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Well ok i go to this YMCA Camp at Summer, & well its summer, so anyways, i met a boy named Devin, & i like him ... ALOT! well my friends Alex & Damien say me and Devin make a cute couple and Damien told Alex that he though Devin liked me. & alex told me Damien said that. && Kolton, (Devins Best friend) said "Hey! Devin want's you!! he likes you & stuff" but then Devin makes a face & goes "Ewww. Gross, Sicko!" So i really don't know what to think. Should i give up on love? because thats what i feal like doing right about now, High ratings for just trying. Please. this situation is bugging me, bad! =]

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hi. im a 15 year old guy and i like this 15 year old girl..we r great friends and i feel like we can be more but she doesnt..ive talked to her about it before and i want to send her a song link...would For You I will by teddy geiger or Broken by seether be a better choice...thanks so much in advance

For You I Will is a great song to give to her.

There's also this song by Dave Matthews Band. Its called 'Crush':

Crazy, how it, feels tonight.
Crazy, how you, make it all alright love.
You crush me, with the, things you do,
I do, for you, anything too oh.
Sitting, smoking, feeling high.
And in this, moment, ah, it feels so right.

Lovely lady, I am at your feet, oh, God I want you so badly.
And I wonder this could tomorrow be so wondrous as you there sleeping.

Lets go, drive til, the morning comes.
And watch the, sunrise, and fill our souls up.
Well drink some, wine til, we get drunk, yes...

Its crazy, Im thinking, just knowing that the world is round.
Im here Im dancing on the ground.
Am I right side up or upside down, and is this real, or am I dreaming?

Lovely lady, let me drink you, please, I wont spill a, drop no, I promise you.
Lying under this spell you cast on me.
Each moment the more, i, love, you. crush me, come on. oh, yes.

Its crazy Im thinking, just knowing that the world is round.
Im here Im dancing on the ground.
Am I right side up or upside down?
Is this real, oh lord, or am I dreaming?

Lovely lady, I will treat you sweetly, adore you, I mean, you crush me.
Oh its times like these when my faith I feel.
I know, how, i, love, you. come on, come on, baby.

Its crazy, Im thinking just as long as youre around.
Im here Ill be dancing on the ground.
Am I right side up or upside down?
To each other, well be facing.
My love, my love, well beat back the pain weve found.
You know, I mean to tell you all the things Ive been thinking, deep inside my
Friend.
With each moment the more I love you. crush me, come on, baby.

So much you have, given love, that I would give you back again and again.
Oh, the love, many now hold you but please, please, just let me, always

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does baby oil help you tan?

No. It burns your skin instead of tanning it. I suggest using tanning oil, instead.

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♥ SiMA

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Hey, may 29, this kid Mark asked me out. I love him so much, and a week later he dumped me. I loved this kid alot.


July 15, this kid Felix asked me out. I said yes, he was cute. I forgot all about Mark. I seemed to love him. I just spoke to Mark, and he seemed to like me again. Gosh, now i like BOTH of them.

The problem is, Felix really likes me, and i feel so bad if i would dump him for Mark. Mark on the other hand dumps every girl after a week or two.

Felix said, he would commit succide if i broke up with him. I know he ment it. Last night he said he had a pocket knife to his throat, because he had no one to live for. But then he relized he loved me. So, he put it down.

HELP! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I CRY ALL THE TIME

I don't think that you should go out with either guy. Its like what Axl Rose [from Guns N' Roses] did with his first wife. She said that he was crazy, and she wanted to divorce, but he said that he would shoot himself if she didn't stay with him. They eventually divorced. Mark, however, doesn't seem like he actually likes you, let alone love you. Find someone better for yourself that loves you for you, and doesn't have to kill himself to make you feel sorry for him.

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♥ SiMA

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how do i get it so i can have the fonts Terminal and Script as my default fonts? Is there something you download? I'm tired of copying and pasting each time a new IM box comes up. Help????

On your AIM Buddy List Box, go to My Aim // Edit Options // Edit Preferences. Go down to Font, click the 'Font' button, and then look for the font 'terminal' or 'script', click Apply, and then Ok.

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♥ SiMA


editt - Oh, can you change my rating? You didn't specify..

Go to dafont.com/en, and search for the fonts, and you can download them off of there.

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I'm bored of the AIM screen name I have now, I've always been bad with creating ones that are unique. I was wondering if anyone could give me any suggestions on some good screen name choices.
They can be 3-16 letters long.
Please and thank you.

It would help if you could give us some suggestions on what you actually want as an SN.

Its x [your name]
SummerOhSix x3
Ocean x Avenue
[your name] x L0VE

Those are some.

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♥ SiMA

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I'm gonna keep this short. I started sumerschool today, met a guy there- started talking. After school we went for a bite to eat and before I know it I'm kissing him and he's my boyfriend!! This is no not like me! Sure I had fun with him today but he is so not my type! Ot maybe he is but there is something that doesnt feel right. He is really sweet and nice and likes me alot (after one day, I know..) But I kinda like this other guy too and I don't know if he likes me but I think I have a chance...So now I'm torn. Should I give the guy I now have known for 10 hours and who is ´my boyfriend appeantly or should I dump him and try going for the guy I actually like??

PLEASE HELP ME!
Thank you!

I don't think that you truly love him. I think that you were a little 'distracted' after you got involved with him. If you think that it won't work out, just tell him nicely that you don't want to pursue a relationship. He should understand, and if he doesn't, don't start yelling at him. Just dump him if thats what you want to do, I think thats what sounds best.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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so here it goes
we started going out about 6 months ago. Everything was perfect. he loved me and he wanted to be the best boyfriend he could be. about a month into the relationship we had sex for the first time. i know it seems forward, but we were friends with benefits four months prior to going out.. after we had sex. we started fighting alot. he was trying to get involved with dealing drugs..and i thought he was doing drugs.. and yeah that was our first fight. we resolved it and then my best friend told me she had heard his friends talking about smoking weed with him and stuff.. so i flipped out on him again.. and he was really upset .. because he doesnt do that.. and he didnt want to lose me. we kept fighting over things.. soon my friend told me she hated him and he treats me like shit and i need to leave him. and i do admit.. he could have treated me with ALOT more respect. he always complained about what i looked like.. he never told me i was beautiful.. if i didnt wear something "sexy" i wouldnt get any sort of attention at all. where as he used to stare into my eyes and tell me how beautiful i was.. we were almost going out for 5 months when we got into a huge fight.. because i had his myspace password and he kept sending girls messages telling them how sexy they were. this hurt me.. and he ended up flipping out on me.. and im one of those kind of people who cant go to sleep at night knowing someones mad at them.. so i had him stay on the phone with me for 4 hours trying to resolve the problem...in the morning he apologised but i was still hurt and sick of the fighting .. so i sent him an email telling him how horrible he treats me. he ended up breaking up with me. it was dramatic.. he cried when he did it. so i know he didnt want to. the next day.. we didnt even look at eachother in school.. i came online when i got hoem and he begged for me back.. and i gave in. .we were just going to take a break and i gave in. the next day i asked him if we were still going to get back together eventually..and he said "idk i only said that to make you feel better" and i went to his house and screamed at him .. because he lead me on again. and then he said he'd go out with me until summer comes.. because he wants to do his own thing over the summer. stupidly i agreed. and we went out .. we've been going out.. but he's been different.. i say "i love you" and he either jokes around and makes sum dumb comment or he mumbles it back.. he tries to strangle me sometimes. .and i honestly cant tell if hes fooling around or not. we wrestled the other day.. just cutsy bf gf wrestling.. and then he started punching me.. and stuff.. and his friend saw and he was like "woah stop thats not cool" .. i have a huge buise on my arm from him punching me. and while we were wrestling i accidently kicked him in the balls.. he knew it was an accident but he still flipped out on me .. he wrapped his arm around my neck and put his hand over my mouth and nose. he held it there for a while too.. i started crying and he just kissed me better.. but still . we broke up today.. and we're supposed to be getting together next school year.. but i just want to know.. is this too serious? because i know when im in a bad situation i never notice how bad it REALLY is.. and i just want to be safe.

Don't get back together with him, hun.

You keep taking him back, and giving him chances, but he takes advantage of that and keeps being rude and obnoxious.

If he sees that you keep taking him back, he'll just think 'Oh, cool, [your name] wants to get back with me. Guess I'll use her again'. You know? That thing that he did to you with the plugging your nose and the hand over the mouth was way out of line. You were just messing around with him, and you didn't mean to hurt him 'down there'. He takes things way too seriously.

I think he'll break your heart once more if you take him back. It doesn't sound like you two are meant for each other.

This sounds like what happened to my mom and her old boyfriend about 4 years ago. I still remember how crazy he was till this day. He would come over and just sleep on our couch and drink. Then, he bought a really nice truck with OUR credit, and THEN decided to tell my mom about it. He was divorced and his previous wife just dumped him and kicked him out because he was always drunk and was never that responsible. My mom always felt sorry for him and never kicked him out. Our family would always tell us how bad he was for her. I even found a huge stash of whisky bottles under the couch in the basement. It was really sad.

Well, sorry for telling you an entire story there. But, you can't let him do that to you.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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Does anybody know what i should get my b/f for his birthday? I already got him a pair of shorts from american eagle but i don't think thats even close to enough? does anyone have any ideas or advice? Thanx!

- Watch
- Gift card to Best Buy or his favorite store
- Get him a shirt to go with the shorts
- Picture of you and him with a special card, which can contain like a letter telling him how much you appreciate him

Those are some ideas.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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this morning my mom came in my room and gave me a list of things to do like: clean up your room pick up the house do ur laundry do the dishes make 4 flower arrangements w/ the flowers i brought home from work hang up my clothes etc. i dont really mind b/c its summer and im used to helping out but the way she asked was just soooo degrading she didnt say please or anything along those lines and she said my dad is mad b/c he expects the house to be clean every day when he gets home and im on break to help around the house when i kno im on summer break to rest from school and get ready for next year. im just really mad my dad treats me like his maid not like his daughter i feel like the only thing hes happy about w/ me is that i do his laundry. he treats me like what ever i do isnt good enough even during the year im doing alot better in school than my sister ever did and hes always on my case about that stuff. i feel like i dont have a dad i have a boss. he gets home from work every day complains about the house being a mess even if it isnt then tells us about his day and goes upstairs. it drives me crazy because he doesnt know me at all i know he pays for stuff and i appreciate that but i dont feel like its enough to qualify him as a parent. i cant tell him or my mom this b/c theyll just yell so what should i do? my parents are driving me crazy!
(sorry this was so long i just really need some help)

Aww, don't worry. My dad is the same way. It's probably just stress. He sounds like he has a hard day at work and he wants to make sure that you guys appreciate what you have and be grateful. Try hanging out with him sometime, you know, when he's fixing his car, or something, be interested in it. Ask him some questions about guys, stuff like that. Maybe he feels like he can't really talk to you 'cause you're in your teenage years, you usually think that your parents are dorky, and whatnot.

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♥ SiMA

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My friends want to hang out but we don't know what we want to do. Have any ideas??

- Local Cafe
- Local Coffeehouse
- See a local band play
- Carnivals/Festivals
- Park
- Movies
- Go to a thrift store and try on a bunch of random stuff and judge each others outfits

Those are some ideas.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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Well ok i go to this YMCA Camp at Summer, & well its summer, so anyways, i met a boy named Devin, & i like him ... ALOT! well my friends Alex & Damien say me and Devin make a cute couple and Damien told Alex that he though Devin liked me. & alex told me Damien said that. && Kolton, (Devins Best friend) said "Hey! Devin want's you!! he likes you & stuff" but then Devin makes a face & goes "Ewww. Gross, Sicko!" So i really don't know what to think. Should i give up on love? because thats what i feal like doing right about now, High ratings for just trying. Please. this situation is bugging me, bad! =]

Boys ALWAYS do that. Don't give up! He's saying that because he's shy. Talk to him and ask him if he likes you.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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i work at an ice cream shop and im not allowed to wear nailpolish. my nails break easily and they start to peel off in layers. HELP. what can i do to keep them healthy and keep them from not breaking without nailpolish?

I RATE HIGH. = )

Use a nail strengthning polish. It comes on clear, so you don't have to worry about the color. Look in the cosmetic section at Walmart.

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♥ SiMA

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is it true that if you wax all the time that eventually your hair will stop growing?

No, it's not true. But, it's one of the better methods of removing hair besides shaving.

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♥ SiMA

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ok
how do you make those holes with the little horizontal strings patching across in jeans?

i've heard sandpaper. and a cheese grater.
any other ideas and stuff?

also, what about making edges in actual cut hole sint he jeans all fuzzy and frayed?

thanks

http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Distressed-Jeans

Place a block of wood (or some other solid surface that you don't mind possibly damaging) within the pant leg or denim region you want to distress.

Rub a steak knife or cheese grater vertically or horizontally against the area of denim that you would like to distress. Rub gently for mild distress; rub longer and more vigorously to create more visible distress (such as holes and tears). You could even cut holes if you really want to.

Fray jeans by rubbing sandpaper around pockets, knees, hemlines, or any other area of denim that you would like to have a soft, worn appearance.
Dampen a sponge with bleach and rub it around the outer edges of holes for a faded look.

Rip off a back pocket

Wash your jeans.

Wear your newly stylish distressed jeans.

There you go.

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♥ SiMA

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Yesterday we had this family barbeque thing and while the guys where grilling, my sister and all of our girl cousins were in my room talking...girl stuff you know. Well the subject of marriage came up and my sister and I were talking about how we'd never marry anyone unless they were good looking, older but only by a few years and make as much or more money than our dad (be super rich).


Of COURSE we were playing around. I mean honestly, lots of girls say that but when it comes down to it, we wouldn't really choose our husbands based on that.


Well, today, one of my cousins went and told the guy I'm dating what I said. She told him that the reason I went out with my ex bf for so long was because he already has a million dollars to his name and he's only 18(his dad passed away a few years ago and left it to him).


So the guy I'm seeing doesn't know what to think and just kind of blew up in my face about it. I tried to explain but he just left. Now I don't know what to do because this is such a retarded situation. How do I get him to listen to me?

Well, first off, that was pretty stupid of your cousin. Second, you need to talk to your boyfriend. He has to listen to you, since you are his girlfriend, because it was just a big misunderstanding with your cousin. Tell him that accidents happen and that you will always love him. If he still doesn't understand after you try to explain the situation, then maybe he's being unconsiderate and not acting like he's supposed to. So, your best bet is to talk to him, explain the situation, and tell him that you're sorry about what your cousin did. Give him a big hug. xDD

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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I wanna be a flight attendant, so after high school I'm gunna get trained to be one. Is it hard to become a full-time flight attendant? I have a family friend who works for a flying company and is well known with the company, so will this help me? If I become a flight attendant, do you know how much time I'll be flying...like will I be at home only for a day every month..? I'm kind of clueless.

Well, flight attendants are always up and doing SOMETHING. You hardly ever see them sit down. And, they're VERY patient. It depends where you're flying, if you're flying to a different country, then you might be gone for awhile, but if you are the US, you might be able to see them more often. Every job is difficult, but it just depends on which one is easier for you. So, flight attending is hard.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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everytime i try to put a picture on here, it says the filesize was too big. but wen i resize the picture superrr small, it still says that.

what do i do?
thanks.

Try not to upload your picture from Advicenators. Go to a different uploading site, and then copy the links from there.

Imageshack.us
Tinypic.com
Photobucket.com

Those are some.

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♥ SiMA

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I want to go on a diet (nothing extreme--i'm not overweight, i just want to be more toned and maybe shed a few pounds). Does anyone know of a website that is totally free that can layout a diet for me (how many calories, excersizes, etc.) OR can anyone just tell me??? (i'm 15/f and i'm 105 lbs.)
thankss!!!!!

http://www.ediets.com/

You can customize your own diet plan and choose from a lot of other ones.

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♥ SiMA

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hi, well when it says (1) next to the "your questions" section, i click it, and sometimes ther isnt an answer. just a bunch of adds and my question. why is this?

Try refreshing. Sometimes the page doesn't load right away.

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♥ SiMA

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