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I'm Sarah, i'm 16. I'm a typical 16 year old girl. I'm a junior in high school. The thing thats gets on peoples nerves most about me is that i'm too sarcastic. But I can be serious...sometimes. I just got a car that I love but its already very messy...like me. I am not clean, or organized...sometimes I don't even know what the term means. I just got a job and was late on my 3rd day. I am late to almost everything. As you can see I am far from perfect, but I accecpt myself as me. I'm not perfect in school, actually I am going to summer school this summer, but to me, it's not that big of a deal. Things don't phase me like they do other people...
I am a little spoiled. My dad lets me keep his credit card and gives me money on it that he doesn't even have. My mom gives me her debit card way to often and usually is to ditzy to notice what I do on it. I love my parents. My grandmother is pretty rich and gives me money to come visit her...and sent me money to buy stuff for work...she sent me way more than I needed and I love her very much too! =)
I lost my grandpa 2 years ago and i miss him to this day. He was one of those people that you can't forget and no matter how much pain it causes you to think of them, you never even want to forget them, becuase you feel somewhat empty. He was one of the greatest people to me and I love him and miss him very much and cant wait until we meet up again.
When i'm am not working or not in school...i sleep as late as possible and stay in my pj's all day. I am not one of those people that gets dress to sit at home. I will go out in my pjs if i have to. To me, what people think about me is not as important as what I think about myself.
Some of my favorite things:
tv, movies, summer, not having school, beach, vacations anywhere, music (country and alternative rock), my mom (she is hilarious and i couldnt live without her...shes one of my best friends), my job (i love making money), my car, my fanily.
I am very typical but unique in my own way. I can sing very good, by myself in my car or in the shower...thats it! When i get bored I love to color...but i am really 16...not 10.
I have been through so much...my parents were divorced when i was 2 and i lived with my mom...she has had many boyfriends, and we have lived with a few...she has been engaged and married once before. That was really hard on me, harder than she or anyone thinks.
1. i had to leave all my friends and move an hour away to somewhere i had never lived before and move in with people I bearly knew.
2. i am an only child and the man she married had 2 kids. peroid.
Dont get me wrong, I loved his kids but when you are an only child for 15 years then get mixed with a 13 year old boy and a 9 year old girl that are used to getting everything they want and never doing anything....cant be good.
Me and his daughter got really close and as much as I dont like to admit it, it really hurt me when we couldn't be step sisters anymore. and her brother, he and I were alike in some ways and not in others, he was very carcastic like me which isnt always a good thing but sometimes is. We got along but i was shy and he was a little to. But we had just gotten used to each other when my mom told me they were getting a divorce...i wasn't suprised.
There are many other things about me that I am not going to bore you with because I want you to get to the end without falling asleep...if you have even gotten this far...
Now if you have read this far already which i really dont think you have...then you can ask me a question. I like giving advice...it makes me feel wise, and people tell me i am not to bad at it...so go ahead...its its stupid...you will feel the warth of my sarcasim....but its serious...then i will be as serious as my sarcasim permits....so just find out.
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To everyone that has answered my question I would like to say thank you and I now have my own column thanks again.
hey...i dont know if i answered one of ur questions but if so...ur welcome!!! and whats ur column thing....ill go look at it..in ur subject line u said that ur having a problem making it so if u need any help let me know!!!:]
Well...everybody...
I gots bad news. I know a lot of people on here know who I am..so..they'll know about this...but this is KateStar1011...and Rance and I are no longer engaged. I'm really really depressed..and I think I've learned the simple fact of not being right for eachother, but I'm moving out soon of the apt we owned...and I was just wondering if anybody had any tips for me to just stop crying. I know it's pathetic almost, but...I just can't stop.
Thanks a lot everybody...
Have a wonderful daY!
I as so sorry to hear about that!!! Really!!! But some ways to stop crying...hmm why dont you just go out with your girlfriends and spend time with your family and forget about guys for right now!! i really hope this helps and im sorry!!!
Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?
xoxo Alyssa*
NO ITS NOT UR FAULT!!! u kept telling him 2 stop and he wudnt....that is so not ur fault...if i were u i wudnt have sex with this guy anymore becuz the way u described him it doesnt sound like hes ur boyfriend and if he is and u wanna stay with him then i wud just talk 2 him and tell him how u feel and that u dont wanna do that anymore...hope this helped!!!
OoK well there's this guy who I keep seeing in the math hallway -n- well everytime we pass each other we always lo0k at each other.WHat does that mean? I haven't really learned his name but I'm dying to ask..Homecoming is coming up..??What should I do?..
Talk to him girl!!!! Don't be shy...he cud really like you too!!!! Just go for it and just like start talkin to him...start up a convo... and just remember u dont need a guy 2 go 2 homecoming with...u can always go with a bunch of ur friends!!! (but a guy 2 go with doesnt hurt...lol)
good luck and let me know how ur turns out!!!hope this helped!!
HELP
I NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE.....I AM REALLY DEPRESSED...MY MOM JUST DIED YESTERDAY AND MY BOYFRIEND OF FOUR YEARS BROKE UP WITH ME TODAY AND I KEEP THINKIN ABOUT KILLIN MYSELF.
Wow! I'm reaaly sorry to hear about your mom and boyfriend. But don't kill Yourself! Think of all you have to live for! You still have other family and friends and your friends love you and so does your family and they lost your mom also! And think of all you have to live for...it's more then you probably think!!!!Give it time and you will feel better soon....Im sorry i dont know what its like to lose a family member thats as close to you as your mom but i did lose my grandfather (that i was sooooo freakin close to) a few months ago and i dont think it has sunk in yet....i hope every thing works out ok and i really hope this helps!!!!
Maybe u shud think about seeing a coouncelor???
Do you all know any acne face washes that work really well? (I don't really have sensitive skin)
- Flawed Face
ProActive is the best I have ever used! It's a little bit pricey but it waorks great! It's about $40 but it comes with a cleanser, a toner, and a mosterizer(sp?) and i have been using it for about a month and i started noticing a different after about a week. You can order it online or on tv and they also sell it in the mall! Hope this helps!!
I have this sisgusting red thing on the lip of my eye. My mom said it's a "sti?". How do i get rid of it! ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
yeh shes rite its a stye and it shoud go away in a couple of days but if it doesnt u will need 2 go 2 the doctor...hope this helped!!
hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!
x0x-dani
hmm...thats kind of a hard one but if u still wanna do other dtuff 4 him u cud get him somthing that maybe he has really wanted but hasnt said 2 much about or somthing he would never think u wud get him...im sorry im not much help but i will ask this question 2 the pool and see what other answers i can get and i will post them up for u on my column so keep lookin back 2 see if i cud get anything else!!!hope this helped a lil!!
okay, well i am very blessed that i am not overweight, BUT the only problem is that my legs are huge! this might sound cheesy, but i'm serious! it's as if my legs dont match my body! i want to lose the weight but i dont exactly have time to exercise. i wear a skirt to school because the pants are awkward. what can i do to lose the weight? Or make them look thinner?
u know since ur not overweight and u have a skinny body then it might be muscle thats making ur legs big...if not then running and walking wud help and also doing leg weights but use little weight and do more reps....hope this helps!!
My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(
yes u can get pregnant if u dont use a condom no matter what u do...wiping it off, pulling out...it doesnt matter u can still get prenant!!!! he might not be lyin 2 u 2 get prenant but maybe he just likes it better w/o the condom cuz it does feel better....but u need 2 talk 2 him and tell him u dont want 2 get pregnant and yall will either use a condom or u wont do it at all...hope this helps...
Ok if u have sex in a pool or like in the shower pretty much in water and u dont wear a condom can n e thign happen like when the guy busts?!?!?!?!
plz answer and DONT delete!!!!!!
NEED TO KNO!!!!!
if u mean can u get pregnant then YES u can....
Ok well last year all my dreams had come true. The guy I had feel for since I layed eyes on him 3 years ago, had finally liked me (though, we were going out or anything). I was pretty, popular... and I liked it. I wasnt conceited... I tried to act like I didnt know what people thought about me... but really I did. I heard ppl talk... I'm not stupid. Some goths said they didnt like me, some punks said I was too preppy. But I was me... and I liked it! I had my bff by my side always! The guys would usually fall for me... but it wasnt worth it, i had my eye on that one boy (from before). And now I notice that my bff was kind of my follower. I didnt mean to do it. I mean everyone knew we were bff's and we always hung out with the same people... but she didnt get as much attention from boy as me I guess. THEN something terrible happened... My middle school split up into different high schools... I didnt want this to happen at all... I loved my life, and now it was all changing!!! ANYWAYS i went to high school... and now that a year there has passed me and my bff are still friends... we have a lot of the same friends... but things are different. She's the one getting all the guys. Shes more popular because of sports and church and all. And I feel as if I'm the one following her. I hate it! Before it was perfect! my life was great! I felt so comfortable being myself! But now I feel different... I dont want to make a wrong move, I dont know what to say! I need some major help! not like 'be yourslef and everything will be great...'blah blah blah... Ive tried that... nothing changed. I just wanna be popular again! HELP ME. My friend just took my life
well i dont mean 2 be harsh and im sorry if u take this that way but...now ur feeling how she felt...things cant always revolve around u...give other pple and chance and be happy for her....think about it like now she feels how u felt and by ur question i cud tell u loved it...and ur friend didnt "take ur life" shes just livin it up like u did and ur still tryin 2 do....how about tell her ur happy for her and be friends with her and try and meet new pple...i just switched schools and noone here is friendly and i really wish they were...all the cliqes (sp?) have already been made...so now i have met like 3 pple....and i dont do anything witrh them cuz i still dont know them very well...and im sorry...i know u said ur not conceited but i think u r a little bit....if u werent u wudnt be this jealous of a friend that is now more popular then u and she didnt do anything 2 u!!!! try and be friends with her and meet new pple....but life doesnt revolve around bein popular...just live it up and make other friends!~!!!!!!!:]
im a 14 year old girl im 5'4" and i weigh i wopping 135 pounds i need to lose about 20 lbs in 1 month is that possible and how do i do it i epecialy need it on my butt and theighs please help me or if there are any good websites on how to lose you can give them to me --thanks
its not very typical 2 lose 20 pounds in one month but give urself 2 and u will def. lose the weight...when i lose weight i will lose it everywhere...but u can tone ur butt and thighs by doin like leg weights at the gym or ankle weights and dance...thats what i do...lol...but just eat very healthy and exercise at least 30 min everyday....GOOD LUCK!!!!
is there an age of how old ur supposed to be when u get ur belly button peirced? ill rate ya. lol thanx ~JessiKa~
no but if ur under 18 u have 2 have a parents consent....
Can you still get breasts after you've had your period like 9 times?
well it really has 2 do with what age u r...i know someone who started their period at age 9 and someone who started at age 16...so it really depends on ur age...
hi does toothpaste rellay work on pimples/zits?!
KLG
yes it does...it burns a lil though...but it helps...but u have 2 do it more then once...hope this helped!!
Crest Whitestrips Premium...worth the $30?
Y*E*S!!!!! to me they are very much worth it!!!!!! they work reallllly well!!!!
When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ?
wow 4 tylenol...i wudnt suggest taking 4 of any pain killers...maybe 2...and try a heating pad where it hurts and if it just wont stop them u shud see ur doctor and he can give u a prescription 2 help!!!
OK im 18 years old, and ive never had a girl friend before. Is there something wrong with me that girls wouldn't approach me or is it something that i have to do. My pics are at www.faceparty.com/dozzer check it out and tell me what you think please. It really sucks being alone.
i looked at ur pic and info and u seem like an awsome person...but its just a guess now-a-days everything is based on looks (which is so stupid) but about ur problem...how about u go up 2 a girl....dont wait for her...i really do know how u feel!!!!!! i promise!!!!!....just try and meet pple urself!!!! dont be shy...it will be ok...u will meet someone u will want 2 spend the rest of ur life with....just give it time...u cud meet them in 5 years u cud meet them 2morrow!!!! just be confident in urself and girls will see that and notice it and like u for it....let ur personality shine!!!!!!!good luck!!!!!
does anyone know how to get bleach OUT of clothing? like if you get Clorox bleach on a dark blue tshirt or something?? thnx so much !!:)
no there no way 2 get it out...once it gets on there it changes the color completely and theres no way 2 get it back...