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My bf and i can NEVER be alone!!!!!!!! help!
14/f
OK so my bf is my neighbor, wait scratch that we arent rly going out PUBLICLY, so its GOTTA BE A SECRET. We need a place to make out but whenever we r together it is at my house or his and his sis is my best friend... so when she spends the night i tell her to call him and say she forgot her toothbrush or something and then he walks over and we JUST talk... its kinda wierd like that... where is there a place where we can be truly alone w\ out like, being in public? *open to any suggestions
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Well, I really don't know the situation if like, you're not allowed to date or something, or he's not allowed to or what, but if there's really no reason, I just think you should tell everyone. It'd get a lot of stress off your back and you'd be able to go wherever together and do what you want freely without any worries anymore. But if you can't, just schedule to hang out somewhere. Ask your parents if you can go to the movies with "Angela" and he can ask his parents if he can go to the movies with..."Ben" and just meet up there and hang out and make out. ;P But, if your bestfriend/his sister asks where you're going, just tell her somewhere else so she doesn't suspect,"Hm. My brother and best friend are going to the same place? What's going on.." Another suggestion is, if not tell everyone, maybe just let your best friend know. I think she should, because you shouldn't keep it from her and plus, it's her brother. That might make it a little easier for you two guys to hang out then whenever you're over her house, cause maybe she'll let you guys go off and hang together for like, an hour or somethinng and then you can come back and hang out with her again. I hope I helped. And if you have any other questions or anything, just post another message thing or IM me or add me on myspace. Whichever. :] <3
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i think you should explain why it has to be a secret before i answer
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well. first i suggest that you just tell people...but thats just me i guess i dont know the circumstances. but if you dont want to do that. just go out for like a walk in the neighborhood. and you 2 could go to like a park or something. you probabley wouldnt see to many people that you know there. and i guess if it comes down to it. you can always just havve him over when no one else is home?
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you could go on a date. some where nice, or just a movie, sit in the back row. and if it has to be a secret, you can tell who ever you keeping it from that its not a date you just want to see this movie and so does he. they may not buy that, so you could get a nother couple and go and tell them that its just a few friends going to a movie, you dont have to sit next to eachother... but some advice... if you want to make out... dont sit where they can see you... because it wont be a secret anymore.
hope i helped
gbu!
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