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Does anyone know where I can buy scarves? Rate 5's.

most department stores, DEB, target, little old ladies that knit them, craft stores, american eagle, hollister...pretty much anywhere!

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my boobs have been really itchy lately? like really itchy. whats going on? besides that there growing....

it might be a detergent or new soap you are using or the material your bra is made from. i dont think its serious unless you are bleeding from scratching so much... see a doctor if it gets bad.

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Hi, well I had no idea who to tell to get this off my chest but i need to let it go. Tonight I went over to this guy's house (let's name him steve) and he had his other friend over (we'll call him travis). well i've hung out with them a few times before and nothing weird really happened. but tonight travis and steve kept trying to feel up my shirt and touch my breasts and succeeded a few times cause i couldn't stop them, and i felt so dirty. travis tried to touch me and stick his hands down my pants too. they took my phone and stuck it down their pants and told me i had to give them 'pleasure' or flash them to get it back. I felt like crying. i don't know how i can forgive myself for letting them touch me and everything. what do i do?!

YOU ARE NOT A SLUT! that's harrassment. they have no right to do that. if you don't feel comfortable, call home and leave. if they have your phone, fine. if they break it, you can always get a new one or get your parents involved. dont let them dominate you like that, they have no right. i know you feel dirty, but it's not your fault. don't hang out with those JERKS anymore. if you do, make sure you're with another girl or somewhere where they can't do anything. you were confused... you didnt let them, you just didnt know better or think straight so forgive yourself! it might take some time but i think you'll learn to stand up for yourself and go on with life. hope that helps & ask anytime!

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do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious

ok so typically i would say yeah thats kind of dorky but really, its not! like im in theater... a lot of people think thats dorky ans geeky but then they come see the show and they love them. it really depends on your personality. be proud to be a dork/orchestra geek/musician! (its awesome!)

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If you are hit on your breasts (both) and then a few months later, there was large, hard, lumps discovered, what is the chances of them growing??? This happened when I was 12 and I am almost 15. My breasts haven't grown and the lumps are still there. *SCARED* and I am not able to go to the doctor!

depends what kind of hit it was? like soccer players get hit there all the time and they grow. get a nurse at school or a relative in that field to check you out.

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I REALLY NEED YOUR ADVICE!!
my name is laurie. im 16 yrs old...i like this guy (we'll call him bob)..well..he asked me to go on a date and i said yes. but then i found out that night that my best friend likes him to, and she didnt really know i liked him..so she thinks she 'claimed' him first. so i was a good friend and canceled the date b/c i didnt want to ruin my friendship with her. well turns out my best friend goes on a date with bob..and there were no STRONG feelings between them..and she acts like it was no big deal..and plus she ditched me that night and yada yada..well i was mad that she ditched me. but i was acceptable to the fact that she went on this date..and she acted like it was no big deal. well turns out bob didnt like the date, and was way more intrested in me. and i like him SO much, and he tells me he wants to be with me...and the more i talk to him the more i want to be with him. i think its only fair though that i can have my chance with him since my best friend got hers you know?..but i dont want to do anything i regret! i really really want to be with this guy and he says he wants to be with me to..
i would really appreciate your honest advice.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!

oh geeeee, that's tough. she acts like its no big deal? well...maybe she's trying to not rub it in your face about how good of a time they had, know what i mean? but the fact that she ditched you wasn't very "friends before boyfriends" of her. ask her if it would be ok...that's pretty much all you can do. Tell her how you feel about him and that if she says no then that's fine but to really consider it. you could also wait a while (get to be good friends with Bob then date later or when it doesnt matter to your BFF). thats what i would do. hope this helps & ask anytime!

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ok, im 13/f and i kno everyone has upper lip hair, but mine is starting to get a little more noticable and i was wondering whats the best way to get rid of it? i dont want to wax, if u even can, so dont say that. I have this little grooming razor thingy so would that work? thanks danielle

PUT THE RAZOR AWAY! ok get sally hansen bleach for your face. its really good... i use it all the time!

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I'm getting a 6week old basset hound on thrusday and I'm not sure what i want to name it. I was thinking of Mya. any one got any unique names for it. Its a girl

mya is cute! my algebra teacher has one named tessie mae. i think its adorable!

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okay well my best friend is turning into a big pain. she always says that she's better than me and makes me feel bad and everything. she drinks a lot and has sex and everything she shouldn't be at 15. she always talks about sex and she says im a stink at parties, but she's never been to a party with me. she thinks that im stuck up because im still a virgin. what should i do? please answer. 5's for those serious people

ok this girl isn't a friend. she's putting you down because she has so much shit in her life... it she has to do all these things to be happy, she has issues and shes jealous of you. whether you're a virgin or not shouldn;t make a difference. she probably wants to push you into doing it so she doesn't look as slutty, know what i mean? i want to slap her. ok DON'T, i'm just saying... keep your head and don't stoop to her level!

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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?

wow i would be VERY pissed off! how recent are the pictures tho...are you sure it was his room (if you're not allowed up there, it might not be) and thats pretty...interesting. i've been in guy's rooms but pictures?? this girl wants to start a fight with you or something (prolly to get the guy) so just ignore her... don't go down to her level.

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its a long story but my bf posted a question on here & i answered it & i found out it was his question, and it wasnt bad bad but it really upset me & ive been crying & i cant talk to him yet & i juss need help on what to do in the mean time, it should be an hr er so so if anyone can help me please i juss need something to do to keep my mind off of it.

thanks

it would really help if we knew what the question was. trust me, you can't take it the wrong way. my guy friend that i respected a lot asked a very...iteresting question on here before but we talked about it and it wasn't as bad as i thought it was. just inbox me if you need anything.

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I think I'm 2 months pregnant I'm dizzy alot to where I cant walk I talked to my teacher for my "friend" of course and she says its normal so thats why I think I am. What do you guys think?

you should reallllyyy get a test. yes its normal but last week I was dizzy, feeling like i was gonna throw up and all that stuff but I'm not pregnant.

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I really like to act and the auditions for the school play are in december. I do a lot of acting outside of school. I have been acting ever since 1st grade. At the moment I am taking 2 theatre classes. But last year I didn't get into the school play. I was actually crying. I knew I could do it but I didn't. The problem is, I can't sing and the play is always a musical. When I act in front of people it's a peice of cake but when I sing I just can't do it. I really want to be in this play! Any advice? I'll rate a 5 if the advice is helpful.

awwww! well my school has musicals also...there are lots of people that can't sing and they have some small parts or they are dancers. try taking voice lessons or get the musical's cd and start learning one of the songs. you can always sing something simple like "row row row your boat" with passion (i got understudy like that). maybe your monolouge will blow them away. don't worry, theater isn't always fair. if they don't take you, try another theater company that appreciates good acting.

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Alright. How old do you have to be to get an abortion? I know that you can get it done at any age, but do you have to have a parent with you or can you have an adult 18 or older?

I'm 14. I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or anything. Just incase. And I don't really need you to tell me that I'm a slut, skank, or whore because I had sex with my boyfriend of a 1/2 year. I would like someone that has had an abortion to answer this question, if that's possible.

Thanks alot,& I rate.

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In most states, you can't have an abortion without an adult there/consent...i don't think planned parenthood can do it for minors either. usually you have to have parent's consent if you even live in a state that allows it. (seriously, some people have to go out of state to get it done). I personally don't like the idea... if you can't stand a child, you shouldn't be having sex but that's your business. please be safe about it... go on the pill and use a condom so you don't have to even consider it.

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Has anyone heard "Be without you" by mary j. blige? I like that sad piano part in the beginning.. do you know any other songs like that? thank you.

"because of you" by kelly clarkson, "diary" by alicia keys, "impossible" by christina aguilera/alicia keys all have really cool piano parts in the beginning. i like them too!

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i am not sure what kind of litter to get for my new cat can somebody help me...

i think its called "fresh step" or something. it has a cat with a paw in the litter box on the front. that's what my neighbors i cat sit for use.

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I need a poem to memorize for my english class. I`ve been looking online but I haven't been very successfull. It must be atleast 35 lines, I don't want it to be more then like 50 though. If you guys could just give me some good sites I`d really appreciate it!

get a song thats also a poem. most country songs are... it'd be easy especially if you listen to it all day long. so try www.lyricsbox.com

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hi i just want to know that can we have sex during pregnancy, if yes then till which month,
or if no then why.
please answer me.

yep you can.

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Last night, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. While we were doing it, it started to feel good (but it still hurt), and sometimes when he was like going inside of me and the back out it started to feel like it was too much. It felt like I was having an orgasm, but it felt like I was going to like throw up. This happened like 5 times during a period of like 45 minutes. Is this normal and has it happened to anyone else?

i think it's normal. you might have been a little nervous (first time...yeah.) so that might have caused it.

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what does "525,600 minutes" mean??.. i did know but i forgot??..thankss..


*ALL 5'S!*

that's how many minutes are in a year.
the song is "Seasons of Love" from the musical "Rent" and there's a version with Stevie Wonder. great song!

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