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hola, im melissa.
my friends are my lifee.
im always loud as hell.
im never quiet, ever.
i go to the mall alottt.
i love abercrombie and hollister.
coach and chanel are love.
i love flip flops.
i love nailpolish.
i have a swearing problem.
im really really random.
i dont listen to anyone.
don't tell me what to do
i won't listen, i promise.
i talk back way to much.
i lovee boys. alot.
i love straightning my hair.
i love laughing till i cant breathe.
im easy to get along with.
it annoys the shit out of me when people type like this: LiiKeE o-M-G!~ ii WuZ aTt thA maLl yeSterDaii aNd ii b0ugHt tHe cuTesT puRs3 0N s@l3 f0R lyk3 9000 d0LlaRsz ! o-m-G iisnT thAt Ch3@p ? Liiik3 0-M-G ii kN0w! 0H EM GEE!

lmao okay thats it.

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i was wonderin if anyone could tell me some good pop/rap songs that are upbeat, some like promiscous or maneater by nelly furtado, me n u by cassie, or walk away by paula deanda.. thanks!

i got these from a website and most of them are really upbeat. hope i helped! (please rate) thx! xo melissa


1. 'Ice Box' Omarion
2. 'Over It' Katharine McPhee
3. 'Fergalicious' Fergie
4. 'Irreplaceable' Beyonce
5. 'We Fly High' Jim Jones
6. 'I Wanna Love You' feat. Snoop Dog Akon
7. 'Keep Holding On' Avril Lavigne
8. 'Walk Away' feat. The Dey Paula DeAnda
9. 'Say It Right' Nelly Furtado
10. 'You' feat. Lil Wayne Lloyd
11. 'Shorty Like Mine' Bow Wow
12. 'Smack That' feat. Eminem Akon
13. 'Wind It Up' Gwen Stefani
14. 'Walk It Out' Unk
15. 'Promise' Ciara
16. 'What Goes Around...' Justin Timberlake
17. 'White & Nerdy' Weird Al Yankovic
18. 'This Ain't a Scene, It's an Arms Race' Fall Out Boy
19. 'Glamorous' feat. Ludacris Fergie
20. 'Lips of an Angel' Hinder
21. 'Runaway Love' feat. Mary J. Blige Ludacris
22. 'On the Hotline' Pretty Ricky
23. 'Too Little, Too Late' JoJo
24. 'Say Goodbye' Chris Brown
25. 'Get It Shawty' Lloyd
See the Full List -- Top 100 Songs
26. 'Here (In Your Arms)' HelloGoodbye
27. 'Dangerous' feat. Wyclef Jean Ying Yang Twins
28. 'It Ends Tonight' The All-American Rejects
29. 'Make It Rain' feat. Lil Wayne Fat Joe
30. 'You Don't Know' feat. 50 Cent Eminem
31. 'My Love' feat. T.I. Justin Timberlake
32. 'Chain Hang Low' Jibbs
33. 'The Sweet Escape' Gwen Stefani
34. 'Hurt' Christina Aguilera
35. 'My Valentine' Lloyd
36. 'I Luv It' Young Jeezy
37. 'Welcome to the Black Parade' My Chemical Romance
38. 'We Ride' Rihanna
39. 'Top Back' (Remix) feat. Young Jeezy and Youn... T.I.
40. 'It's Not Over' Daughtry
41. 'Rockstar' Nickelback
42. 'Peanut Butter & Jelly' Cadillac Don and J. Money
43. 'Unappreciated' Cherish
44. 'Before He Cheats' Carrie Underwood
45. 'Irremplazable' Beyonce
46. 'Far Away' Nickelback
47. 'My Wish' Rascal Flatts
48. 'Chicken Noodle Soup' Webstar
49. 'Wait a Minute' feat. Timbaland The Pussycat Dolls
50. 'How To Save A Life' The Fray
51. 'Last Night' feat. Keyshia Cole Diddy
52. 'What Hurts the Most' Rascal Flatts
53. 'King Kong' feat. Chamillionaire Jibbs
54. '1st Time' Yung Joc
55. 'Money In the Bank' feat. Young Buck Lil' Scrappy
56. 'Dem Jeans' feat. Jermaine Dupri Chingy
57. 'That's That' feat. R. Kelly Snoop Dogg
58. 'Tell Me' feat. Christina Aguilera Diddy
59. 'Love Me or Hate Me' Lady Sovereign
60. 'Stuntin' Like My Daddy' feat. Lil' Wayne Birdman
61. 'A Dream' feat. Will.I.Am Common
62. 'Show Stopper' Danity Kane
63. 'Long Way 2 Go' Cassie
64. 'Crazy B*****' Buck Cherry
65. 'Maneater' Nelly Furtado
66. 'SexyBack' Justin Timberlake
67. 'Daddy's Little Girl' Frankie J
68. 'Tim McGraw' Taylor Swift
69. 'Anna Molly' Incubus
70. 'Come Back to Me' Vanessa Hudgens
71. 'Mr. Me Too' Clipse
72. 'Money Maker' feat. Pharrell Ludacris
73. 'Unfaithful' Rihanna
74. Ashley Tisdale 'Be Good to Me'
75. 'Everytime We Touch' Cascada
76. 'Tu Amor' RBD
77. 'Miracle' Cascada
78. 'Poppin' Chris Brown
79. 'S.E.X.' Lyfe Jennings
80. 'Snap Yo Fingers' Lil Jon
81. 'Goin' Down' Yung Joc
82. 'Laffy Taffy' Remix feat. Busta Rhymes and Tw... D4L
83. 'Ride for You' Danity Kane
84. 'I Write Sins Not Tragedies' Panic! At the Disco
85. 'Get Up' feat. Chamillionaire Ciara
86. 'Hips Don't Lie' Shakira
87. 'Give It to Me' feat. Justin Timberlake and N... Timbaland
88. 'Hollywood' feat. Beyonce Jay-Z
89. 'Me and U' Cassie
90. 'Sexy Love' Ne-Yo
91. 'Over My Head (Cable Car)' The Fray
92. 'Zoom' feat. Yung Joc Lil' Boosie
93. 'Call Me When You're Sober' Evanescence
94. 'Chasing Cars' Snow Patrol
95. 'This is Halloween' Panic! At the Disco
96. 'Throw Some D's' Rich Boy
97. 'Rubberband Banks' Young Dro
98. 'London Bridge' Fergie
99. 'Stupid Boy' Keith Urban
100. 'Red High Heels' Carrie Underwood
101. "My Love' Justin Timberlake

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I'm looking for stores that sell clothes like Alloy, delias, forever 21, and rave. Anyone got any suggestions?

5-7-9 has really cute clothes in that style for really cheap.

Charlotte Russe
TJ Maxx
Marshall's
Abercrombie
Hollister
Aeropostale
American Eagle
Wet Seal
Gadzooks

hope I helped!

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Hey,

OK well I guess I'll cut straight to the chase.

I want to do softball, but I am stuck...
[It would be for our school, so it wouldn't be during the summer]

My dad has been out of work & doesn't drive due to epilepsy and my mom is always working. One of my grandma drives, and the other one sort of does, but only in remotely close locations. (She has picked up my brother when he was sick before [at our school]).

My mom works a weird schedule:
~Monday she works 9-3.30
~Tuesday she works 10-8.30
~Wednesday she works 9-3.30
~Thursday she works 9-3.30
~Friday she works 12-3.30

Another person that would be on the softball team lives right behind me. However, I do not know her that well and would somewhat feel funny asking her to drive me home.

My friend could probably give me rides at times, and there are 2 seniors on the team (who, from word of mouth, are mean!)

I would always have to be picked up back at our school, no matter what time.

I also am not sure if I could do it because even without sports, my grades aren't so good, & I'm afraid they'd be even WORSE if I do something extracurricular.


I really want to do softball, but I'm not sure if I should...

So my question is, WHAT WOULD YOU DO?!?

PLEASE, PLEASE HELP.

-PS. I am a Freshman 14F if that helps any.

Thanks in advance...

instead of going straight home after softball, could you go home with a friend? anyone on teh softball team that you`re friends with could probably give you a ride home or you can go home with them. hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck!

~melissa

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my hair is very dry, and kind of thick. im sure there are a lot of people with the same problem. but i was wondering, what do you think is the best shampoo for me to use? like, to hydrate my hair and actually repair it, instead of causing it more damage. thanks =)

Herbal Essences Hello Hydration works good and smells soooooooooooooooo good. its in a light blue bottle. www.herbalessences.com to learn more about it.

and Sunsilk Hydra-TLC works really good too. its in a pink bottle. www.gethairapy.com for free samples.

hope i helped!
xo melissa(please rate!)

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so ive heard about this teenfreeway.com wesite. im just wondering, do you have to pay for anything when it gets to you? and is it totally free? can you really get money for taking surveys?





ive also heard about this sunsilk anti-proof 24/7 cremee. does it really straighten your hair? EVEN IF YOUR HAIR IS CURLY!?



third question is.. what product or what can i do to make my hair bouncy? like not so FLAAAAAT. kk thanksss

1. nope its absolutatly FREE! thats why its called teen freeway haha. well i took the surveys and i never got any money, so idk about that.

2. sunsilk anti proof products DO make hair straight, but not curly hair. sorry! it only works on wavy hair and straight hair(not completely straight though) but it might make the curls a little less curly

3. ahh i have the same problem as you lol until i tried Sunsilk Anti-Flat shampoo, conditioner, & creme. its in a yellow bottle and heres what it looks like: http://www.gethairapymedia.com/photogallery/images/product/TN/Snslk_Anti_Flat.jpgb


just go to http://gethairapy.com/products/ and find the yellow head with the flat hair and click it for more info. also theres free samples on there too. you can buy it at walmart for about 3 dollars a bottle.

hope i helped & good luck!

xo melissa

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thank you for tell ing me that free website thingy. well i have a question for you lol . umm did you really get free stuff from there? 2. is it dangerous? 3. they ask for personal stuff like families in this website ---> should i put it? thanks

yup no prob.

1. yes i did get free stuff from there. ive been signing up to get stuff since i was 12.

2. nope its perfectly safe, i promise.

3. yes you should put it in. dont worry! this site is 100% real and none of your information will be shared. hope i helped and have fun with it!

xo melissa

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does sunsilk anti poof 24/7 creme make your hair really straight? like is it a straightening creme? what sa good straightening shampoo & conditioner & creme.? thanks


oh and hi im just wondering .. do you know any websites i can go to to get free samples of hair products like creames, conditioners and shampoos, all that? besides gethairapy.com please help and thanks. =]]]]]]]]]

i tried the creme and it didnt really work that well for me but it helps a little. really from my experience by trying like 284788277821 shampoos and conditioners, sunsilk anti-proof was the best ever in my opinion. Pantene Pro-V winter rescue works a little for me, too. www.pantene.com/en_US/products/collection/winter_rescue/ also sleeping on a satin pillow helps majorlyy. lol. well i dont know any websites that give out free shampoo but check www.teenfreeway.com under the beauty category. and everything on that website is 100% free! everything on there isnt a full product its a sample just to let you know. and i promise you thats it not a fake website or a virus or anything like that. swear. anyways lol well check around on shampoo websites for samples like www.pantene.com or www.garnierfructis.com or www.suave.com , www.johnfrieda.com, etc. just google "free shampoo samples" but be aware that most of those on google are fake websites, so be on the lookout. hope i helped and good luck with it!

xo melissa

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i have wavy hair. ive tried a lot of products but my hair is ALWAYS frizzy! wat products or things can i do to it to make the frizz go down?? its sooo poofyy! i always have to have it either up or straighten it or curl it with moose but i can never just let it down wen its wet. please. i need to get rid of this FRIZZ!!!

Sunsilk Anti Proof is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! check walmart.

www.sunsilk.com

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http://www.hairpedia.com/hilary-duff-pictures/hilary-duff/hilary-duff-51.jpg



CAN U TELL ME HOW TO DO BANGS AND EYES LIKE THAT?



EYES LIKE THIS!


http://www.hairpedia.com/hilary-duff-pictures/hilary-duff/hilary-duff-32.jpg



AND BANGS LIKE THIS:


http://www.hairpedia.com/hilary-duff-pictures/hilary-duff/hilary-duff-5.jpg




oh yeah i dont have a "fivehead" so yeah. lol thanks

1st picture: hilary duff has on what you call smoky eye makeup. i cant really explain how to do it but heres a website with step by step instructions: http://magazines.ivillage.com/marieclaire/beauty/skin/articles/0,,434727_560791,00.html

also those are sidebangs. to get them to look like hilary duff's, cut long bangs on yourself and put them to the side. i love that look! or you can go to the salon and give the picture of hilary to the stylist and he/she will be able to do it for you.



pic #2: same thing, that is smoky eye makeup. refer to the website above that i gave you.

pic #3: to get bangs like that, unless you want to screw up and make them look bad i suggest not to do them yourself. have your mom do it or go to the salon and show them the picture and they will do it 1000x better.

hope i helped!

xo melissa

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Heyy!! umm... i was wondering if you knew where they sold xo purses? My friend said she thinks she got herz from Macys( but hey she got it for christmas so i dont know?). i checked on macys.com, but i didnt see any. they might have them in the store but not show them online.. i would rather not go online and get one... like xo.com... or watever the website is! but ya... do you know of like anystore in the mall? we have a Macys, a Dillards, and a sears! those are the big department stores! thanx!! and you give great advice to those girls!!

i love xoxo purses! lol well they actually DO have them at Macys, also at TJ Maxx and Marshalls. Macys XOXO purses are a bit more expensive, but at tj maxx i got a cute XOXO purse for $7!! so just check around there. also ebay has some too if you want, but i dont know if they are the real thing.

here is a website that sells them, the store is called Zappos:

http://www.zappos.com/n/es/d/722121107/page/1.html


and here is the XOXO website:

http://www.xoxo.com/shop.php

good luck & i hope you find what youre looking for!


xoxo(lol)melissa

P.S. thanks! lol=)

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Dear Melissa Duh~
I tried the applesauce program by downloading it from whateverlife.com and doing exactly like you said to do. the only problem that i have is that i keep getting an error message saying that the "buddy list window cannot be found". i tried looking for a help box or something but cant find anything and i was wondering if you knew how to fix this problem or where to find help. THANKS A BUNCH!!!
~Sarah

lol. the first time i downloaded it and it said that, i was like what the bell does that mean? well after a while i found out that it doesnt mean anything. i dont know why it does that, but the colors come out perfectly fine on AIM so dont worry about that little message =) just X out of it whenever it comes. hope i helped!

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There is this disney channel song. I kinda forgot the name of the movie it's from. The movie didn't come out yet and it's with keke palmer and corbin bleu. The song's with a girl , not keke palmer, she's a light brunette white girl. She had one a red top and a scarf or a tie and an overcoat. If someone could please tell me the name of the song...and the name of the girl who sung it. ....I know it wasn't clear but u disney people will know what i mean!

i love disney channel! lol well the movie is called jump in and go here: www.disneychannel.com and scroll down and the row above the bottom theres a yellow button and it says jump in with corbin and this girl on it well click it then press music videos or something like that and then it shows you the video and in the end it tells u the peoples names so you should be able to find it there. hope i helped!

xo melissa (please rate!)
thx.

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Ha hey this is the girl that you have the same color hair as. I was wondering what you meant by "undertone"? and like where the darker and lighter colors go? Sorry, I'm not used to the whole eye stuff yet. ♥

when i said yellow undertones, it meant that you kind of mix the 2 colors together to get a look that makes your green eyes pop out which is a good thing lol. what do you mean by when you say where the darker and lighter colors go? leave another one in my inbox and i'll help you more

xoxo melissa

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15/f

Heyy. I have really dark blonde hair/really light brown hair. I have green eyes. I was wondering what eyeshadow would look the best? greens, purples? thankss ♥

hey. my hair color is the same is yours! well since you have green eyes, wear khaki and brown shades with yellow undertones. basically, browns and yellows are a really good combination for green eyes.

http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/perfectshadow.html

scroll down to the green eyes, they have alot of eyeshadow colors for you.

hope i helped !
xo melissa

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Does anyone have any tips for applying liquid eyeliner? I'm used to using pencil liner, but thought I'd try liquid on the upper lid since it lasts all day and doesn't smudge. I am new at this and keep making mistakes..

i personally hate liquid eyeliner. its too dark and its really messy. well when you apply it, if its not a straight line clean it up by getting a wet tissue with a little soap on it and straightning it up by wiping it and making it straight. sorry if this sounds confusing! liquid eyeliner is pretty dark so just apply it on the bottom lid.

good luck and hope i helped!

xo melissa(please rate)

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is their stuff that you can buy that will make your hair permanentley straight that i could just buy in a drug store and that will keep my hair straight even when it is really humid out? please help!!!

Sunsilk Anti-Proof shampoo and conditioner work really good. it keeps your hair shiny, strong, straight, and frizz-free. its about 2-3 dollars per bottle that is in a blue bottle. you can get them at any drug store but if you want to get it cheaper check walmart. it doesnt work on really curly hair but it works on wavy and almost straight hair. also if you sleep on a satin pillow, your hair becomes straight in the morning! but the same tips apply, it doesnt work on curly hair.


http://www.gethairapy.com/products/
^ look for the anti-proof bottle, it comes in the darker shade of blue

http://www.gethairapy.com/samples/
^ for free samples of it


good luck with it and i hope i helped!

xo melissa (please rate!)

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Does anyone know any good sites to shop for clothes have hot stuff like sexy shirts and what not for a skiny person and if not than anything?

definitely hollister, abercrombie, and victorias secret.

www.hollisterco.com
www.abercrombiekids.com (for skinnier people, kids sizes or jeans sizes 10-16)
www.abercrombieandfitch.com (for teens and adults)
www.victoriassecret.com

hope i helped!
xo melissa(please rate!)

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It's almost 60 degrees in the middle of January.This is probably the warmest winter that I can remember.I can only imagine what the rest of the year's going to be like.

Is global warming the cause,or are there other factors?

omg! the SAME thing is happening to us right now! i live in michigan and usually all of our winters are freezing cold but its like 45-52 degrees out! i swear it hasnt snowed more than once this winter and the first time it snowed was december 3rd. it might be global warming but there is a slight chance of it. i really dont know what it might be... but its better than blistering cold, right?

hope i helped!
xo melissa(please rate!)

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Okay.
15/f.
For the past year ive had thi s strange Obsession with weight.
I must weigh myself like 8 or more times a day.
And if i dont like what i see....
I wont eat for like the day or the next day sometimes.
Im not fat. At all.
Im pretty popualr.
I have a Gorgeous boyfriend!!!
And im not like stick skinny.
Im just not happy.
And I just hate this weight issue.
and i dont know what it is.
its not anorexia.
Or belemia.
I just have an issue.

what the hell do i do???

i definitely get what your saying. if you think you have a weight problem, simply fix it by going on a diet. but not like a extreme diet where you dont eat or throw up after you eat, just like cutting back on some foods and excercising. when you say you wont eat for the day, you are anorexic! stop doing that and eat! lol im not trying to sound rude or w/e but when you starve yourself for even a day, your body needs the fuel and your stomach starts eating itself which is beyond unhealthy. please just lose weight the safe way by excercising and eating healthy.
EXCERCISE! for 40-60 minutes a day. the best way is to run on a tredmill. subsitute the things you love for healthy foods. for example, instead of icecream, eat frozen yougurt. instead of french fries, eat carrot sticks. instead of cookies and candy, eat fresh fruit. instead of milkshakes, drink a fresh fruit smoothie. in a blender, put your favorite juice in there along with fresh fruit and a few icecubes. blend and enjoy! sodas and pops can be replaced with water and juice. drink ALOT of water. did you know that one Pecan Pie has the same amount of fat as 12 cheeseburgers? cut down on sugary, salty, and fatty foods. here is a meal plan i got from Seventeen magazine:

Breakfast:

3/4 cup cheerios
1 cup low fat milk or soy milk
1 medium banana
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mid-morning snack:

1/2 cup of raisins
3/4 (6oz) low fat plain yougurt
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lunch:(sandwich)

2 slices whole wheat bread
4 slices turkey breast
1 slice of american cheese
1 tsp. mayonaise
and with your sandwich:
1 cup raw carrots
1 glass of milk
---------------------
evening snack:

3/4 cup blueberries
1 apple
apple juice(or any fruit juice, NO POP OR SODA!)
-------------------------
dinner:

1 wheat tortilla roll
4 slices of turkey breast
lettuce
american cheese
roll it up and there you go!
1/2 cup cooked broccoli
1 glass of water


you should be able to lose weight in 3-4 weeks. good luck and hope i helped!

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hi umm im jeanine im 15turning 16 and well i went to my best friends house four thx giveing and i met this guy over there and he is 23 well i thought he was cute and well he thought i was pretty so well you know the rest well to this day i am still talking to him but four new years me and my friend met up with him and his friend and well he tryed some stuff and i was saying not to do that so he stoped then kept trying and well my question is what should i do ? keep talking to him? stop? or what do you think you seem like a pretty good pearson to talk to about this even though i dont know you pleas help!!!!!!!

wow. this is a pretty rough situation. what kind of stuff did he try to do to you? like sexual stuff? well if so, that is rape. thats definitely wrong. stop talking to him. he is using you for sex! trust me, mostly all guys are like this. if he trys to do anything else to you, tell an adult because this is illegal. i mean, you guys are 8 years apart in age! thats not good, so definitely stop seeing him. hope i helped and good luck with it!!!

xo melissa

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