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        Well just talk to him maybe right a note and just hang out and stuff get his number talk on the phone and maybe if u 2 get to no eachother more then he will ask u out
         
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        well write a note to like a counsolar or something and just sign it annomaniss or whatever however you spell that word but that way nobody new it was u
         
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        well i guess i can relate to that.. i just had to speak up and tell them how i feel because now that i live in the middle of nowhere they think i dont have time for them and that i made new friends and replaced them so just speak up
         
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        Because boys are dumb lol they just dont think really they go more for the popular girls and try n look cool rather then going for the people they really like
         
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        Well i think thats pretty common i have alot of guy friends and they are more like brothers to me are real good friends i find alot of them liking me to but its just life and girls and guys get along better then girls and girls cuz we all know us girls are kinda picky lol and guys could honestly care less
         
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        Well just let her know that you think right now isnt the best time to be doing piano lessons. let her know u think your grades are suffering and slipping away to very bad ones and you dont want any interference and you might want to continue piano later on when you start getting better grades and kept them that way for awhile.
         
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	My name is Trix, I am 17. I  love pink, and degrassi.
 
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
 
I've been there done that im sure
 
ex. (with the number of expierences)
 
-Long term relationships (2) 
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1) 
-Broken bones (11) 
-Stitches (2) 
-Seen someone killed (1) 
-Loss of family (1) 
-Cancer in the family (2) 
-Family in Iraq (1) 
-Mom had brain surgery (2) 
-Loss of pet (4) 
-Moved from state to state (5) 
-New highschool (2) 
-Car accident (3)
 
Like I said "been there done that"
          
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