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Heyyy, I'm Mary:)
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My friend is 14/f and she wants big boobs. She's not going to get plastic surgery(thats for sure) and i keep telling her everyone goes at their own pace. She doesnt even fit into an A cup. DOes anyone know how to make their boobs bigger with out surgery and stuff?I know this may be embarrasing so dont be a smart and tease. I rate 5's for any good answers tho!

Oh Goodness...she's 14 and she's not even an A cup?! ..No really, everyone grows at their own pace...she needs to realize that. Paris Hilton/Cameron Diaz/etc are flat and they don't care...Um I honestly don't think anyone on this entire website can tell your friend how to get bigger boobs without surgery...She can stuff..or wear padded bras (the usual)..But if she can't even fit into an A cup than it would be hollow in that stuffed bra..Maybe there's some kind of medicine?! Really...I highly doubt anyone can tell your friend the answer to this..besides stuffing and padded bra--there's no answer...besides..she's only 14..14...TRUST ME..it doesn't matter...If it's a guy issue..well why would she want a guy to like her only b/c of her boobs? Well, that's all I have to say about it..your friend will grow bigger boobs eventually..

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Hey!
I can never find jeans that fit!
I have really long legs but im not that tall. I know they say abercrombie is good for that, but they're jeans to be are so bulky and they're not a tight comfy fit.
Does anyone know wheere I can get jeans that are long and strechy and are tight? Like almot straight legged but still flare? But not too expesive.
anyone know what I mean?

Hollister! I have a tall friend and she wears hco jeans..I love AF jeans though..also American Eagle has cute jeans too.

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what are those bikini things cheerleaders wear under their skirts? ever since bring it on came out i've called them spankies but what is the real name?

They're called bloomers ;) Hoped I helped

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Okay so theres this really bad rumor going around about me that is not true at all!! And i dont know how it started or who thought of it. Why do people do this if they dont like someone and why waste your time? Any ideas.

Yeah I know exactly what you mean..I've been one of those people to gossip about it but I've never actually spread one...I think people make up rumors so they can feel superior..It takes the spotlight off them and brings it to someone else..maybe it's because they don't want others to see their flaws but other people's flaws...even if it isn't true..Just ignore and set things straight..if people ask you..tell them it's not true..It's not like they can argue against it..I mean, where's the proof? If it's not true..they will have nothing to back themselves up..if you find the person who spread the rumor.confront them..ask them why they said such a horrible lie..maybe you'll learn something about them you never knew..this part of life is just a process all of us have to go through to learn who our real friends are. Hope I helped..XOXO

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I'm 17 years old and I weigh under 100 pounds. I don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. In fact I eat a lot, and I'm pretty healthy. I don't like feeling so skinny though and I want to know if anyone has the same problem and if you have any suggestions for me to gain some weight? I've always been so small and weighed so little and seriously, if I got to even just 100 pounds I would be so happy. Smallness is kind of genetic in my family but I want to gain! Help please.

Heyy! Well I'm 15, 5'0 and I'm 98 lbs...hahah and NO I do not have an eating problem. Just like you, I eat ALOT..but most of it goes...welll..I don't know whereee...I used to REALLY want to gain weight..b/c people asked me if I was anorexic..but I've learned that it's a good thing..Your metabolism is fast...and that's good! If it's genetic..well, I'm positive you can't change your genes..;) haha but appriciate your weight! When you get older, your metabolism will slow down..so enjoy it now! Eat healthy..don't eat junk food so you'll gain weight..(that's unhealthy!) But If you really want to gain some weight, visit a doctor...he will give you his personal opinion...if he thinks that you should gain weight, he'll give you some special medication..OR just do what the "non-serious advice-givers" will tell you..eat eat eat, then lie down on the couch. (I'm pretty sure that will do it!)....no but really...don't do it..I was kidding..If I were you, I would be happy :) But since you're not, eat fruits and veggies and RICE..and I recommend going to a doctor because if this is genetic, It's unlikely you can do anything. Hope I helped! XO

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For the gals--

what stars do you dream about and whats the best part about them {physicly]? keep in mind im only 13 so i cant have mustaches or anything like that.

PS:have you ever heard of drake bell? I like his old hairdo.

Justin Timberlake..ahh I'm in loveeee with him..to begin with, he has a nice bod :) and I don't know..I just like him!

Also..I don't think you could change your look by looking like a celebrity..I mean..you could..but why would you want to? Your face will stay the same..even if you have a killer body..I'm not tried to make you feel bad or anything but there's nothing you can really do..besides everyone has something sexy about them..and you'll probably change every year..TRUST ME..but for now..I guess you should work out, (straight teeth would be nice, too), wear a deeelightful cologne (abercrombie&fitch!)! OH YES..and be confident..not cocky..hope I helped! xo

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ok so my periods started today, agh what a pain. but im supposed to go to a theme park tonight and i LOVE rollercoasters and going upside down and stuff. if i wear a pad (cant wear tampons for some medical reason) would i like leak going upside down or something? haha idk really i was just wondnering if itd be stupid or something
haha
thanks to anyone who can help :-D

No you will not leak..unless you're wearing shorts and it falls out (very unlikely) but you never know.

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does 3 way calling on a regular phone cost money? how much?

Yes 3-way calling does cost money. I used to have three-way calling but my mom took it off so now we save a couple bucks..haha..but I don't know how much it costs..it depends on who your phone service company is..hope I helped.xo

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i have an amazing boyfriend who i am totally in love with.
my friend, however, likes me..he won't leave me alone and is always sad because i have a boyfriend..he's getting pretty annoying and i don't want him to be all depressed.. what should i do?

Tell him you love your boyfriend and if he is a true friend, he should back off. Try and introduce your friend to other girls so he can get his mind off you. Tell him that you still want to be friends but nothing more. Be nice about it..but firm. If he doesn't back off then that means he's kind of obsessed and that would be scary. If he's really your friend, he would want you to be happy.

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my friends' mother isn't the nicest person in the world, she's verbally abusive and just slapped her across the face..now my friend is considering running away and i think she's overreacting..but i really don't know. is she overreacting? what should i say to convince her to stay? ..or what?

No, no your friend should not run away. I think she should get help and start talking to a counselor or something. Her mom needs to get help. Get someone to talk to her and tell her that slapping her daughter (unless it's for a VERY VERY good reason) is not the best way to teach someone a lesson or prove something. Running away will only make things worse..if her mom catches her, don't you think her mom is going to slap her and abuse her again? The only thing to do is to get help and tell your friend to talk to someone..it's the only thing she can do.

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my boobs are just so big.. they just dont fit in my a cup anymore.. my bras too big.. what do i do..

You get a bigger bra size...maybe try a B cup..

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my homecoming dress is strapless and I am a size A in bra but I am going to wear a pretty good push up bra. My concern is my dress slipping while I'm dancing. I just want to know if anyone has been in this type of situation before and has some advice to keep the dress from slipping. thanks in advance

Well your dress should fit perfectly if it's the right size! Just make sure the push up fits well and the dress is not tight but snug..where it will fit and you won't have to worry about it falling.

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I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am.

Forget what people say...if you're in love, then you're in love! I think 17 is the right age to be in love...plus I know people that were in love at 14, too! Just follow your heart and it'd lead you in the right place. ..)I said "in love" alot..haha) hope i helped!

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Are ceramic hair straighteners better for your hair than regular straighteners?

Yes yes it is..it will work tons better and make your hair look greater!...Chi straightening irons are the best..buy it at trade secret or your local beauty salon..$130?

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The other day I did about 25 situps and now my stomach in the abdomen area is sore. Is this normal??

Thanks ahead of time.

Yeah it's totally normal! It's cause your muscles don't usually do it so it's kinda new to them..haha..but just keep doing them..they're good for you and after a while, they won't be so sore anymore.

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Ok my mom doesnt like thongs adn wont let me wear one and none of my friends do, but other people in my grade do. And i cant drive so i cant drive myself to the store to get one. Does anyone have a way i can buy one adn not let my mom know i amm buying it. And i cant go get one with my friends because they hate people who wear them! i rate high!

OK you can either-

*Go to the mall with your mom..say "Mom, I need to go to the bathroom." Instead of going to the restroom, go into the lingerie store and get some thongs, pay for them..and then hide them in your purse!

*Go with your friends...use the same technique as above..

*Get someone you can trust to buy some for you.

*Sorry that's all I can think of right now..Hope I helped!

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You told me I could inbox you (thanks) so I am. I think what I want to wear is jeans like you said, but to make it not boring, I'm wearing a pair that's got an applique with like a rose kinda going down the side. A little hard to explain, but it's got a western feel. Then I have some cowboy boots or ballet-style wedges that I could wear with it (both being tan), with an off-white top scrunched in the middle and flowy short sleeves. It's so hard to explain... I bought them at wet seal though... the jeans arent on the website but the top is here: http://www.wetseal.com/shop/detail.asp?styleid=35123224&colorid=116&cat_id=8&sub_id=14 in color "vanilla". It should be able to pull together. From the bits and pieces I wrote here tell me your honest opinion.

Jeans with a rose down the side is an excellent choice! (Those are totally "IN" right now)..cowboy boots are super cute..but only if you're going somewhere like a country concert..or a party..+Your feet won't be lovin' you that much by the end of the day if you do wear them..Ballet style shoes are really "in" right now, also..I would suggest wearing those or if you have clogs, that would look really cute. To tell you the truth, I'm not favoring that shirt that much because it looks too "nice" to go to school in. I understand you want to spice up your look for school, but maybe go with shirts like these:

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10201&storeId=10251&parentCategoryId=12552&categoryId=12622&productId=242491&langId=-1
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Polos are VERY VERY in right now..you can NEVER go wrong.

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http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10201&storeId=10251&parentCategoryId=12552&categoryId=12629&productId=237182&langId=-1
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((ANYTHING WITH EMBELLISHMENTS ON THEM ARE VERY CUTE!))

I know we may not have the same tastes in clothes, but I'm giving you my opinion. I hope you read my page before you sent this question-you were suppose to write a word on the subject line so I know that you have read my info...but I decided to let this one slide. I hope you take my opinion into consideration with your outfit. Good luck on the first day of school!

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Ok I know this question sounds dum, but what can I do to help me get better faster. i have a cold (runny nose, stopped up nose, and I can rwally breathe! ) What can I do.?

Sign, Sick Ass

Well, this is gonna be the usual..

Drink TONS of water..

Drink your medicine even if it's gross (important!)

Eat tons of veggies/fruits

Get tons of REST

and if your nose is stopped up, eat a peppermint to help you breathe for a while!

Hope I helped!

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sorry this is so long but... is it wrong not to love your father, now hold on don't blow a gasket i'll explain everything. ya see my dad went to jail when i was really young and and i never got to know him. and my grandperents keep wanting me to go clear across the state to visit him. and i don't wanna spend 5 days in a hot car just to see someone i dont even know for 2 hours. but i feel so ashamed, i feel so self centered, i feel so selfish. i feel like i owe it to him to go. please i want your oupion am i the scum of the earth, or am i ok

please, dont yell at me. i already feel bad enough as it it.

OMG it is not your fault if you don't love your father. He went to jail for doing something wrong so you've never actually spent time with him. It's like going to meet a stranger for two hours. Don't worry..you are not a bad person at all. Maybe you aren't ready to meet him now..but maybe you will be later on in life..and when you are, you can go visit him. You are not self centered or selfish and you should not feel ashamed at all. If you don't want to see him, you don't have to. Hope I helped!

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my dad can be so mean sometimes he yells really loud and when he gets mad he throws and breaks stuff and it really scares me. i feel bad because i dont know if i love him or not and i feel like everything is my fault!! i dont know what to do please help!

Wow..Listen to me..nothing is your fault if your father is acting abusive..

GET HELP..if you really can't take it anymore.

These are signs of an abusive relationship between your father and yourself. If you can't talk to him about it, try going to your counselor or someone you can trust.

Try to avoid his rampages as much as possible and keep your distance from him if you don't want to get involved.

I wish you the best of luck and if you need anything else, feel free to drop one in my inbox.

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