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Me and my bf have been dating for 6 years and everytime he takes me out to a romanctic place and we come back home he always tries to have sex with me. I tell him sometimes I want to wait til im married. He says he understands and all but then he tries it again in a week. I mean I don't blame him for being horny but I gave him a handjob once but it was like a couple months ago. Now for some reason everytime I see him this month he seems to get depressed everytime. I ask him whats wrong and he says nothing. We still kiss and stuff but I feel like Im doing something wrong. So I gave him another handjob and have been but he still seems depressed.
Is there anything I can do to get him alittle more happier?
and don't think about saying hes gay or something
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give him head, let him finger you and eat you out do kinky things haha its been 6 years how old are you? dont have sex with him until you feel your completely ready or stay true to marriage or something
xo erica
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Maybe he's gay or somehitng
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It might be a family problem. No matter but if it is, be there for him. Talk to him if it is a matter of family problems. If this guy wants you to jump in the sack wiht him, tell him to forget about it. You 2 really need to talk about sex then. Officially. IF he doesn't respect your views on the matter, then he doesn't respect you or your wishes . So he's not worth it. It may be family too. But you may just need to have the BIG AND OFFICIAL talk about sex.
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DO NOT LET HIM MAKE YOU HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU FEEL SORRY FOR HIM! You shouldn't have to step down, HE should step UP, if you know what I mean. Never let him make you do what you don't want to do.
Hope I helped!
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6 years and all you did was make-out and give him a handjob?? Thats a really long time. Maybe you could try oral sex? Give him a blowjob or something. That would make him happier. I mean you dont have to if you dont feel comftrable with it. But he would still feel sad. Good luck tho!
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There's a very real chance his emotions could be coming from a place that's not even connected to you. He could be having family problems he's not comfortable talking about, pressure from friends or school, or any of a number of things.
If you think his attitude COULD be related to you or your relationship, then you need to talk to him. You can't do something that you assume will make him happy, especially when you aren't clear what the problem is. And using sexual contact as a way to make someone happy is never a good idea. If his happiness is totally dependent on whether or not you get him off, then something isn't right.
So have a conversation with him, and also stay true to your beliefs. If you don't want to have sex before marriage, then you shouldn't have to compromise that. It's your body, and you are the boss of what happens - hopefully this can all be sorted out by using your mouth and asking him what's wrong!
Best of luck.
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Well i know givin him some would make him happier but thats not an option, so maybe if your up for it then do something else.. like maybe givin him head.. try talkin to him more like also let him know how you feel about him too.. and expalin to him about the whole sex thing.. ♥ Dez
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I don't blame again wanting sex now and then especially if your going out. But if that's all he wants then he's not worth it. He's just trying to use you to get some but six years is along time usually in this case he's determined for this relationship to last. I can't really give you any ideas other than cherish him good luck.
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