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Question Posted Wednesday April 16 2008, 8:35 am

does anybody know, if you have unprotected anal, can you get an infection even if you are 100% sure you and your partner are clean? we have both been tested, and i think we might soon, so i'm just looking for the facts, should he still wear a condom? or is it ok? is it ok if he cums inside me?
any information would be very helpful!
thankyou!

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cloudy_conscience answered Thursday April 17 2008, 5:25 pm:
Yes it is possible to catch infections while engaging in anal, even if you are both STD gree. He should still wear a condom, because there is always a chance that some might leak and enter your vagina. Be very careful your first time engaging in anal, it can be very painful and if not done carefully may do damage to your body.

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Razhie answered Thursday April 17 2008, 1:33 pm:
Even if you believe your partner and yourself to be free of STDs you can still develope infections. The anus was just not designed for that activity, and it can tear or get cut, and of course those wounds can develop infections.

Also, urinary tract infections and yeast infections are common, espcailly in women who engage in anal sex, because of the bacteria that gets disturbed and spread around during the act.

Lastly, he should wear a condom to protect you both agianst unwanted pregnancies. The anus is designed for output, and it will leak. It would certainly be possible to get pregnant in that way.

There are lots of sites out there with the details of how to go about it, so I wont bother with that here. Use google. But if you are going to go ahead with this, accept that it will be a VERY slow process until you can do it without discomfort or harming yourself. You MUST stop if you are in pain and you shouldn't rush it. It will take a long time of practice before it's enjoyable. If you can't do it without hurting yourself, then you can't do it, plain and simple.

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Peeps answered Thursday April 17 2008, 12:44 am:
Anal sex is very risky and there are many dangers of participating in such activities.

Among the diseases with which anal sex is associated are HIV, anal cancer (seriously), typhoid fever, and various diseases associated with the infectious nature of fecal matter or sexual intercourse in general. Among these are: Amoebiasis; Chlamydia; Cryptosporidiosis; E. coli infections; Giardiasis; Gonorrhea; Hepatitis A; Hepatitis B; Hepatitis C; Herpes simplex; Human papillomavirus (HPV); Lymphogranuloma venereum; Pubic lice; Salmonellosis; Shigella; Syphilis; Tuberculosis. Using condoms will decrease these risks; however, they do not protect 100%.

Physical damage to the rectum and anus are serious and hemorrhoids, anal fissures, and rectal prolapse may occur. Damage is more likely if communication is poor or if technique is clumsy; condoms do not help protect against this sort of damage. Basically, if you don't know what you're doing or you end up doing something wrong by accident you may end up in the emergency room having surgery or stitches.

You need to ask yourself some questions:
Can you imagine being rushed to the emergency room? Who would take you? How embarrassed would you feel? Can you deal with paying for them to sew you back up properly? Heck, can you imagine trying to use the toilet after such an experience?

Small tears that can happen during anal sex can easily become infected. The membrane inside the rectum is VERY thin and fragile so it tears very easily. Even if there seems to be no complications the tears can be very irritating and can become inflamed later on. It doesn't matter how "gentle" your partner is, your will probably suffer some tearing and possibly even some bleeding. It can also become uncomfortable for you to pass a stool afterward.

It is also very easy to get a vaginal infection from anal intercourse if your partner enters the vagina after being in the anus. Even if he knows not to enter the vagina afterward, he may accidentally slip. The infection would be bacterial can actually do major damage to you--rendering you infertile. Really, anal sex is more likely to result in an infection than vaginal sex would.

It's also common for urinary tract infections to occur after anal sex. Yes, they are curable but they can become serious if left untreated and are, overall, rather uncomfortable to deal with. Condom usage would help your partner to avoid this complication.

Incontinence has also been reported from engaging in anal sex. Basically this means that the anal sphincter loosens up from the activity. This also means that anal leakage can become an issue for the receiving end. It also may mean the inability to completely control your bowels when needed.

I hope you become better informed before making a serious decision like this so you don't put yourself into a harmful situation.

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orphans answered Wednesday April 16 2008, 10:44 pm:
you cant contract an std if there isnt one to begin with. meaning if you are both clean, stds just wont appear out of no where. then only way you can get pregnant from anal is if his cum drips down into your vag. besides thattt you should be finee. condom is for your preference at this point, or if you wanna be completely sure to not get pregnant. talk about it with your partnerrr

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meghan2492 answered Wednesday April 16 2008, 10:27 pm:
I might not be that big of help, but I've done research.

I've never been able to go through with anal sex because hurts like hell. Some girls think it's better than vaginal sex. I've tried anal and hated every minute of it. I would be very careful and make sure he goes slow because the tissues in your anus are extremely sensitive, you can catch infections.
It's best to use a condom.

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