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im karlyn.
i love volleyball.
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people tell me im good at giving advice.
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dont laugh please but i have a question. is there anyway you can like "speed up" your period so it doesnt last as long? like i said, please dont laugh, i seriously want to know if there is a way. (link)
excersing is like the only way i know.
thats what i do...im on my schools swim team and its like only 4 or 5 days instead of a whole week. just work out like a lot...it also helps you feel better!


is four times around a football field a mile? (sorry i should know this but i dont lol)

thanks in advance! (link)
well yes and no.
4 times around the track around the feild is a mile....but the feild is slightly less


I've completely given up junk food. I don't eat fast food, candy, sodas, french fries, pizza, ice cream, potato chips, donuts, all that stuff. So anyways, today my dad, my brother and I went to McDonalds for lunch and I didn't get anything, I said I'd wait to eat lunch when we got home. Then my bro said "You're just afraid of getting fat. And he waved a french fry in my face." I didn't know what to say... and it was embarassing. I'm not afraid of getting fat. I eat plenty!! Just not junky stuff. I want to live a healthy life. And some of my friends joke that I'm anorexic cause I won't eat popcorn at the movies or drink sodas with them. What do I say when they do that?? (link)
well they shouldnt be making fun of you for trying to have a healthy life. but really i dont know what to say to them...becuase they probabley will keep teasing you. but just dont react to it...thats what they want. just brush it off and forget about it!



14/f
OK so my bf is my neighbor, wait scratch that we arent rly going out PUBLICLY, so its GOTTA BE A SECRET. We need a place to make out but whenever we r together it is at my house or his and his sis is my best friend... so when she spends the night i tell her to call him and say she forgot her toothbrush or something and then he walks over and we JUST talk... its kinda wierd like that... where is there a place where we can be truly alone w\ out like, being in public? *open to any suggestions (link)
well. first i suggest that you just tell people...but thats just me i guess i dont know the circumstances. but if you dont want to do that. just go out for like a walk in the neighborhood. and you 2 could go to like a park or something. you probabley wouldnt see to many people that you know there. and i guess if it comes down to it. you can always just havve him over when no one else is home?


I'm 15 and i've had my period for about 2 years now maybe a little more & in Late May/Early June I was still a 34A and now I am a 34B.. is it weird to go up a full cup size in just a few months or no? Is it normal? Are they going to keep getting bigger? (link)
haha i kinda had the same thing as you. its normal. nothing to worry about. and no. they wont just keep growing. they will stop pretty soon. im guessing that they might get a little bigger but probabley not a whole cup size.



me and my bf still haven't kissed yet and I don't know why, but for some reason...I want him to do it first. Do you think he'll kiss me anytime soon?

Also, how could you tell if your bf really loves you? (link)
if you really want to kiss him, then do it yourself. dont waste your time waiting for him to do it, becuse chances are hes waiting for you to kiss him. SOmetimes its even cuter. if you 2 are close just go for it. dont be afraid.

and about the whole love thing. if he wont kiss you...im guessing he doesnt love you. but tahts just me. when he loves you, you will know. its agood feeling and hard to explain but you;ll just know.


When they do an IV... does it hurt?

And how long does it take for you to be "put out"

-Wisdom teeth getting pulled out-


I really dont like needles.. (link)
um well. i had an iv when i had knee surgery. and it kinda hurt at first cuz they give you a shot to numb it. and it might be kinda scary. im scared of needles too. but after they put it in it just feels kinda weird. but it doesnt hurt. and i dont know what they are doing to put you out for wsdim teeth...but i just had to take a few breaths of this stuff and it put me out in like 5 seconds.


next year i'm going into high school. I was totally psyched when i finally relized that this was my last year of boring old middle school and in high school I can pick my own classes. But earlier today a friend said her big sister was in highschool and she said it was terrible. They stuff the samller kids in trash cans and put books on the lids to make sure they don't get out. And they prank all the new kids by throwing eggs and water ballons at them. Is/was your hs that bad??????? thanks in advance. (link)
hahah noo way.
of course your always going to have the bullies and yeah some of the upperclassmen can be stuck up but really highschool isnt that bad. Just dont try to get to freindly with upperclassmen, they might not like it. You really shouldnt have to worry abotu any thing.

just get ready for the next 4 years...they go by fast and you will learn to love them.


ok so i have 26days to tone my legs or lose weight in my legs

i was wondering if like an hour of riding my exercise bike on the hardest setting would have any improvment???

thankss (link)
hey. not only biking on the hardest setting but you can try it on a lower setting and going for longer, it will help you work out your legs for longer, which will get them more toned.
Also I do a lot of jump training...it helps you to jump higher but it keeps my legs toned. Just do little jumps. 100-200 a day is a good number to start. Nothing big...just short little jumps over and over. And try just jumping with your legs, try not to use your arms.



okay. i am 5'8". do you think that is too tall for some guys. the guys that are about my height. i mean. i would prefer a taller guy. but it doesnt really matter. are taller girls a turn off for guys? (link)
hey. dont worry about it at all. I dont know how old you are but chances are that guys your age are still growing. I feel the same way that you do. I'm 5'10 and yeah some guys were definitly shorter than me. So if it matters to you a lot i guess just look for a nice taller guy, or even a guy just about your height. And also....a lot of guys consider long legs a major turn on...soo don't worry about turning any guys off becuause you are tall.



Well i have a Helen of troy Hair straighter and i have to say i swear by it! Once my hair is done it looks awesome and perfectly straight. Way better than any straighter i used before it.(picture http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v214/sugarysweet89/e125c9c5.jpg)

My problem is, is when i step outside and it is really humid (like everyday where i live) or i even get the least bit sweaty it starts to frizz a little and flick out at the ends.

I don't put any product in my hair while/after straightening which could be the reason but is it my straighters fault it gets like that or is it always going to do that because of the humidity.


I was thinking of investing in a better straightener (i was gonna go with chi but after so many bad reviews i am thinking sedu?) But i Don't want to spend $125 if the same thing is just gonna keep happening


so is there something i can put in my hair? or will a better straighter fix everything? (link)
defffinitly just the weather. I have the same kind of straightener and yeah...i love it. You could try putting brilliant burrnett straigtening balm in your hair...thats what I do and it doesnt get as frizzy.



im like really bad with cell phones and dont know much about the carriers and different types and blahblahblah. well anyway right now i have a verizon lg something, but i really want a new phone. i was looking online and came across the razr. well i always knew of it i just never really wanted it or anything. anyway. i was looking at everything it had and it really looked like a phone i'd want and i REALLY liked the magenta color.. but i dont want to switch to a different carrier or whatever, i want to stick with verizon. is that possible? lol sorry i seriously have no clue what im talking about, im really confused. if anyone understands me, can you please help me out! thank youu!! =] (link)
you cant get any other color razor besides silver if you stick with verizon.

i have that phone and its cool


well i got my period the first day of camp and i stil have it because its still he first week of camp. I put pads in, in the morning and since we swim first period i take it out in the bathroom and go swimming because your period temporarilly stops in water. I don't put a pad in after because i usually go to free swim at the end of the day so it would not make any sense. But my bathing suit bottoms get all bloody. Is there any way to make it easier at camp with putting the pads in.

PLEASE HELP! I rate al 5's!

thx

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your period doesnt stop in water. it just looks like it beacuse the blood gets wasked away.
you should try using tampons. they work well and you can wear them while swimming. and if not. just put a pad on after swimming. that way you will be safe.


Yesterday I started giving my boyfriend a handjob, but he didn't cum. I think there was just a little pre-cum. A few minutes later, he got me to finger myself. So, would the pre-cum still be there and what are the chances of me getting pregnant from this?

I am stressing out like crazy.
Thanks. (link)
I think your safe. Even if there was any "pre-cum" on your fingers I dont think that you have to worry about getting pregnant. If you miss your next period or start feeling really sick within the next week or so. Go see your doctor or get a prenancy test.

Hope things are ok!


okay there is this guys at my school and i really like him and he like me too but he wants to have sex with me but i dont want too cuz i dont want to lose my virginaty =[ so im confused i dont know wat to do .. would u plz tell me ? (link)
well let him know that you like him. But if he really wants to have sex with you, chances are hes just using you. Maybe start going out with him or soemthing but let him know that you arent going to have sex with him. Be very up front about it. Don't let him talk you into anything you don't want to do.



14/f i play music (sing & play guitar/piano) and lots of it i would call country music. most kids hate country music, i know! but i love it. i really want to have a carreer in music but i don't want all my friends and people i know to be hating the type of music i play. should i just go for it or should i change my style a little, more pop or rock or something? please tell me your thoughts on any of this. thank you! i rate (link)
wooow. hey dont go assuming that alot of people dont like country music...cuz more than half of my friends LOVE country.

and since when is music about pleasing others? I thought it was to make yourself happy and to express your self...so if you like country then definitly stick with it and dont go changing your style to please other people.


does baby oil help you tan? (link)
yes, any kind of iol helps you tan, you just have to be careful.

i suggest putting on like 8 or 15 sunblock and then using baby oil, it will protect you from getting burnt, but it well help you tan quicker.


I'm a 17 year old virgin. I haven't engaged in any sexual activity. I've been with my amazing boyfriend for almost a year and we have had conversations about sex. He's told me he likes when a girl shaves down there. I've never done that! How do I go about doing this before we do anything sexual? I don't want it to get irritated and not look right. How do I make sure it's smooth and what steps should I take? (link)
dont listen to that other person...nair spefically says not to use it in your vaginal area.

the best way is to either
a. get waxed
or
b.
get in the bath tub and let all the hairs get soft, and your skin too...probalbey around 10 minutes.
first shave downward and then upward. the downward is to thin it, and then upward is to smooth. MAKE SURE to use plenty of shaving cream or you will get cut and irritations.

hope i helped


I have to give this Eighth Grade Speech tomorrow on my four years at my school. I have no idea what to write. Any ideas or like advice I could give?

Examples: Always be yourself. (link)
answer it truthfully.
no one wants to hear a buttered up speech about how wonderful the past 4 years has been.
but dont make it too harsh.

comment on the good, some bad and make sure to mention your favorite parts of school.



so my boyfriends coming over in 5 minutes and my mom and dad arent real big on letting me in my room so there goes that idea..um its VERY hot out and i have central air so we wana stay inside..what can we possibley do?!?! and i dont like kissing infront of my parents so not like we can watch a movie..hurry thanks! (link)
play board games.
i do that a lot. and its fun.
make cookies.


just anything you could normally do by yourself.




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