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I REALLY NEED YOUR ADVICE!!
my name is laurie. im 16 yrs old...i like this guy (we'll call him bob)..well..he asked me to go on a date and i said yes. but then i found out that night that my best friend likes him to, and she didnt really know i liked him..so she thinks she 'claimed' him first. so i was a good friend and canceled the date b/c i didnt want to ruin my friendship with her. well turns out my best friend goes on a date with bob..and there were no STRONG feelings between them..and she acts like it was no big deal..and plus she ditched me that night and yada yada..well i was mad that she ditched me. but i was acceptable to the fact that she went on this date..and she acted like it was no big deal. well turns out bob didnt like the date, and was way more intrested in me. and i like him SO much, and he tells me he wants to be with me...and the more i talk to him the more i want to be with him. i think its only fair though that i can have my chance with him since my best friend got hers you know?..but i dont want to do anything i regret! i really really want to be with this guy and he says he wants to be with me to..
i would really appreciate your honest advice.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
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hey well i would go ahead and go out with him. i mean yes your friend likes him a little, but she went out w/ him and must have not had the time of her life since she acted like it was no big deal. so i would go out with him and your friend should understand...you like him and he likes you!
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oh geeeee, that's tough. she acts like its no big deal? well...maybe she's trying to not rub it in your face about how good of a time they had, know what i mean? but the fact that she ditched you wasn't very "friends before boyfriends" of her. ask her if it would be ok...that's pretty much all you can do. Tell her how you feel about him and that if she says no then that's fine but to really consider it. you could also wait a while (get to be good friends with Bob then date later or when it doesnt matter to your BFF). thats what i would do. hope this helps & ask anytime! <3
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