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hey guys i was just wondering, can u shower w/ a tampon in...need reply's fast, i'm running late (i just got my period this morning) will rate high, much love

yep you can but you can take it out to and it wont hurt anything. beinggirl.com = great source.

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Is it wrong to have sex with someone,thats older than you by 3 years.
And another question,people that have taken meth.....did it make you more sexual? or anything?

if theyre over 18, yes theres somthing wrong with it. other than that, no.
meth is illegal. dont use it.

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if i get fingered am i still a virgin?

yep.

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yeah I'm a 14/m. I went to a party with some of my older brothers friends. I was drinking, and ended up sleepin with this girl. Now when I pee it really hurts. but I'm to afriad to tell mom, cuz she'll find out becouse she's really regilous
and said if i ever drank and was cought she would send me to a boys home. I need help bad!

I'll rate HIGH! Really HIGH!

Thanx

Plz help!

hmm well you could ask her to take you to the doctor because it hurts to pee...you dont need to tell her anything else and when the doctor's exanming you, have her leave. the doctor has to keep it confidential. i dont think the drinking caused it so she pretty much will never know. stay safe!

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My friend who is younger than me is a 32a in bra size. She is in 6th grade. Is that small or big for her age??

its perfectly fine.

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so i woke up in the middle ofthe night the other day... and you see i was going to pee and i heard scary sounds coming from the basement. I did what my mama always told me and went down there with a shovel that i always keepunder my bed. So i tiptoe down and find this person like rollingaround in the basement.. so i hit him.. and then omg this is horrible.. it was my sister andher bf!!! they were having sex:o whatdo i tell my mom?? and my sister?? how can i confront her? i dont think she is ready emotionly. Is 37 too young?? idk thanx I RATE HIGH!!!!

maybe you should bring the shovel, tell her thats what caused the marks on her body, not her bf that goes to her house when shes 37 to have sex.

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How do you find your breast cup size???

beinggirl.com has everything you need to know!

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I am a Christian who doesn't go to church. I pray every night and believe that Jesus died for our sins and that God exists.
My question is that why do so many other Christians put down other ones that don't go to church? I have a relationship with God, too! Thanks.

you know what, i feel the same way. church is not for everyone. i'm forced to go but i really believe that if i worship God in my own way, i would have a better realationship with him. i really dislike getting dressed up for it. other christians will put you down because the need to feel like better christians than you. church is the "good" thing to do and anyone whoe doesnt is automatically a sinner in their eyes. dont let them pressure you... he's your God too and you dont need to live up to other sinner's expectations.

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I jammed my middle finger on my left hand and it kills! :-( so I need to know how to fix if before the morning cuz i have basketball!
Thanx

pop it back in place...its gonna hurt like a mother but its what you gotta do. tape it to your ring finger and take it easy.

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There's a homecoming dance on Saturday that I want to go to. There's a girl I really like and want to ask her to go with me. People have told me that I should ask her. I've never done anything like this before and am really nervous. Can you please give me help on what to do? Thanks a lot.

awww! dont put all your self worth into whether she goes with you or not...just talk to her and ask her. heres my version. "i know its short notice but do you wanna go to homecomming with me?" "SURE OMFG TOTALLY!!". oh and dont crap your pants...not sexy!

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ok i'm 14..turning 15. Im a freshman. homecoming is next next friday and i dont have a date. i dont understand why a guy wont ask me. i am NOT ugly. i am actually really pretty. i used to model. i am NOT mean. i am a really nice person. i like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me. any ideas? i dont think he likes anybody else. should i just ask him? is that weird? i really dont want to do that cause i think is akward.

its just a dance...i say ask carlos if he has a date and if he doesnt, go for it!!

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Hi im 13/f and i have this guy friend who lives down the street from me and we are really tight i mean his parents would trust us both enough that they could leave the house and we could be upstairs alone(i swear we dont do anthing) we spend a lot of time together and i mean i can just like lay on his bed while he plays on the comouter or plays vidio games and we can talk about ANYTHING he is the only guy who i an acually talk to .... but the thing is i think ive developed a crush on him.... wat can i do to take our relationship further????...thanks

ok well youre prolly not gonna like what im about to say but, crushes will pass. once to you take it further (you will not have parent's trust when your together, let me tell ya) you can never get your friend back. you have an awesome friendship. dont waste it on a silly crush.

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I knew the answer to this riddle when I was little, but I can't remember it now.

Here is the riddle:
What is greater than God
worse than the devil
the poor have it
the rich need it
and if you eat it, you'll die?

"nothing"

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What do you guys think of the idea of having sex with your ex boyfriend that you are thinking about getting back together with?

I just want to know if y'all think its a good idea or not and why.

Background info:
It was a nutural break up
We broke up becasue we kind of just got sick of each other
It was getting too serious for me (not him)
He was my first
I wasn't his first
We've been broken up for almost 2 months.
And we do entend on getting back together...eventually


i'm 17/f and he's 19/m

Well, he's over 18 and you're not legal yet. i dunno what the laws are in your area but in some places thats illegal. BUT ANYWAY, it will only complicate things...really. wait until you are actually back together. having sex with him won't make him love you or want you back. thats just my opinion tho. if you want to have sex with him then go ahead, nothing can stop you.

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what does it mean to jack off?

thats when a guy uses his hand to please himself...aka masturbation.
www.urbandictionary.com
^they have every word you'll ever need!

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well im a fresman in high school and i still haven't gotten mi period! ( i no pretty sad huh?) well anyways im afraid ill get it in school and ill be wearing white pants... what can i do? i don't want any surprsies

i didnt get mine till freshman year. first time you get it you dont have much blood so dont worry about it. keep supplies in you backpack if your worried.

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14/f... just wondering if 34B is small for my age. Please help - I'm really worried!!!

nope its fine, trust me.

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Hey i want to take a shower with my boyfriend but idk what to do in ther other ppl told me to just make out with him and have sex but thats not waht i want to do.. so does anyone have anyideas please help I RATE 5's

Siren_Cytherea knows what shes talking about..that was what i was gonna say. so basically im saying i agree with her..its a fun idea haha! have fun!

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whats a good kind of perfume that smells really good.. like a girly type of perfume that will last through the day.. i want a perfume that i can buy at the mall thats pretty cheap

august from hollister is amazing! curious (aka the britney spears perfume) is awesome...im yet to buy it myself, but my friend has it...she got it for $14 at target.

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Just a quick question for general purposes. To be a level 2 moderator, what are some advised numbers? I know the FAQ said that it only goes to people who rate and have high column ratings, but are there advised stats? Like for L1, you need 30 days, 5 ratings, average rating of 4.0 or better, and have been a member for like a week. For L2, what is ADVISED? A year with an average rating of 4.5 with 1,000 question rated, or what?

PS: I know the FAQ. I've read it many times. I just want an idea.

i know what you mean...i too want to be a L2 but they pick like the very best even if youve been on here 3 years and rated 100000. if they dont like you, they wont pick you. kinda sucks. just be the best L1 you can be.

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