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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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Does anywun no any great shampoos that will make my hair smooth, stronger, and Possibly straighter?
Im using garnier nutirice but my friend told me that kind wusnt good. I have dry/damaged hair, so i culd use the help!

* I RATE 5s FOR EVERYWUN =D* (link)
kids shampoos are a good bet, im 18 and i still use loreal kids. it does smoother and stronger, but not straighter.


I think this guy likes me but im not sure what can I do to give hints that I like him? (link)
say "hi i like you"


I was just wondering how long it takes for your boobs to grow in after you get your period.Dose it happen right away?
i rate high. thanks :) (link)
they start around your 1st period and stop around 20


im reallie worried becuz im positive that im ready and all but i hear that your first time you'll bleed and it would be kinda embarassing if i bleed on my boyfriend so can you tell me how to avoid it and how long you usually will bleed? (link)
usualy you dont bleed that much, and if you use tampons you very well might have already poped your cherry so you wont bleed. dont worry though the guy will probably be happy to be having sex so he wont care. actualy if you still have your hymen its probably more plessurable for the guy (especially if he himself is a bit experianced) so you have nothing to worry about.

to prevent it you need to pop it yourself. something like a dildo is probably your safest bet but assuming you dont have one you need something of the approximate size and shape of a penis (an mnm minis tube could work) . just make sure to wash it off first. get in the shower and use that to pop it.


Okay so my parents are waaay too over protective. I am 15/f and there is still soo much stuff i don't know about because

a) They won't tell me,
b) They wouldn't ever let me go to any SexEd classes, and
c) My friends won't tell me because they think it's gross that I want to know.

Dictonary definitions I can't understand, so could you please tell me what these mean/are:

1) "Pop your cherry"
2) Blowjob
3) Getting "wet"
4) Cum
5) Why are there flavored condoms, they just go in your vagina, and your vagina doesn't have tastebuds, right?
6) Masturbating
7) Fingering
8) Anal sex
9) What is Ciara talking about in Goodies?
10) What is Ashlee talking about in LaLa? What soes it all mean> "You make me wanna LaLa," and "I like it better when it hurts," etc.

HELP! (link)
1)the first time you have sex your hymen/cherry (up inside your vagina) pops, it hurts and bleeds a little

2)using your mouth on a guys penis to plesure him

3)when a girl gets horny and her vagina gets moist

4)the stuff that comes out after an orgasm (the good feeling at the end of sex)

5) refer to number 2

6) plesuring yourself sexualy, for a girl it means either playing with your clitoris or putting your fingers/otehr things up your vagina

7)putting your (or someone elses) fingers up your vagina

8)guys dick gos in girls butt

9)no idea never seen it

10)most likely sex

erectiona nd boner is the same thing, when a guy is aroused his dick gets longer and harder. if you have any other questions ask me privately becasue questions this explicit tend to get deleted.


What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday (he'll be 16)? I know what he likes, but he's already got a billion of those things already. I wanted it to be different and unique. My friend had the idea of getting him like a build-a-bear that i make with a birthday outfit and stuff. Does that sound totally cheesy or is it a cute idea? I wasn't sure.. But if you have any other good ideas, please help me! (link)
it sounds totally cheesy, but cheesy is cute. hes gonna love no matter waht you get him. if hes 16 he should be getting a car soon, you could try a car accessory. other than that gift ideas are hard without more info.


When I'm making out with my boyfriend, he always gets a boner. I'm like right on top of him so it really turns me on. Is this happening to him because I'm turning him on? I'm a 15 year old girl so I don't know alot about this.

Thanks,
~*~Amy~*~ (link)
yeah your turning him on, that should be pretty obvious.


Me and this guy were fuxkin and he put "it" in me and it hurt too bad so he took "it" out .. am i a virgin or not? (link)
not


How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity? (link)
it depends on you, id say 16 or so


Ok one day. . i had a head ache so i asked my friends if they had any asprin and one of my friends gave me a pill but i didnt know what it was but she just said that it worked just like it well about an hour after i took that pill i became very horny all through school ....when i got home i was sooo horny and i couldnt find my vibrator and my fingers were sore from fingering myself in the girls bathroom at school sooo the only thing to go to was my baby brother who is five. . . is that wrong?? I feel so weird and i dont know if i should tell anyone?? (link)
yes very wrong, dude a 5yo dick wouldn't even be big enough. ever heard of sticking otHer this up there? like an m&m minis tube or the fingers on your other hand? you probably scared your brother for life.


I got my prom dress todaii and its strapless...do you think it would look better to have my hair in an updo or styled down? (link)
down


I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do? (link)
ok so if you really like him alot you need time to figure this out. tell him you have crabs. actually that should by plenty of time so you wont have to have sex and you can stay with him. but if he is making you have sex he really doesn't sound like a good boyfriend. there are plenty of good guys out there, well not plenty but a few. dump this loser and find one of the good guys.


I am a guy who has liked the same girl for a very very long time. We used to be real close, but then she found out that I liked her and things got weird between us. She would never talk to me, ignore me, that kinda thing. So I made up a lie, I posted on my xanga that I didnt like her anymore although I think she still suspects. Anyway, we've been getting along ALOT better ever since I said that. Should I just go ahead and come out? If I do come out, should I ask her out? (link)
last time you told her it didn't go well, try again it will probably be worse


My boyfriend took this test that was like "20 questions to a better girlfriend" and I took one that was "20 questions to a better boyfriend" Well, in the end result I got a 55, which is horrible and he got a 91, which is pretty close to ask high as you can get. At first he told me he answered the questions unhonestly, but soon changed his mind when I asked him again. What I need help on is why I got a 55. I've always told him I'm a bad girlfriend, but he'd never listen and now my point is proven to me. (link)
according to a magazine quiz hillary duff and i are a perfect match so if these things really work im gonna be a very happy man someday.


right so i am a hermaphrodite (i have a penis and boobs) and i have boners when i am near this really hot girl and i have boners around this really hot group of guys. and one of the guys asked me to have sex with them. what should i do i cant have sex w ith them b/c i donmt havfe a vagina. what do i do? (link)
let him hit you from behind.


whats a labia??? (link)
the outer part of the vagina


well people tell me frankly
does size really matter. or its just a pshycological phenomena.
would even a small one suffice. (link)
size matters because of the psychological phenomenon, as long as its not freak9shly small itll sufice


My car has recently strared to squeal/screach when I break. It's not all the time, mostly when I am in traffic. I assumed I needed break pads, so I had a friend check them, and they are fine. She assumed I have a "hard spot" in the pad. Could this be the cause? What else could it be? (link)
dude dont mess with the brakes, even if there is only a remote possibility of a problem, go to a mechanic, the brakes are the most important part of the car, your life depends on them.


ok well i hope you can answer ouestions well mine are about sex and well my body #1 the first time tou have sex does it hurt #2 do you still feel it when you wear a condom #3 ok well is it normal for me to feel wet when well im excited #4 is it normal to be scared. and well people call me prude because well im 16-17 and the only thing ive done was kiss please help (link)
1.yes
2.yes
3.yes
4.yes

want more in dept explanation drop one in my box


wow this is really embaressing but is it normal for a gurl to well masterbate and like is masterbation different like does it feel different
when your having sex you know like does sex and 4 play feel the same or different (link)
yes its normal, sex is better




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