling them.

I have kissed this specific girl on at least five seperate occations, I've seen her jeolous at least once, and she has been playing hard to get practically the whole time.
I am as sure that she likes me as I can get, but then again, she's not awnsering her phone at the moment... in fact she turned off her cell, I'll still give her time tho.

Please girls, help a dumbass out, how or when are you saying "not interested"?

If a girl doesn't like you she will not do what you want her to. Example if you want to kiss a girl and she backs out, she not intrested. Simple as That. I helped a dumbass out!! :D

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any cute or amazing pet names you've heard?
im so uncreative and me and my boyfriend are gonna give each other little nicknames,

*Sweetie Pie
*Hunny Bunny
*Cookie Lips
*Pumpkin Cheeks (lol)
*Sugar Pie


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Sorry if they sound a lil' cheesssy!! Lmao!!
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Toodles.

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Okay i rly like this guys in school and well he flirts a little and i mean a little and were friends but hes RLY hawt! how can i get him to like me? what should i do? **ill rate 55's unless its mean!!! **

You can start to hang out with him more often so you become REALLY good friends. Then after a while start to flirt back, so that he notices you like him. After that make a move.

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ive been in love with my boyfriend and hes in love with me for about a year now. but now were starting to fall apart, over the summer we used to hang out everyday now we hang out like once a month. and hes the kinda guy that flirts with alot of girls, but i trust him. yesterday i told him i was mad at him (because i was infront of him talking to him nd he was ingoureing me and ran to another girl) and he was like i dont care. that hurt alot... then today i was asking him why he said this and he was laughing about an inside joke. then he came online, and this was ower convo.

HIM: do you think its time time for a change?

ME: what do you mean...? 'change' of what

HIMME: no tell me

HIM: nvm

ME:k

ME: well your really acting like ur gonna break up with me... just get it over with if you r gonna.

HIM: jump to conclusions muchh?

ME: umm... well your acting like your gonna

HIM>: how does somone act like there gunna break up with somone

ME: they act like they dont like them....

hIM: well

>HIM>: do you wanna break up?

HIM: or take a brkeakk

ME: if i wanted to break up.. i would of broken up with you already....

HIM: o

ME: whatever

HIM: k?

ME: if your gonna break up with me then just do it now cuz im leaving soon...

HIM: fine

ME: fine what..?

HIM: uhh i dont no

then i signed off. but i dont no if i should break up with him, i love him to death and i really dont wanna break up with him. but it seems like were falling apart.=( should i? or no?

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** i rate high

Awe!! Well he's being immature!! Ask him why he's been acting soo weird lately, and tell him to tell you whats on his mind. If he keeps acting this way sooner or later you're going to get into a fight which will ruin your friendship and relationship, so i suggest if he does keep doing it break up with him. He isn't right for you!

♥ Melissa
Good Luck Hun!!
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I'm friends with a guy who is 44 years old. I swear to god I think he is obsessed by farts. It's all he ever talks about!! This one time we were watching a movie and he said" oh wouldnt it be funny if that guy farted". Another time we were playing a card game and he said that he "loved farts". He's also said that he wonders what it would sound/smell like when I farted.
Then he told me that when he was in highschool he would sneak farts in the classroom, also I've seen him stick his bum out and pretend to fart while making a fart noise with his mouth.
I'm a fun girl and like a good joke too, but I think he behavior is a little immature.
Does anyone else think this behavior is strange and a little gross?

I think this question is fake.....

but yes i think its disgusting.....

hang out with people your own age... that are actually mature.....

that man's grosss....




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I have a boyfriend who is really awesome. He is a year younger than me. His name is *Michael.* My freind always flirts with him and he flirts back. What should i do?

Talk to him about it. Say you dont feel comfortable with him flirting with your friend.

♥ Melissa
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Toodles.

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

AXE is better!! But TAG is still awesome!! Consider yourself warned, lol.
Yup, Yup.

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Toodles.

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First of all I'm a 14 year old male. I would like to know if this girl likes me at all. Here's why I think she does: Everyday when I hang out with some of my friends, if we pass by her, for example at a football game, she'll only say Hi to me and she'll get all excited. I'm a shy kind of guy and I usually just say hi and blush. She's a popular girl and even in class when she sits on the other side of the room she'll stand up and wave and say hi. I talk to her on ICQ sometimes, but it's nothing big. Should I go up and talk to her, I mean, I do sometimes but I don't have anything to talk about. Also, She usually hangs out with older guys, would she want to talk to me? Most of the guys in my grade are immature jerks though.

Yea, it seems like she does. She gets all exicted which means somethign like "omg its him," lol. Ask her just in case. Maybe in a note because you said you were a shy kind of guy.

Good Luck

♥ Melissa
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im going out with this girl sort off and we love each other and has said that to each other but i dont want to feel in love i dont want to be in love with her and i dont want her to love me back i dont no why its how i feel so i told her that and she said well i cant not tell u how i feel about u because i said can we jus like not say our feelings for each other but now she wont even talk to me what should i do?

Wow. Okay, well its not your fault because you just didn't feel in love with her. I think you should tell her that you're sorry, and you couldn't fall in love with her. And that you want to be friends. Hopefully she will understand!
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Best of Luck
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ok this is probably the stupidest question here, and if it gets deleted thats ok, im just curious.

now ive never done this, and dont plan on it, but if youre a girl, with a boyfriend, and you kiss(lips or french) a *gay guy* is that still cheating on your boyfriend?
lol. im sorry, im just curious and kind of want to see opinions on it.

Thats the funniest q i've ever heard! Anyway, its cheating no matter what!

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ok there is this guy. i talk to him on the phone every night. i really like him and i know he likes me too cause he said it to me on the phone yesterday. i had a secret i wanted to tell him which was that i liked him. he was trying to get the secret out of me for days. and everytime he would always say "you only have one life to live, so live it to the best," cause he didnt want me to be afraid of telling him the secret. so i told him and hes like, "well i like you too...where do we go from here?" and i said i dont know and there was silence for about 4 seconds lol. then he kinda chnaged the subject and after a while his mom was yelling at him to get off so we had to hang up. i can't help thinking about that "one life to live" thing though. should i ask him out? the only problem is that he isn't really allowd to talk to girls. he told me that if his mom answered then to pretend that he had the wrong number or just pretend to be a guy lol. but if his dad answered then it was ok. so i dont really know what to do. does this mean he won't ask me out? i really really really like him and i really want to go out on a date with him. what do you think, should i ask him out or wait until he asks me?

Ask him out !! Its better to be rejected than to not try!!
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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

It simple. Just say sure. Unless you dont like the guy. If you're JUST looking for a boyfriend, and not because you like him, then dont say yes.

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can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D

Like You- Bow Wow & Ciara
My Boo- Usher & Alicia Keys
and
Dilemma-Nelly & Kelly Rowland

♥ Melissa
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ok i think im a horrible kisser i dont actually know i never asked anyone if i was so im just curious what is hmm how to explain this what is a good way to kiss someone like how would you do it that they would definetly like it and not be a bad kisser??

Nobody can tell you EXACTLY how.
Here are some good websites
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
http://www.virtualkiss.com
^ there are LOTS of tips right there
♥ Melissa
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i had a boyfriend for almost 3 years we did everything for eachother i thought he loved me but i guess not...i found out he cheated on me 3 times and he is in the military..he got stationed in germany met a girl and brought her home..wat should i do??

If he cheated on you the same thing is going to happen to the german girl. Move on. Unless you want to find him in bed with 3 other girls... again.
♥ Melissa
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ok so my boyfriend i went to a boy girl party and we palyed spin the boottle andi got my kirst like REAL kiss by then like an our later he give me the middle finger and told me to shove it cuase i wasnt "cuddling" with him. Then he apoligized and i gave him a chance and he was like kept getting mad at me b/c i wasnt lik making out with him. He was acting all perverted, do i dump his sorry ass. And how shloud I say it?

What do you think? He wants to make out with you, you say no, he gets pissed. What if he asked you to have sex with him, you're not ready, he gets pissed. You cant go out with a guy that will get mad at you if you dont do what he tells you to. Dump his sorry ass!!!!!!!! Say "Sorry but i dont think its working out. Toodles."
♥ Melissa
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