Hi im 13/f and i have this guy friend who lives down the street from me and we are really tight i mean his parents would trust us both enough that they could leave the house and we could be upstairs alone(i swear we dont do anthing) we spend a lot of time together and i mean i can just like lay on his bed while he plays on the comouter or plays vidio games and we can talk about ANYTHING he is the only guy who i an acually talk to .... but the thing is i think ive developed a crush on him.... wat can i do to take our relationship further????...thanks
froggy1983 answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 1:35 am: well this could be a sticky situation. If you really like him talk to him and tell him that you like him and you want your relationship to go further than just friends. The only thing is he might say yeah okay but it might freak him out and it might ruin the friendship. But if I really liked the guy I would definitely give it a try. [ froggy1983's advice column | Ask froggy1983 A Question ]
thund3rstruck answered Monday September 26 2005, 4:50 pm: I'm sumone who has had acrush on my bffl for years and well if youre thinking bout asking em out let sum time pass and if you still like him it woud be a good idea to relle think bout it more seriously... but i don't recommened going out wit em...and if you do spend time alone out at like the mall ease yourself into it then ask him out [ thund3rstruck's advice column | Ask thund3rstruck A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Monday September 26 2005, 4:35 pm: ok well youre prolly not gonna like what im about to say but, crushes will pass. once to you take it further (you will not have parent's trust when your together, let me tell ya) you can never get your friend back. you have an awesome friendship. dont waste it on a silly crush. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
icey0990 answered Monday September 26 2005, 4:27 pm: a lot of us find ourselves in these kinds of situations..myself included.
so, the first step is to flirt,hint around you like him..and find out if he has feelings back. lets face it..without him returning these feelings, nothing can progress. (i know, it sux..i always seem to get myself in this kind of situation lol) So, ask him if he ever thought of taking the friendship further ..or get a friend to ask how he feels. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
afro_timmy answered Monday September 26 2005, 4:14 pm: im having the same problems.
i am planning just to kiss him
and see wat happens from there really
or you could explain how you feel cos best mates always make the best relationships cos of the amount of trust already there.
hope i helped
emma xoxo [ afro_timmy's advice column | Ask afro_timmy A Question ]
Curemysadness answered Monday September 26 2005, 4:11 pm: Tell him that you like him. Flirt with him, and do cute things to get his attention. Laughing at his jokes, and making him feel important are definite ways for you to show him that you care! Who knows, maybe he likes you too! You just have to be brave enough to make the first move..in this case it would be to tell him how you feel. Good luck! [ Curemysadness's advice column | Ask Curemysadness A Question ]
The_best_there_is answered Monday September 26 2005, 3:32 pm: instead of sitting on his bed while he does that get closer to him and talk and like wrestle him cover his eyes while hes trying to play and gflirt if that is the relationship ur talking about if not email me and i will give you ideas for a non together advice lol hope i could help ya [ The_best_there_is's advice column | Ask The_best_there_is A Question ]
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