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Q: this year's science is so hard for me. its called cpe science. i am getting an f (omg!), and the grading period ends in 1 1/2 weeks. if i work very hard do you think i may be able to bring the f to a d? im sure we will be having a test tomorrow or thursday, and we will have more labs and papers to be handed in. actually all my grades are slipping....please, i need help.
WORK HARD! I dont meed hardly work i mean WORK HARD!

Q: i love my boyfriend so much and he says he loves me but we barly talk maybe its because we live far apart i dont know. what should i do?
Hey! i can relate cuz well i just moved and now we live about 25 min. apart each other i havent seen him for 2 weeks now and its been 6 months today and uhh i miss him! but onto you now!! Just tell him how you feel thats wht i did i just said u no i no its hard to see eachother and its not our fault but i just dont think we talk enough.. u keep your distnace now.. whats wrong.. try that and you'll b sure to get somewhere with that

Q: Two Questions: How can you tell if a guy likes you??

#2- Okay I like this boi Richard. He my friends talk to him alot and they say he says he likes me, but he's shy and he won't tell me, so and I am one of those pplz who are need to be reassured all the time. So it's like my friends are constantly asking him and I know that can push him away. But today my friend Taja asked him if he liked me (and I didn't tell her to) and he said no. And then she was like "Right.....look me in the face and say that" and he couldn't look at her and he didn't say anything....cause he was lying she said. So then I saw him after school today and he had the biggest smile on his face and he was waving at meeh. And also the same morning, he was watching everything I did when I wasn't looking....so how I can tell if he likes me....
TALK TO HIM YOURSELF!!

Q: Homecomings coming up which means the dance, the pep rally, and the bon fire. One of the best weeks of school. And its great cause I actually have someone to go with to the dance. :) I need a dress though still. So my question is, what can I do during homecoming to make the best of it? And whats a good kind of dress to wear? Or even just say if your goin this year to urs or a past experience. I want this homecoming to be really memorable, especially cause of the guy Im with now. :)
Well look at sites get alot of sleep to!! Just be happy excited and everything good trust me it'll be memorable no matter what

Q: Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year?
I dont know if its just a crush its might be a lil more then that but its not bad you just really like him and everything has 2 b perfect u think

Q: Okay, here's the thing. I have a friend who used to really really like this guy. She was like obsessed! :o It annoyed me sometimes...well, onto the point. I like him now, and my friend likes somebody else. It's been quite a while since she liked him. Well, now I like him. But I'm afraid my friend might still like him, plus I'm not sure he likes me back, even though I think so. Please answer, and please be realistic. Don't be all like "Forget your friend, ask him out!!11"

Thanks in advance...
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Yeah DONT forget your friends thats mean and everybody knows friends come first in any situation like this because they wont leave and the guys will... so just talk to her about it and see what she has to say about it and talk to him about it to

Q: i need good way to study because the way i study doesnt work and i cant afforid to lose a another test this semster.PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
I make a story out of my questions and answers and memorize the story and it helps me alot i ACED the first test i did that for i got a 99% and it was the highest in that class... but then again that was in 7th lol

Q: i have a friend that has been my best friend for like my whole life. but lately she has been deserting me and my(and her) other friends and hanging out with people that she either hated or made fin of last year. i have tried to b mad at her, but she just ignores me when i ignore her. what should i do???!!!
Well just talk to her and see why she is doing this and if her "new friends" ditch her your not gunna wanna take her back cuz you guys are just like leftovers to her

Q: ok well i have been "best friends" with this girl since middle of 6th grade. I am now almost half way through my 8th grade year. We are one together. Me and this girl share EVERYTHING together...or so i thought..we used to just talk and talk and talk bout things we needed to get out..now i ask her bout them and shes like cant tell you, top secret. I have also noticed that she doesnt chill with me as much anymore, shes usually with her sister...wat can i do to get my BEST FRIEND back to who she was when i first met her?
Your in Jr. High and people start to drift apart and this is the time when you really need to hold on to friendships and let eachother how strong it is and how much u needa hold on to it

Q: i rly wanna get on birth control..because of my period..its irregular and BC is supposed to make it go back on track right???
and do you gain weight or lose it when you 1st start it??
how much does it costs and whats a good web site to get information about it???
No birth control helps you stop... it can mkae you stop having your period. I dont know about the weight but im pretty sure there is side effects and you wont wanna eat so its makes you lose weight probably and try www.planparenthood.com

Q: What exercises can I do to tone my stomach as fast as possible?
Crunches

Q: i need a job and ive passed out flyers for babysitting but forget that... im 14 do u think theres a job out there for my age
Fast Food Places

Q: HI!
15/f california :)

ok well see i want to get a job cuz i dont like how i have to get my shitttt aproved by my parents b4 i get it with their money. But most importantly cuz i got my cell phone taken away and it has been said that i wont get another one under their pocket.so i want to get a job but i am only 15 and my birthday isnt untill february 6th. does anyone know of places wheir they know 15yr old can work.
thank you.
Fast Food Places

Q: Ok So Yesterday at school one of my Best friends asked me and our other best friend to meet her after school Were like ok she said she has something BIG to tell/Ask us... Were like ok y cant you tell us now... she's like she needs her boyfriend with her, we dont know what to think well school finally comes to an end. She's like ok I Haft to ask you something Im like ok spill she ask's me will you two be godmothers because she is expecting... She just found out yesterday morning... Now I dont think I can get any advice here but I just needed to get that off of my chest... But how do I let her know that Im here for her and the new arrival to our group? and help prepare her to tell her parents because her dad is seriously gonna kill her boyfriend.

Thanks in advance
Well hey i can help you out in this sort of place... i mean couple of my friends are pregnant or already have a baby but she obviously knows that you'll be there for her if you got asked to be the godmother just help her with the baby and maybe be there with her when she tells her parents

Q: hey, well i went out with this one guy for like 9 1/2 months we did fucking everything together! we spent every day together and its not been a month sense we broke up and i want him bak, but the thing is that i have a new boyfriend...hes a sweetheart and everything, but hes a junior when im only a freshman...my new boy is great but i want my old one bak...i juss want things bak to teh way that they used to b, bc now i dont think i can ever b happy again!!! i miss him so much i still love him and i want him bak to bad...but the thing is idk if he wants me bak...i feel really bad about this whole situation...please help me!!!

P.S.- dont tell me to move on!!! i would if i could trust me, but he is all that my heart wants!!! HELP!!!!
Yup yup yup! been there done that.. people told me MOVE ON!! GRR TRIX MOVE ON! i couldnt .. or so i thought i didnt think it was fair exactly to the boy i was going out with ... hey it turned out to be a good relationship i new i had to move on but i just thought i couldnt... so.. i did.. slowly but i did so just try i know its not something you wanna hear its nothing i wanted to hear either but you know what.. just try k? just dont think about it .. well try anyhoot dont look at pictures and avoid seeing him

Q: someone told me that if water is cold it fastens up your metabolism more then warm water would, is that true? also what other things speed up your metabolisn..thank you
Never heard of it but if you just wannna tkae some pills or something then you surely can check into that but i dont think there is any other way then that

Q: I just recently got over my ex..but now im realizing that i may like my best friend's ex. She is still far from over him..i could never go out with him..help?
Just talk to her about it.. but dont go out with him if its gunna hurt her

Q: My computer has this virus but im not quite sure if it is a virus... What it does is put this site in our AIM profiles http://www.clicknewsnewnet.net/news/articles....
that is not the site because i didnt want any1 to click on it but anyways im not quite sure how to get rid of it....any help would be greatly appreciated..thanks
I think its AIMfight.com or something search on Askjeeves i got rid of it just keep deleting and then u have restart your comp. but go to askjeeves and ask him how to get rid of it

Q: i was informed by email that i had a new question in my inbox, so i logged on and the inbox link was bolded and had (1) next to it. when i clicked it, it said i had no unanswered questions. my email tells me it was sent at 3:00 pm this afternoon, and i havent answered any questions asked from today. how can i get my question back? :(? -ask_anything
It happans all the time i think its happaned to everybody a time or 2 before

Q: Hi its Lissa...okay i well i got my progress report in the mail today and iim failing 3 classes and passing 3 (those aint that great either) and i told my mom and now shes all pissed like REALLY pissed she calls every 2 minutes n yells at me and she's like 'WHAT THE HELL!' n we have to go to my aunts funeral tomorrow at 11 am and now she's saying i can't go because of my grades, isn't that gay? shes my AUNT! and she's also like your not going into drivers ed and never getting a car EVER if u dont get all good grades and blah blah blah its really pissing me off i even started crying. im doing better now, i turn in most of my work im just not that smart and she expects me to be all smart and shit when im not...she keeps bugging me about it and im so annoyed...and thats just on the phone what the hell am i gonna do when she gets home from work!? she knows my 'situation' or she should cuz when school started i was really depressed and suicidal and everything was messed up, now im on anti depression medicine so im doing better and trying harder in school. my counselor even told me not to be so hard on myself i have a lot goin on and idk what to do about this...sorry this is long but ah..what do i do? thanks so much!!!
Well... hey you sound like me :) what a cawinkedink! Except i got a bit more going on both my g-maws have cancer and both taking Kimo cept 1 refused and my uncle needs a heart and now his mechanicla heart well his battery is dying and my other uncle needs a kidney and well... thats it for now... hopefully things will get better but just try your hardest im not failing any classes and thank the lord for that.. i dont study... EVER! just really concentrate in school.. i hate school so its hard to do i know take it from me ... and my "bro" just always told me to stick with it cuz its something i must do and if i want a good life keep them grades high!

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bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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