Ok So Yesterday at school one of my Best friends asked me and our other best friend to meet her after school Were like ok she said she has something BIG to tell/Ask us... Were like ok y cant you tell us now... she's like she needs her boyfriend with her, we dont know what to think well school finally comes to an end. She's like ok I Haft to ask you something Im like ok spill she ask's me will you two be godmothers because she is expecting... She just found out yesterday morning... Now I dont think I can get any advice here but I just needed to get that off of my chest... But how do I let her know that Im here for her and the new arrival to our group? and help prepare her to tell her parents because her dad is seriously gonna kill her boyfriend.
Additional info, added Tuesday October 19 2004, 10:32 pm: Oh yeah the b/f is planing on helpin on stayin and helpin... They plan on stayin together and all and I already made it clear that he's goin to if I hafta hunt him down... and they want the baby. Oh yeah She's 16 the guy is 15 and I told her I would be honored to be one of this child's Godmothers.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday October 21 2004, 2:27 pm: Well hey i can help you out in this sort of place... i mean couple of my friends are pregnant or already have a baby but she obviously knows that you'll be there for her if you got asked to be the godmother just help her with the baby and maybe be there with her when she tells her parents [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Pwarx answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 5:08 pm: Oh, your friend and her boyfriend are in SO much trouble. I recommend to your friend using reverse psychology before actually bringing up the subject...but she might want to hide her boyfriend away for a little bit....you know how dads are XD [ Pwarx's advice column | Ask Pwarx A Question ]
XsUpErGeRLx answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 4:35 am: Just let her know that yew are going to be there for her through all of it. Because I heard that it can be very tough to raise a child at such a young age and go through all the changes. Actually my mom had me when she was 15! So yeah! Thats really good that her boyfriend plans on staying by herside! Not a lot of guys these days would do that! She's very lucky! I hope everything goes well with her and the baby! Hope I could help!
IKnowWhatYouMean answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 7:59 pm: thats great that your gonna stand by your friends side.. just make sure that your realy close by when she tells her dad.. just in case he does something irrational and she needs support.. make sure you let her know she can get through this and it wont always be this hard.. she'll probably have a few break downs and doubt herself but you have to make sure that you can build her back up and tell her that shes gonna make an amazing mother and tell her not to quit after shes come this far.. good luck to you love mucho [ IKnowWhatYouMean's advice column | Ask IKnowWhatYouMean A Question ]
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