Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


The Iba dream...


Question Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 11:01 pm

I'm new to this... anyway. I had a dream about my best guyfriend (me and him had a little dissagreement a week or 2 ago). His name is Iba.
So I looked in Iba's Profile in my dream and it said- STATUS:ENGAGED. (iba isnt really into girls yet but hes NOT GAY and i know it for a fact. We're aged 15/16). I asked him what his profile ment and he said that he met this fantastic girl and stuff. I was shocked that i didnt know about it. He told me how wonderfull she was and then he said to me: "I love her" (Iba has never in real life said he loves anyone... with an acception of religious stuff and family and stuff (We're Muslim)) So when he said that he loved her i lost ALL hope in ever having him as my own. Deep down inside i knew they were perfect for one another but i couldnt admit it. I told him i was happy for him and i was in a way. I was happy that he found someone so wonderful but i was sad because I wasnt the one who made him happy.

Iba and I are complete opposites. Hes shy, quiet, funny,nonchallant and very religious whereas I'm outgoing, spontanious, over dramatic, sensitive, and paranoid.

<b> my question is: what do you think my dream ment? and WHY do you think i had this dream? and any other advice? </b>


(Age: 15.5 EXACTLY SEX:FEMALE)


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?


illdomybest answered Saturday August 19 2006, 3:17 am:
maybe this dream was a reflection of your fears. are you sure ibas not gay then confront him find out if you got a shot your better off knowing or its going to torture you

[ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question
]




laycieee answered Friday August 18 2006, 11:10 am:
Lol Sarah, Iba? I think your dream meant that YOU really like him and that you're afraid to lose him. Sometimes during the day when you think about something so much, or so little, they end up popping up in your dreams that night, I don't know why, but it has happened to me tons of times. Usually when I think about something I don't know let's say cheese for like a second of my day, that night I end up dreaming about something to do with cheese. Weird, yes? But it happens. Maybe for a second you thought, 'oh my god what if Iba found another girl?' So maybe that's why you dreamt about it. Other than that there's not really a reason for him being in your dream except you're in love with the kid and don't want to see him with another girl.

[ laycieee's advice column | Ask laycieee A Question
]



MelLeDisko answered Friday August 18 2006, 1:57 am:
Well, it's said that our dreams are usually our subconcious telling us something. So your dream could be that you're afraid of him dating a girl and not you or you miss him. Why you had this dream? I'm not totally sure. You can't really explain why you have the dream you have. Because I've had dreams where I've fought the evil barbie and stuff haha, but I never know why I had dreams. It was just my subconcious telling me something, and I guess that's how it decided to do it. And you never know, it's also said that opposites attract. If you really like this guy, you should go for it. Ask him to the movies sometimes or ask him if he'd like to go on a date sometime, or at least just let him be aware of your feelings. I hope I helped. <3

[ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question
]



xSharpiexLovex answered Friday August 18 2006, 12:08 am:
it could mean you want him back/miss him/cant live without him or something, or you need him and dont want to lose him........probly cause of your disagreement

well obviously your dreams are trying to tell you something, dreams are a message you are subconciously telling yourself.....obviously you like him, you really have to just think about things youve been thinking about and how you feel about him

you could try going here [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

sry i tried

[ xSharpiexLovex's advice column | Ask xSharpiexLovex A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: My bf and i can NEVER be alone!!!!!!!! help!
Next Question >>> What to do when friends come over?

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker