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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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what foods are filling that you don't have to eat a lot of and will keep you full for a while and are good for you?

protein shakes.. ♥ Dez

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I need help!! I wanna look preppy!! LoL !! I was wondering if platos closet had cute preppy clothes see ive never been there but people told me about it soo pleaze help me!!

Yes they have girly preppy clothes there.. and they are pretty cheap too.. ♥ Dez

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Would you consider it healthy if an 18 year old girl is not (and has never been) sexually active and doesn't masturbate?

Probably as healthy as you can get.. ♥ Dez

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HEY ! IM TURNING 14 T0MORROW ! & I REALLLY WANT A J0B ! IS THERE ANYWHERE I C0ULD WORK ? LIKE BESIDES WENDYS =/ ? CUZZ I DONT REALLY WANNA WORK THERE. LOL ANY IDEAS?? thanks a tonnn! xoxo

Babysitting...? gerocery store..? ♥ Dez

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Fourteen.Female.

so last night before getting into the shower I look and my left breast has what looks to be stretch marks almost all over it [exaggeration]. My right one is perfectly normal.
I thought it was growing or something?
Is it normal?

Yes its normal to have stretch marks on your chest.. rub coco butter on them and they should go away when you breast are done growing.. ♥ Dez

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I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why?

11 is a little young.. ♥ Dez

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Sometimes in the day I feel like water or pee is leaking out of my vagina
Is this normal? and even sometimes I get stains in my underwear.

Its discharge.. yes its normal you might be starting your period soon.. ♥ Dez

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Me and my bf have been dating for 6 years and everytime he takes me out to a romanctic place and we come back home he always tries to have sex with me. I tell him sometimes I want to wait til im married. He says he understands and all but then he tries it again in a week. I mean I don't blame him for being horny but I gave him a handjob once but it was like a couple months ago. Now for some reason everytime I see him this month he seems to get depressed everytime. I ask him whats wrong and he says nothing. We still kiss and stuff but I feel like Im doing something wrong. So I gave him another handjob and have been but he still seems depressed.
Is there anything I can do to get him alittle more happier?
and don't think about saying hes gay or something

Well i know givin him some would make him happier but thats not an option, so maybe if your up for it then do something else.. like maybe givin him head.. try talkin to him more like also let him know how you feel about him too.. and expalin to him about the whole sex thing.. ♥ Dez

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how do you have sex with your parents being home. if there room was downstairs and yours was upstairs and you wanted your boo to stay the night. how do you do it without gettin caught!

okay im use to doing this pretty often except i go to his room and his room is exactly next door to his parents room.. well i come through his door cause his window is too high.. just sneak him into your house and also make sure you lock your bedroom door if possible.. dont keep him there all night maybe for a couple hours get him out of your house before your parents wake up in the morning.. or if your parents go to work real early let him out after they leave for work.. but make sure you hide him in somewhere while they get ready for work or whatever if you'd like to do that.. but i suggest gettin him out of your house before they wake up so you dont have that much to worry about.. make sure he doesnt leave anything there like clothing.. which i guess you can always lie about that like say you borrowed it.. make sure you dont make alot of noise if your having sex.. like try to be quite.. maybe try doing it somewhere in your room where it wont make alot of noise..also if you dont wash your sheets in your room make sure you do it instead of like your mom because you can get caught if there something on your sheets or if it has an odor.. hope i helped.. ♥ Dez

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i'm 15 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for like a year and a half. my question is:
if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for like a month, but hasnt like hinted anything about breaking up, whut does it all mean?
- confused

i think you really need to ask him.. and find out whats going on with you and him.. ♥ Dez

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well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her?

This is how my boyfriend told me and it felt so good when he did it this way too.. i went over his house and we were just layin together cuddling and kissing.. then held me real close and said baby i love you so much you mean everything to me he said it real softly in my ear.. that would make her think your serious about it instead of like telling her on the phone or online.. ♥ Dez

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i am 17 and i live in ny. i want to get a tattoo i was wondering how old i have to be. my mom said she dont care if i get one bc she wants one too. were thinking about getting them at the state fair. thanks for your help!

if your mother is with you.. then you can get it done.. ♥ Dez

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I just thought it was kind of sad that some people really in need get less answers or suggestions than someone wanting to redecorate their room. It's just a suggestion, but why don't we all reach out a little more?

alright.. Loves you bunches..

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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react..

Well you shouldnt care how he'll react.. if you feel your not ready then let this guy know.. and it sounds to me you should probably look for a better guy you dont feel funny tellin things to.. he might just only want sex in your relationship if you have one.. just tell him how you feel about the whole sex thing.. and if he cant respect it then screw him..

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i was wondering if you should shave above your knee's and if you do will it turn all gross like when you shave below your knee?

I RATE 5'S

Some people shave above there knees and some don't.. if you shave above your knees it usually stays smoother then below your knees.. *or atleast i think so..* but the good thing about it if you dont feel like spending alot of time shaving your legs you dont always have to shave above your knee.. ♥ Dez

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I like this guy and I don't know if he likes me. Should I ask him out or what. What should I do?

go for it!! ask him out.. if he's single then whats the problem.. you'll never know if he likes ya until you say something.. ♥ Dez

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Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up?

Personally i would keep it cause you might regret it later in life.. if its money problems then give it up for adoption but please dont consider abortion please.. and if i was you after you make your decision and have this child id recommend birth control.. also you might decide to give it up for adoption and then when you bring this child into the world you might decide to keep it.. ♥ Dez

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Hey hey hey... thanks ahead of time. I will rate and leave feedback if it's wanted, but anyways- i dyed my hair about two weeks ago and I absolutely HATE the color of it. I thought that I heard of something called Stripping... which is where you get your hair color stripped and it will go back to your natural color. Is this something real and is it bad for your hair, how much does it cost? Thanks

okay i got this done before about two years ago.. i got it done professionally tho.. its like a chemical they put on your hair.. it smells kinda bad but its worth it if you hate the color of your hair.. but my friend Mara said you can get the chmeical from Sally's.. and i think its just as bad for your hair as hair dye.. i dont think your hair will fall out or anything.. and it cost around ten dollars about the same amount as hair dye.. ♥ Dez

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OK....i am like BOY CRAZY....yet sometimes i look at girs but i still really like boys and i get crushes on boys all the time...im confused does this happen to a lot of ppl?? PLz help i rate high!

yea it does happen to alot of girls i know.. but you'll probably grow out of it cause you'll know what you want in a guy other then looks.. ♥ Dez

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do you think my ex-boyfriend will get a little jealuse if I am in a band full of guys?

why would he care seriously.. i mean he's not with you.. but who knows all guys are different.. ♥ Dez OH ITS SPELLED JEALOUS!

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