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does anybody know, if you have unprotected anal, can you get an infection even if you are 100% sure you and your partner are clean? we have both been tested, and i think we might soon, so i'm just looking for the facts, should he still wear a condom? or is it ok? is it ok if he cums inside me?
any information would be very helpful!
thankyou! (link)
you cant contract an std if there isnt one to begin with. meaning if you are both clean, stds just wont appear out of no where. then only way you can get pregnant from anal is if his cum drips down into your vag. besides thattt you should be finee. condom is for your preference at this point, or if you wanna be completely sure to not get pregnant. talk about it with your partnerrr


okay so theres this reallyyyyy hot kid whos ive been obsessed about for like ever and now im finally friends with him. one problem, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. btw im in 10th and theyre in 11th. umm and i really llike my bf but idk now im kinda feeling like restrained and i cant do anything if you know what i mean, cause this really hot kid thats im now friends with i think likes me. would you rather be with the one you love or the one who loves you? so idk what to dooooo! someone please help me (link)
If you absolutely don't like your boyfriend, then leave him. Even though you'll probably never have another chance with him again. And even though you're not even sure if this other guy likes you. And even though you don't know why he likes you, he probably just wants in your pants.


i just started going to a psychologist once a week becuase i was just found out to have depression. In the meantime, i ALWAYS over think things, and its just like i feel everything 10x worse than everyone else! I hurt so much, even the slightest thing. Like I think about the boy I like, and i want to cry. Is there anything i can do to make myself feel better? Like any good ways to get myself to stop over-thinking so much and just be happy? PLEASE help! (link)
I used to be like this. Everytime a depression commercial came on I would say that's me. But, you've got to commit and try to make yourself happier. Start by meditating. Just something simple, go to youtube, find a meditation video, sit back in your chair and listen to it, or lay on your bed and listen to it. Start looking on the positive side of things. If you keep this attitude and keep thinking that it will never change, IT WON'T. The only way to fix it is to take action. Surround yourself by the people that make you happy. Don't let the little things upset you. When you start over-thinking something, change the subject in your mind. Learn to live in the moment. Get it through your head that over-thinking won't change it. But seriously meditation was the answer for me. I went through this about a month ago. Up until last month I was always depressed and sad and I had your attitude about everything. Hope it works and let me know if you need help :]


can you get pregnant if your cherry hasnt been popped? (link)
you can get pregnant if you have sex.
you can break your hymen (popping your cherry) in other ways besides having sex
so yesss


how do u give a good bj? thankx (link)
http://www.bjtutorial.com/

http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/oral_sex/how-to-give-a-blow-job.htm



ok so me and my bf have made out quite a few times, and i was just wondering if there was anything i can do to make him more into it? just make it more exciting? thnx in advance (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=536652


i have a nokia 6102 with at&t service, i was wondering where do i go after i got the text message that says

Follow this link: http://wap.mxr.cc/dl/3118987/95277362/

(link)
If you want the ringtone then press downlode ringtone.


ok so me and my bf have made out quite a few times, and i was just wondering if there was anything i can do to make him more into it? just make it more exciting? thnx in advance (link)
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Out

http://www.wikihow.com/French-Kiss

http://www.webraydian.com/content/view/87/32/

http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/news/article-23392788-details/'Chocolate+is+four+times+more+exciting+than+kissing'/article.do

http://www.kissing101.net/newsletters/newsletter01125.php

http://au.answers.yahoo.com/answers2/frontend.php/question?qid=20080305201409AAtmcfP&show=7


What schools do the "Real Housewives of New York City" send their kids to? (the kids are Avery, Ali, Noel, and victoria). I'm always curious about the school that the rich send their kids to...

THanks!! (link)
I'm not sure about Ali and Victoria but I heard that Noel and Avery dont go to school!


i need love quotes. lost love. sad love. and stuff like that. thanks (link)
http://library.lovingyou.com/quotes/

http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/lovequotes.shtml

http://www.best-love-poems.com/love_quotes.htm

http://www.lovequotescollection.com/


ok well i relle want to get a toungue ring...
andd i dotn know iff yuu guys would thing it was sexyy


do u think it would be attractivee if a girl gott a toungue ringg..

im 5'3 italian nd brazilian
in shape
cutee lol

^^ would it look goood? (link)
Usually when people see a tongue ring they think--slutty. Guys will think it's sexy because they'll automatically think that you'll give them head. Not everyone will think that but most will. Just a heads up...


what does the saying, "blood is thicker than water" mean exacly? cheers. (link)
Blood is thicker than water" is an English-language proverb which generally means that the bonds of family and common ancestry are stronger than those bonds between unrelated people.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_is_thicker_than_water


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okk so i was wondering if you shave 'down there' does it hurt? i have heard it like stings or sumthing-is that true? thanks :) (link)
yess you can get razor burn, which is an irritation. youll only hurt yourself if you cut yourself, so be careful with that, but besides that it shouldnt hurt, unless you get the razor burn, which feels itchy and flaky and uncomfortable. to avoid that, make sure you apply lotion like 2-3 times the day you shave and maybe once th next day


does anyone know what brand jeans have the horse shoe-like design on the back pocket (for girls)? and where can you get those jeans? thanks (link)
They're actually True Religion--"Joey" jeans are a type of jean that they make that have flaps over the back pockets. You'll find that signature symbol on any of their jeans--not just the Joeys. You can get them at any high-end department store or a True Religion store.


guys: if your gf were to tell you a) she wasnt wearing a bra or b) she wasnt wearing underwear would that excite you [if you were with her]

and girls: if you tell your man either a) or b) what does he do/say/whats his reaction? thanks :) (link)
On Valentines day I didn't wear a bra or panties under my dress for my boyfriend and it excited him to no end. He asked me to do it again for him and I got the same reaction. Just make sure it isn't obvious that you aren't wearing anything until you want him to know.


ive only been fingered by 3 guys, and each time that they fingered me i didnt feel any pleasure whatsoever.
i only feel something good when i masturbate, but i dont even orgasm or moan or anything.

why cant i feel good when a guy does it to me? i just kind of sit there and think ..."this is akward, bc im just laying here feeling nothing."
i dont know how to react to that.

help! (link)
I can relate. I'm a silent girl and I only get off by clit stimulation. Perhaps you are like that too? Ask them to rub your clitoris while fingering you or do it yourself while they finger you. ^-^


what does tbh mean?! I've read it online atleast 40 times, and everytime I look at it, think of posibilities. Then I blank, and move on.
So, tbh... (link)
to be honest :)
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=tbh
just google a term like that and itll normally come up (actually you should try urban dictionary first for words like thesee)


a while back me and the bf had sex it was protected but i was so sure i was pregant and starting freaking out and had soemtchae pains, well the sotmache pains were caused from stress, i was so stressed and sure i was pregant i stopped eating and lost 25 lbs and since havent gained it back and told my mom what we did she was upset and banned me to go to his house well she just recently like two days ago let me go over his house...and of course we did it again, we did it twice both times protected and it didnt break that i know of, now my bf's kinda well rllly big and and he likes it rough so he goes extremly fast the next day (yesterday) i kinda had shooting pains in my stomache around my upper abs and bellybutton, and my shoulders are sore and i get this sharp pain in my side to the right of my right boob under my under arm..whats going on? is it me just stressdsing? or could i be pregnantg? (link)
Those aren't normally signs of a pregnancy. You wouldn't have any signs this soon--you're probably just freaking yourself out again and it might just be in your head. It isn't totally uncommon to be sore the next day if you had rough sex the night before. Don't stress out over it because it'll only make your situation worse. Chill for a while and if you're still worried take pregnancy test. The test thought will only be good after a missed period. Most likely than so, you're probably not. So calm down.

I do advise you to stop having sex though--at least until you can do so without freaking out. Since your mom knows about the first time maybe she wont reject the idea of birth control. She obviously doesn't want you having sex since she didn't let you go there for a while--but she'll want you to be safe. But seriously--I'd hold off


What are some things I could do to my boyfriend while we're making out? I don't want to do anything past first base at the moment, but is there anything I could do to turn him on while/instead of just kissing him? (link)
guys like different things. theres obviously touching, like running your hand through this hair, up his shirt, grabbing his arms, and things ilke that. kissing his neck. hard breathing/moaning. all thats good


Does anyone know where I can find a video of the Grease skit from Saturday Night Live on April 5th? It stars Christopher Walkin (link)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=_3iFeM68Ijc
I thiinkk this is it :)




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