OKAY... please do not anwser this question unless you are 100% sure
Can you get pregnant if you havent had you period yet?!?!
No you can't get pregnant if you have never had your period.
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My boyfriend has had dreams about us having sex lately. of course I'm not ready for that. I have to get on the pill first but I don't know if I really want to do it. He wants me to come over to his house. Yeah his room can be locked and well, it's kinda isolated from his house...and he's usually alone. We've been going out for almost a year. I'm just...afraid. He wants to make out with me in my underwear. What should I tell him or do?
I know everyone says this but seriously, if you aren't ready don't do it. You will regret it. Trust me, my friend had sex the first time and she said she regrets it soo much because her boyfriend (of one year) kept pressuring her. Tell him you aren't ready. If he doesn't accept that, he isn't worth it.
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i know people are prob getting sick of these kinda questions but w/e
how would you react/do if you found out that your 16 year old daughter that you had alot of trust with told you she was pregnant.you guys were not really that close but didnt really fight or anything. (please be realistic!)
** only answers this if you are acually old enough to have a child aka like 25 or older (it can be a guy or girl)
Well you wouldn't want her to feel even more bad then she does. That is the worst thing you can do. Don't tell her she is stupid and all that other garbage alot of mothers say to their daughters. Of course you are going to be mad, so then express your feelings to her in a calm way. You should be supportive no matter what. Wouldn't you want to be supported, loved, and helped if you were in her situation. She is only human, of course she is going to make mistakes - some worse than others- but you have to stick with her.
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okay i am 14/f in case it matters
okay well you see, my cousins from arizona came up for christmas and new years to visit us. one is 16 and the other is 22. well they came up and they were staying at my grandmas hosue. well i wanted to hang out with them so i figured id spend the night (by the way both of my cousins are guys). anyways so i got there and my grandparents werent there. my cousins said that they went to dinner 2 hours away at some really fancy returaunt. well, they took me upstairs and they told me to sit ont the bed. they started kissing me and slowy putting their hands down my pants and up my shirt. since i had never had a real boyfriend befor they told me that they were only showing me what to expect when i had one. so thye kept doing all this stuff to me and made me do some weird stuff to them and practically forced me to have sex with them.
i know its wrong and that i should tell someone one but what wiill people say when i tell them i had sex with my cousins? please help me idont know what to do =(
♥ ~*me*~ ♥
It's not your fault. People won't think anything bad of you. They FORCED you to have sex. Two grown men forced a 14 year old girl to have sex. There wasn't much you can do. Just tell someone.
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when answering a question why does age play such a big factor. like for instance that 16/f that wanted a baby. i saw that everyone was like your too young,but who says that she wont make a great mother. and know one knows her living situation or money or anything.. it really doesnt say people just assume they know. it tells her to wait till shes 18. i bet there are 18 year olds out there that are much worse off than she is or wont be as good as of mother as she is. so maybe she is 16.. do you think we should just make assumptions about people like that? or would it better to know more about the person before answering?
I agree but I also disagree. People judge people too fast. But honestly, do you many teenage girls that are emotionally and financially ready to take care of a baby? If they were, why would some schools have classes about taking care of babies and abstinence?
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Okay, my b/f and I have been going out for almost 4 months now. Before we went out we were really good friends. I like him a lot and I know that he likes me a lot too. But I feel like I'm always looking and flirting with other guys. I'm kind of getting bored with our relationship I guess. What I'm asking is if I should stay in the relationship .. and if anyone has any suggestions for what I should do ? I don't want to hurt him or our friendship.
Thanks for any help !
Give him the 'I think we should just be friends' speech. I don't think you should stay in the relationship if you are getting bored.
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im 15 years old, i no im not old enough to have sex yet, but if the opprotunity comes i have a question...im really worried, im not big enough to wear a tampon. and its been that way ever since i started my peroid. i flirt with guys a lot, and i want to do more then just flirtin somtimes, but im afaird, that if i start doing more than just flirtin suck as fingering or actually sex that it will hurt me a lot, bcuz im not big enough.. i was wondering if maybe someone could tell me if it would hurt bcuz im not big enough or if im just worring for no reason?! please help. thanks a lot.
Oh my God it hurts. Don't listen to anyone that says it doesn't. I am big enough to wear a tampon, and it killed!
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I really want to make out with my boyfriend and I already know that he wants to also, but I am self consious of my braces, and I don't know what to do! I know that that sounds pathetic, but I really don't. All of my friends say that I shouldn't be, but i can't help it! How do I get over it and how do I "start" the making out?
Pretend that you don't have them.
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what does it mean when a guy 'feels you up'?
When he goes up your shirt.
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I was going out with my ex for about 3 months i broke up with him, and then i made out with my ex, only problem is i want both and i dont want a commitment and being just friends doesnt work for me i've tried i cant. well please help i'll give 5's thanks
Well usually there is a relationship or just a friendship. Clearly, you want neither. My advice to you is to just be friends with benefits, because it seems like nothing else works with you.
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ok so theres this guy his name is blake. he loves me, i love him.. and i seriously mean love. and we've gone out before, but i broke it off because i didnt want a b/f at the time. but i know he still loves me, and i think he knows i still love him. but the thing is he doesnt understand that i dont want a b/f right now. and im scared to lose him because hes the one for me and im the one for him, but im scared if i dont go out w/him soon then it will all be over and he will end up not wanting to wait for me....so wat should i do??? and i dont want to lose him.
13/f
Well, if you really loved him, why wouldn't you want to be with him? That makes no sense. Obviously if you don't go out with him, he's going to think you don't love him. I mean, normal people usually go out with people they really love.
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ok there is this guy that i like but he is like 2 years younger than me cause im 15 and he is 13 and i dont know if i should go out with him cause it would be kinda weird cause we go to separt schools and the age difference so should i give him a change anyway ??
Why not? Don't be afraid of what other people think. If you really like him, go out with him.
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ok so im in a long distnace realtionship and me and my boyfriend were talking about the idea of doing text sex . . .he has done that before nad i havent. im clueless . .can you guys help me out what do i do and say n stuff. Thanks in advance! oh and im 16 female.
Why don't you just have phone sex? Text sex is pretty much like cyber sex. Just say like *takes off shirt*.
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There is a guy named John I recently met who has really taken a liking to me. We've gone on a couple of dates, we get along well and I know that he'd probably be very good for me, but of course, I'm still hung up on my ex, Tom. What's more, Tom and I are still kind of seeing each other, too. We've decided to just go with the flow and seeing what happens, rather than just jump back into something or decide against it.
I made this clear to John on our first date so that I would not be maliciously leading him on. This didn't change John's stance at all and he still seems to want to pursue me. Even though I've told John everything, am I still leading him on by talking to him on the phone and texting him a lot? John and I haven't even so much as kissed but I still want to be careful about this.
Well you can't stay with both of them, so figure out which one you like more. Think about the future. Do you think you will have a better future with Tom or with John? Think about your past with Tom. If you are really uncertain about this, I would stay away from both of them and don't lead any of them on until you know what you want. I don't know if you are leading John on by your text message and phone calls. What do you say on these text messages?
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okay, there's this like kinda clear sticky stuff that's been appearing in my underwear, is that normal?
Yea it's called discharge.
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look at what this guy said to me
*******: guys say youre white trash but ive only seen you like once
what is white trash and why do people think i am that?
Someone that doesn't care what anyone thinks of them, they are loud, they don't dress nice, they don't do their hair, they curse alot, they are stupid. Yeah, it's an insult.
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i'm 5'6 and weigh 140...i feel huge....any ideas on how to get a good body...butin a healty way? i odnt want to have to starve....
thanks
Well you aren't over weight, but if you insist. Drink only water. Eat vegetables, lean meats, and not alot of carbs. Obviously don't eat candy and sweets. Go to www.toneteen.com or www.msn.com and look around for their health and exercises.
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*On New Years im going over a friends and I was wondering what you thought about The Dukes of Hazards ( with Jessica Simpson).
*Rate on a scale from 1-10 .
*Something else you can help me with is if you can name some really really good movie title that you can rent. It has to be something scary funny and new.
Thank you I'll also be giving out 5's !! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~♥~~~~~~~~~~~~
I don't know how old you are. But..
Funny~
-40 Year Old Virgin
-Wedding Crashers
-Stewie Griffin.. The Untold Story
Scary~
-Exorcism of Emily Rose
-Dawn of the Dead
-Amytiville Horror
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okay all my friends always say knock on wood or i guess im going to have to knock on wood. and i never know quite what they mean. so could someone tell me what it means??
thanks
It's a superstition. When people say "Oh, I never got into a car accident" or something like that, people say knock on wood. They think by saying 'knock on wood' it will prevent them from getting into a car accident. It's like jinxing yourself.
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So my guy friends girlfriend broke up with him a couple months ago. Which doesn`t seem like a big deal, but the day she broke up with him she went to another guys house and "did stuff" with him. Which totally broke my friends heart. Since then, his ex has gotten into drugs, had sex, and given in to upper class men.. My friend and his ex had not talked since, other than arguing and accusations.. But he finally just started having normal conversations with her again. I was talking to him tonight and he told me he`s still in love with her. Hes asking me for advice, but I don`t know what to tell him on this one. She`s not right for him at all. Totally wrong..
Please help me, he`s coming to me asking for advice.. It just hurts me to know that he`s in love with someone who has treated him so bad, because I care for him so much. I don`t know whether to tell him to go after her again or to just give up all together..
I would appreciate your help.
Sincerely, Hopelessly confused..
Well, despite what you tell him, he is probably going to go back out with her. Just explain to him what you think of her. Tell him all of the stories of sex, drugs, and upper classmen. Tell him he deserves better.
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