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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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I HATE MY EX BOYFRIEND! he acts like he still loves me and then he ditches me to smoke. im fourteen. i want to show him that im done with him but idk how... help?

Ignore him. Don't answer his calls. Delete his text messages. Block his sn.. Don't accept his MySpace or Facebook messages (if you have them). Just cut off all forms of contact.

are you suppose to be really wet when you get fingerd?

Yeah.

How can i make my breast bigger??
but not like going to get surgery or whatever..
like i heard that if you rub your breast then they will grow but i dont think that it is true..
any suggestions???

:)

You can't. I'm not sure how old you are, but you're more than likely a young teen. You should just wear push-up bras until you finish growing. Be patient.

whats a really cute happy love song? preferably from a band and not country. thank you!!!! just tell me your favorite love songs :) i'll rate ♥

Songs on the left, artist on the right.

Island - The Starting Line
Audrey, Start The Revolution - Anberlin
I Must Be Dreaming - The Maine
So Contagious - Acceptance
Suspension - Mae
Giving It Away - Mae
My Heart - Paramore
Secret Valentine - We The Kings
Skyway Avenue - We The Kings
Check Yes, Juliet - We The Kings
Shine - The Morning Of
Alive With The Glory Of Love - Say Anything

That's some of the ones I know. Inbox me if you need/want more! I hope you like them! :)

What's the name of the song they played in Twilight like right after Edward was sucking the venom out of Bella's arm?

Let Me Sign by Robert Pattinson.

God he's talented. :)

Can anyone tell me who originally sings Baby one more time? Thanks

Britney Spears, though I'm hoping that she soon ends her career. :(

ok well i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 5 and a half months now but lately i have been really into my friend is that ok? im 15/f please help because i do love my boyfriend.

It's okay as long as you don't do anything with your friend. I wouldn't tell your friend how you're feeling either because it could get back to your boyfriend & cause problems.

I think as long as you stay true to yourself & your boyfriend, you should be okay. I have a huge crush on Robert Pattinson, but my relationship is okay. :) Yours should be too. No worries.

Ok...My friend's cousin's girlfriend dont like me for no reason she dont even know me we only talked like once dats it and she told me before that she thinks m cool and everythin and now she dontlike me and it gets me mad because she cant be judging and she dont even know me....Should I stress about it?? Or wat should i do?

She's your friend's cousin's girlfriend. Honestly? How often do you see her? I'm betting not too often. If she doesn't like you, that's her problem. Time to stop caring about what people think of you. It takes a lot of effort to give a damn.

is it possible for two people to be together in the future if they see eachother once a month now?

It's possible, but seldom ever works. You have to really love & trust each other to persevere through the times where you're not physically together. But yes, it can be done.

how do i get rid of my period for the weekened i just got it and i wanna no if there is any way 2 save my date ive been planing for a few days?

You can't get rid of it. You got your period, so now you have to deal with it until it goes away.

do they screw up your belly button? like when you take out a belly button piercing and the hole heals back up is it all deformed? how long does it take for the hole to close back up?

also, if you go through a metal detector at the airport will that set it off?

are they painful to get?

how do you put them on and take them off?

No, they don't. If you get it done, but decide to take it out after a while, & you let it heal properly, it should be fine. I'm not sure how long it takes for the hole to close, as I don't have my navel done, but I'm sure it doesn't take too long.

No, it doesn't go off. As long as the ring is surgical steal, it won't go off. I have my lip done & I was scared of the same thing, but my ring didn't set it off, so you should be fine.

Pain is different for everybody. It hurts for some, but not for others. If you don't have a high tolerance for pain, it'll probably hurt. I don't have a very high tolerance for pain, but my piercing didn't hurt too bad. It really all depends on you.

As far as putting them on & taking them off goes, I have no idea how to do that. That's something you could either ask the piercer OR look up online.

do twins date the same kind of girl/guy?

Not always. Twins may look alike (or not, depending on whether they're fraternal or identical, obviously) but they're not always the same mentally.

Twins usually have different sense of style, and different personalities which can make their dating styles different. They can go for the same type of girl/guy, but it doesn't always work that way. So it really depends on the twin.

i am a 20 year old female. I broke up with my ex after us being together for 4 years. it was a very emotional abuseive relationship. a week after he and i finally officaly broke up i went to meet a guy i had met on the internet he was honest with me about wanting sex..im not into that epecially so soon but after two days we did. it has been a week he hardly talks to me doesnt have interest in me or what i do and openly admits to not careing about me "cuz we hardly know eachother" am i rushing this and is this guy just using me..im so confused on what to do.. so was i wrong to meet this guy and wrong to jeprodize my morals for him??

He's using you. He sweet talked you, admitted he wanted sex, & then he got it & now he could care less about you. It doesn't exactly sound like he cares too much for you. He knew you were vulnerable & on the rebound & would give him what he wanted if he could make you feel like he cared.

So yes, you were wrong. I understand your situation, but next time, you should be a little smarter. Don't take that personally, I'm just saying that next time you should give yourself a little more time before you jump into anything.

im a dark skinned girl. like hispanic, indian dark. and i want to get eye shawdow that will stand out and look good on me and cheap. like walmart any ideas?

I have that same problem being Hispanic & Native American myself. I try to use really light colors. I usually use light grey, white, or light blues. Sometimes even neon colors depending what I'm wearing.

I can't give you a specific brand, but I'm sure if you check @ Wal*Mart, you should find some good ones for cheap.

hello,
This is very serious I have had this problem before, so much it makes me contimplate suicide

I am a very hands on person that likes to hug people, I am very tall and people always make fun of me, no one ever talks to me at school and when I try to be serious with them they always call me a freak my bestfriends ditched me and now how am I supposed to deal with this I cry for days and I want to switch schools!

If people are making fun of you for your height, then they're shallow & jealous. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being tall. You actually have an advantage that a lot of other kids don't. If you go to a concert, you can see better. You can go for sports that are good for tall people like volleyball or basketball.

I think being hands on can be bad sometimes if you don't know the person well. Some people don't really like hugs or being touched & probably get upset that you're a touchy person. I think you should be careful about who you hug. Pay attention to their body language. If they don't seem welcoming to an incoming hug, then don't hug them.

Are you the type of person who's just TOO nice? People might not take you seriously if you're too nice because they think they can walk all over you. The best I can say for that is to just pick & choose what you're nice & serious about.

If your best friends ditched you, then they're obviously not your best friends. They're rude, and pathetic, and not to mention FAKE. They were never your true, real friends because if they were, they would've stuck by you. You don't need them anyways.

I think you'll be just fine if you don't let this stuff bother you. Join some clubs, or try & get into sports. Keep to yourself, and you should be okay!

You don't need to switch schools. You just need to learn more about people. Don't contemplate suicide. This isn't that big of a deal. You'll be okay.

is it trained? is it rare to find people like that?

No. Keeping secrets is not something people train themselves to do. It's just certain personalities. Some people are trustworthy & know better not to blab when you tell them something. Other people will spread it like a disease because everything they hear is too juicy to keep to themselves.

It can be rare because you're not always certain about who you can trust. I guess it's better to just keep things to yourself.

Background info: Recently my dad has Started webcaming with "people" he has met online. He says that they are "guys" from other countrys that are nice nd he just talks with.

the other night i was sitting in the living room watching t.v && on my computor. my dad was also in the living room on his computor on webcam. He coverd the side of his face and I saw him blow the camra a kiss TWICE!. && the night before someone had sent him a kissy message the ones that make a kissy sound. I dont care what anyone thinks but I consider this cheating. weather its emotional cheating or actual sex cheating its still cheating.

Now im positive my mom doesnt know about this but I cant be the one to tell her.

Background info on my mom: Shes really old almost sixty has battled cancer for 6 years and if I tell her thiis She WONT be able to handle it i just know that....

Question: What do I do. I don't know how to handle this information. all I could do was cry. I was so mad that he would have the nerve to do that with me in the room. I dont even know if there is a right answer to what i should do but this has really emotionaly screwd with me. I have bad enough trust isues in relationships and now I just feel like theres absolutely no hope! what do i dooo please help.

I know exactly how you feel. My father has been cheating on my mother for about 5 years. My mother knows, and has known for a while, and is really mad about it.

I don't live with my parents anymore, but everytime I talk with my mom, I hear about how my father isn't sleeping at home, or something about it. I've never confronted my father simply because I am terrified of him, and it isn't my place to.

However, I think you should confront your father. I would usually not recommend to get involved with a problem like this since there's nothing you can do much to stop it, BUT maybe if you tell your father how you feel about what he's doing, he'll listen.

I would love to do the same with my father, but I rather not argue from where I live, or at all. I really hope things work out for you.

And if your father doesn't have the balls to tell your mother what he's up to, then you should. I know she shouldn't hear it from you, and that you feel the same way, but she deserves to know. If he isn't going to step up & be a man about it, then you tell her.

I hope this helps & I hope your situation clears up soon. Cheating is gross. :(

ok so i like it when guys kiss me neck when we makeout and i got a new boyfriend how do i get him to kiss my neck without telling him to?

Kiss his neck first.

Ok im 13 and in 5th grade i got my period once then it spoted and then i got it again around september and then last february it stoped and i have not goten it this march. I have never had sex but i am worried is there something wrong with me? Is it going to come back soon? Also im getting all the cramps and etc. Please help im very worried!

There's nothing wrong with you. When you first get your period, it's irregular. It won't regulate for maybe a couple more years, so I wouldn't worry too much. :) You're okay.

What hand does the engagement ring go on?

What hand does the wedding band go on?

Thanks

They both go on your left hand on the finger next to your pinky which is called the ring finger. :)

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