ok well i hope you can answer ouestions well mine are about sex and well my body #1 the first time tou have sex does it hurt #2 do you still feel it when you wear a condom #3 ok well is it normal for me to feel wet when well im excited #4 is it normal to be scared. and well people call me prude because well im 16-17 and the only thing ive done was kiss please help
EJ47 answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 2:39 pm: 1. Yes, it will hurt the first time. If it hasn't already been ruptured, your hymen will have to be broken, and plus the vaginal walls are being stretched /way/ more than they're used to (if you ever masturbated that is) Only have sex for the first time with someone you can trust will be gentle ith you, and slow. Its no good if the first time isn't pleasureable...
2. Yes, you can still feel a man entering/exiting you if he has a condom on. All a condom is is a latex cover, but his penis is still there.
3. Of course its ok to feel a little horny when you're excited (about it, I assume) All for the beter, really, because its practically personal lube ( I dont hink the stuff on the market is trustworthy x.x )
4. Yes, it is natural for anyone to be scared if they are having sex for the first time, even the guy. You'll be unsure of what you'll feel, are you doing this or that right (if theres a wrong way :P ) But yes, like alot of other BIg things in life, you will be a little scared..
mrs_radcliffe answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 1:10 pm: 1. for most girls sex does hurt, but after a few times the pain gets easyer.
2. Feel what? bit confused at that.
3. Yes its very normal for a girl to become wet when you get exited.
4 Its very normal to be scared lots of girls are. There nothing wrong with that if you dont feel your ready to go further thats your choice and i admiare that!!!!
craazylau answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 1:04 pm: Ok 1) the first time you have sex it might hurt a little bit but not for long its really not as bad as everyone makes out! 2) Sex with a condom is very similar to sex without if thats what you mean (i didnt really understand the question so let me know if i've misunderstood you!) 3) it is perfectly normal for you to feel wet when you are excited and 4) everyone is scared about the whole sex thing even if they say they're not- but when you find the person you want to have sex with its likely you wont feel as scared as you think as you'll be in it together- believe me! Being 16/17 and only kissed is not something you need to worry about at all- there are loads of people in your position its just that no one ever admits it- I bet half the people that call you a prude are virgins themselves they're jsut lying about it. Ignore them next time they say anything like this just ignore them they'll soon get bored! Dont worry you're perfectly normal! [ craazylau's advice column | Ask craazylau A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 12:56 pm: 1.It does hurt a little for some girls but not everyone.Probably depends on the experience of the guy more than anything.
2.Not sure what you need on number 2. Do you still feel pain? Same as no condom. Can the guy feel it? It may not be as good as no condom for him, I'm sure it isn't. BUt, don't fall for that line because there are to many diseases out there for him to go without.Not to mention you need all the pregnancy protection you can get.
3.Yes it sure is.
4. Yes it is normal to be scared.And your sex life should be private so it's nobody elses business if you have or haven't had sex. If they want to call you a prude just let them. You will have a much better experience if you wait for that special guy anyway. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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