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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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ok i really need help with this!!! i need some ideas for new sn's. i'm 5'3, cheerleader, blonde hair.....um....can't think of anything else if you wanna know anything else just ask!!!! people please help!! i rate high!!!
thanks,
*Star*

add numbers if desired....

blndeCheerleader
blndeBOMBshell
cheer4lyf
#1cheerleader
blondesROCK
blondie4lyf
cheer_star
cheerlead_freak

i hope i helped...if you need anymore...just drop one in my inbox with more stuff that i can use

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my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do?

just keep talking to her. and keep her in happy moods and do fun things together....good luck...

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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do?

you have to look beyond there imperfections.

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ima 14/f, this guy *Nathan i liked smokes weed.. he didnt really notice me, so i started smokin weed with all the people he hung around with. Now, im kinda like addicted to weed. I got Nathan, and im in love with him... but he wants to have sex, im scared that if i dont he'll break up with me. but i can't tell my dad any of this, so he can help me cuz he would like flip out on me. what should i doo, please im really scared, and i really wanna stop smokin and go back to the old me, but than nathan wont like me!! just please someone help me!!

signed, scared n wants to stop!

well first of all you shouldnt change to impress someone cuz then they dont know who you really are. and second of all you should tell ur dad cuz you got urself into that mess. tell nate the you dont wanna have sex and that if he breaks up with you than he really didnt like you. if you tell ur dad he can get you help but ull be punished but atleast u wont be punished for somehtings stupid.....i hope i helped...in the end ill know u will make the right decision.

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hey, i have this friend..and she swears that she likes this boy (bob)...but im almost positive that she likes this other guy (eddie) that is madly in love with her..im starting to think that she likes both...and i cant really trust that she likes bob since i know shed rather be with a guy that loves her than a guy that doesnt love her...what do you think?also...i have another friend that keeps callin me a nickname that i hate...i tell her to stop and she wont...shood i not be friends with her anymore or what?
~peanut

peanut,
listen to ur friend. if she swears that she likes bob than you should belive her. and how do you know that bob doesnt love her and eddie does? and if she new that for a fact then maybe she would change who she liked. but somethings are just opinionated. and about the whole nickname thing. everyone goes through it. and know matter how much you hate it or like it you will be called it. everyone goes through that at a time. so dont worry ur not the only one...i hope i helped....

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I've liked the same guy for 2 years. We are friends and all, but I know he'll never like me...But now I have two questions. My best friend EVER likes him now, and she always gets the guys she wants. I'm so mad!! What should I do about her? Also, how do I get over him and move on to another guy that might actually like me? I really need help so I'll have a good school year without losing a friend or being obsessed with a guy that'll never like me!!?

well somethings just dont work out. but you shouldnt pick a guy over your friends. that or talk to ur friend about it. but i no its hard to get over a guy. u just have to keep trying and telling..urself that u dont like him. and u can like him to even tho ur bff like him...i hope i helped....

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I jus got signed with an agent for my voice!! and in 3 weeks im supposed to go to L.A. to record my first cd!! im so excited...but im really nervous and sad ill have to leave my friends in my freshman year. i know i should take the job considering ill be BiG and i really wanna see my name in lights but im so scared ill lose my friends while im gone and all the new friends ill make (celebs maybe :)) will not turn out to be real and ill be all alone! what to do!? HELP!

If you had good enough friends then they wouldnt leave you. just keep in touch with them. like write them email them talk to them on the internet just do anything to keep in touch with them. and just dont forget about them. visit them too when you become famous. good luck...i know ull make it

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ok im going into 9th grade and im trying out for varsity...we already had one tryout and i didnt do very well i dont think...i need to be tougher going to the ball....any suggestions??? im a fast learner and im willing to work hard! leave your AIM sn if u can help and also leave advice!!

you need to have confidence in yourself. say to yourself i can do this...i will make it. just keep pushing yourself until you reach your goal. you cant give up. just keep pushiung yourself. if you need my sn its in my column page. i hope i helped....good luck

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Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused.

well you can just wait until they break up so that you dont have anything to do with it. or you can just talk to bob. tell him the truth in how you feel. but tell him everything. i hope i helped....goo luck i know you will do the write thing...

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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

dont let that get to you. just ignore it. Who cares what other people think. If you leave him he will be all alone to face those rumors by himself. besides if he really means alot to you, you wouldnt let those things get to you....i hope i helped

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hey its me agen! thanks for my last question u guyz helped me lots! evry1 of u!! haha my sn is blondebaby3249 if u wanna IM me! ok heres my new question...
last year i had 3 real bestfriends i mean we were like TOTALLY the bestest friends now this summer its like... rite in the beginning these 2 girls hate me now they call me a slut and stuff when ive nevr had sex and stuff! and they say i wear too much eye makeup(which i dont) and i dress slutty! so ive tryed to not put as much eye makeup on but then this one girl outta the group is like i dont care what u say im not gonna be frinds with u agen! and im like ok bitch! and were in this huge fight and then the last girl outta our 4 is like my neighbor so we gotta be friends... but that one girl is like saying shes gona make my life miserable and stuff and im totally confuzed! PLEZE HELP ME!!!

who cares what they think. just be you. dont change for someone else. if they dont like who you are thats there fault not yours. never change for someone else change for your self. if they are just gonna be mean to you and everything find some new bffs...i hope i helped...

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how long should i wait b4 i tell a girl how i feel about her after she breaks up with someone she really loved.the only reason they broke up was because he was moving to another state. thanx
dan

well instead of telling her how you feel. comfort her and help her through her time of need. shell really appreciate it. then when shes almost over him you should say it. i hope i helped....

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During your first year of h.s. do u hang out with new friends or friends from ur grammar school cause idont have many friends from my grammar school and im worried that i wont have nayone to hang out with if i dont make friends ritee away?

well you hang out with both. you will meet know people and hang out with them but ull also hang out with old. but just kinda who ever is in your homeroom. thats kinda what happend to me. i just hanged out with people in my homeroom. and old friends. but i met alot of new people. i hope i helped

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hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.

Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help!

well since you like her just be happy for her and your friend. dont regret anything. it is better to tell ppl how you feel than not to. but dont try and make her like you. it wont work. you cant change her feelings. idk what else to tell you. but i hope i helped and i hope that you can find a way to deal with this.

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this wasnt really under a category..but are are some cool screen names for a blonde vball player?!? thatnks in advance

add numbers at the end if desired....

blnde_bombshell
vball x blondie
blnde x v_ball_playa
vball playa
playa_of_v-ball
v-ball_playa4lyf
blondieATheart

i hope i helped

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is any other columnist's writing different?? I mean I go to 'ask a question' and the font is bigger than it used to be!! its different!! is anyone else's like that?

yea mine did that to. but i have know reason why.

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I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do?

yea i no what you mean. im going through something like that to but im the gurl. belive me just let her make her mind up. in the end itll be the right one whether u agree or disagree. you cant make someone like you nor can you change someones feelings about someone. its just not right. just be happy for her. i hope i helped....

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This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks

yea of course. i have no doubt. but watch out for the guys...some of them can be players.

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I have played basketball all my life... it has become an every day thing for me ... every day i practice 4 to 6 hours a day... This year for some reason Im confused about wanting to play or not...I played this summer with our towns varsity and want it to stay that way, but if i end up of JV i will be really depressed like last year should i still play even if it means being on JV?

o wow....im kinda going through the same thing about not knowing if i wanna play or not. if you love the sport play. who cares if your on jv. you have to start somewhere. you cant always expect to be on the varsity team all your life. cuz it prolly wont happen. sry if this seems meen but its the truth. and i dont want to lie to u...i hope i helped....

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this wasn't really under a category..but...do u have any good screen names for a blonde volleyball player??...thanks in advance!!!

yea ill try my best in coming up with sns. sry if this is late but i was away for the weekend.
(add numbers if you want at the end of them)

volleyball4lyf
blond*volley*plyr
volleyball#1
volleyball*blonde
blondie_vball
xx_volleyball_xx

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