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hola, im melissa.
my friends are my lifee.
im always loud as hell.
im never quiet, ever.
i go to the mall alottt.
i love abercrombie and hollister.
coach and chanel are love.
i love flip flops.
i love nailpolish.
i have a swearing problem.
im really really random.
i dont listen to anyone.
don't tell me what to do
i won't listen, i promise.
i talk back way to much.
i lovee boys. alot.
i love straightning my hair.
i love laughing till i cant breathe.
im easy to get along with.
it annoys the shit out of me when people type like this: LiiKeE o-M-G!~ ii WuZ aTt thA maLl yeSterDaii aNd ii b0ugHt tHe cuTesT puRs3 0N s@l3 f0R lyk3 9000 d0LlaRsz ! o-m-G iisnT thAt Ch3@p ? Liiik3 0-M-G ii kN0w! 0H EM GEE!

lmao okay thats it.

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I really wanna look good in my clothes and wear designer stuff but it's expensive and I was wondering where I could get clothes that look like designer. but i don't wanna be called a loser for wearing knock-offs and stuff. please help me find some good shops.

you should try TJ Maxx if you have one of those near you. they have the best stuff there! some of it is even designer! i was just there today and i saw some abercrombie and fitch shirts on sale for $3, $5, and $7! They also have Juicy Couture stuff there. they also have really cute designer purses. like a regular coach purse might me $138 but you can get them there for like $68. Also, try Lohemann's if you have one of those. they have reallyy cute designer clothes that you pay for way less.
good luck & hope i helped!

xox melissa
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this summer i want to read a bit more. (about 15+ books.) so far, the only book i have is TWiNS by William Morrow.
anymore books? thxxx much

omg u should try the Clique novel books there sooo good! go here: http://www.lisiharrison.net/ i think theres about 5 so far but theres a new one coming up in august! good luck & hope i helped! xox melissa

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Hello, I'm a girl and I'm 14. I have a lot of fat around my buttocks, thighs, and my stomach. I'm actually had a woman at an amusement park ask me if I was pregnant! (If I was she wasn't going to let me ride a certain thing.) I didn't think I looked that bad until that day so now I'm worried about losing weight. I'm 130 pounds so I figure my goal will be to lose 20 pounds, but more importantly lose the fat. Has anyone got any tips, rountines, and exercises I should try? I like in the country so I haven't got any good places to run and it's so hot here. I can't swim, btw. Anyway, please help me lose the extra pounds so I can feel confident again!

excercise!! run, go swimming, go in sports, anything that gets you moving! also eat healthy. cut down on salty and sugary foods, and foods with starch such as potatoes and mashed potatoes. heres 2 meal plans that i got from Seventeen:

Breakfast:

3/4 cup cheerios
1 cup low fat milk or soy milk
1 medium banana
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mid-morning snack:

20 peanuts
3/4 (6oz) low fat plain yougurt
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lunch:

2 slices whole wheat bread
4 slices turkey breast cold cuts
1 slice of american cheese
1 tsp. mayonaise
and with your sandwich:
1 cup raw carrots
1 glass of milk
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evening snack:

3/4 cup blueberries
2 small chocolate chip cookies
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dinner:

3 oz grilled chicken
1 whole wheat tortilla
1 tbsp low fat sour cream
1/2 cup salsa
1/2 cup cooked broccoli
1 glass of water




meal plan #2
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breakfast:

make a frenchtoast sandwich! Top 1 piece of homemade or frozen french toast with sliced strawberries and a sliced half of banana. Put another piece of french toast on top, and cut it in half. Drink a glass of milk.

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midmorning snack:

Munch on a combo of 1 cup cheerios, 1/4 cup raisins, and 2 tablespoons of peanuts. Drink a glass of water.
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Lunch:

Make a burrito sandwich by rolling up turkey, lettuce, and tomato in a flour tortilla. Drink a glass of milk. For sweet stuff, eat an apple and a cup of low-fat jello
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afternoon snack:

in a blender, combine 1/2 cup each of your favorite fruit juice, yougurt, and cut up fruit. add a few ice cubes. cover the blender and blend until smooth. eat pretzels for a salty treet to go with your sweet smoothie.
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dinner:

Dig into a plate of spaghetti and meat sauce, 1 breadstick, 1 cup of sugar snap peas, and a glass of milk. for dessert, make a sundae with a slice of pound cake topped with a acoop of vanilla ice cream and 1/2 cup of sliced strawberries.




follow these methods and you should loose weight! don't forget to drink ALOT of water and excercise. don't go aneroxic or anything stupid like that. good luck and i hope i helped!!

xox melissa

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What are some good ways to lose babyfat? I'd like to somewhat quickly.

excercise!! run, go swimming, go in sports, anything that gets you moving! also eat healthy. cut down on salty and sugary foods, and foods with starch such as potatoes and mashed potatoes. heres 2 meal plans that i got from Seventeen:

Breakfast:

3/4 cup cheerios
1 cup low fat milk or soy milk
1 medium banana
--------------------
mid-morning snack:

20 peanuts
3/4 (6oz) low fat plain yougurt
--------------------
lunch:

2 slices whole wheat bread
4 slices turkey breast cold cuts
1 slice of american cheese
1 tsp. mayonaise
and with your sandwich:
1 cup raw carrots
1 glass of milk
---------------------
evening snack:

3/4 cup blueberries
2 small chocolate chip cookies
-------------------------
dinner:

3 oz grilled chicken
1 whole wheat tortilla
1 tbsp low fat sour cream
1/2 cup salsa
1/2 cup cooked broccoli
1 glass of water




meal plan #2
-----------
breakfast:

make a frenchtoast sandwich! Top 1 piece of homemade or frozen french toast with sliced strawberries and a sliced half of banana. Put another piece of french toast on top, and cut it in half. Drink a glass of milk.

------------
midmorning snack:

Munch on a combo of 1 cup cheerios, 1/4 cup raisins, and 2 tablespoons of peanuts. Drink a glass of water.
----------------
Lunch:

Make a burrito sandwich by rolling up turkey, lettuce, and tomato in a flour tortilla. Drink a glass of milk. For sweet stuff, eat an apple and a cup of low-fat jello
-----------------
afternoon snack:

in a blender, combine 1/2 cup each of your favorite fruit juice, yougurt, and cut up fruit. add a few ice cubes. cover the blender and blend until smooth. eat pretzels for a salty treet to go with your sweet smoothie.
---------------
dinner:

Dig into a plate of spaghetti and meat sauce, 1 breadstick, 1 cup of sugar snap peas, and a glass of milk. for dessert, make a sundae with a slice of pound cake topped with a acoop of vanilla ice cream and 1/2 cup of sliced strawberries.




follow these methods and you should loose weight! don't forget to drink ALOT of water and excercise. don't go aneroxic or anything stupid like that. good luck and i hope i helped!!

xox melissa

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Which one is better? I'd like a decent response, so no one word answers or just saying the name. Say why. Also, which one is less likely to give you a virus. Thanks :D...

nononono dont get bearshare it gives you a virus. i heard that limewire works really good but when i had it, it gave me a virus =( but u can get limewire to see how it works, it might not give u a virus! good luck & hope i helped!

xox melissa

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I have this stomach ache in my lower left side of my stomach. It hurt soo bad that i can't move. Its like a cramp but 10 times worse! What should i do?

take some mortin or tylenol or something, put a heating pad/hot watterbottle on the spot. it might be a sign of ur period tho. if it gets any worse, see a doctor!

good luck && hope i helped
xox melissa

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If one was really thin and then put on weight, could she increase her cup size?

yup. anyways your breasts don't stop growing until your 18-20 years old.

hope i helped!
xox melissa

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What can I do to be more well-liked?
I don't want to change who I am, I just want
to bring out a more positive side of me :)

be yourself! speak up more, try going up to people and start a conversation with them. don't be shy! never change who you are. be yourself. that's the best thing to do! good luck, hope i helped!

xox melissa

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I noticed that the new movie Monster House will be playing in 3-D in select theaters. I was wondering how you find out what website you can look that up on. I know most of you will tell me to Google it and I really did, but does anyone know a specific website I can log onto to find out what theaters?

By the way: I live in Kansas City, Missouri incase someone from my area might know.

Thank you.

www.moviefone.com

hope i helped!
xox melissa


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My lips are really chapped and I'm using the jar of Carmex with the yellow lid. I've used it a lot and left it on, but everytime it wares off my lips start to peel and I'm tempted to bite them again and get them chapped. Should I leave the peeling skin alone? Any additional advice would be wonderful.

leave the peeling alone. try blistex it works good. chapped lips also forms from not drinking alot of water so drink more water. also before bed, put vasiline on your lips trust me i do it and it works! it makes your lips really soft and it should make the peeling go away. whenever you go in the shower put vasiline on ur lips and take a really warm long shower and when you get out rub off the remaining vasiline on your lips it helps get moisture in. good luck hope i helped! xox melissa

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what are some fun websites to go to when your bored besides bored.com?

www.funnyjunk.com
www.disneychannel.com
www.addictinggames.com
www.popcap.com

if ur a girl you can look at clothes websites like:

www.abercrombie.com
www.abercrombiekids.com
www.hollisterco.com
www.aeropostale.com
www.limitedtoo.com (lol)


hope i helped! xox melissa

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i want to walk 6 miles everyday so what i need to no it how many steps equal a mile also i wanna keep motavated and after i read websites like toneteen.com it helps so i would like other websites like that thanx

6 miles? whoa lol thats alot of walking i don't know how many steps equal a mile, but its somewhere around 500 or something. you can try www.am-i-fat.com and it shows healthy excersices(sp) and you can type in your weight and how tall you are and it tells if you're at the right weight. stuff like that are on there. hope i helped!

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does anyone kno any sites or anything where i can get good icons for my myspace!?

go to www.iconator.com and press Avatars then type something in like love or something and it has really cute stuff hope i helped xox melissa

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well i got my period the first day of camp and i stil have it because its still he first week of camp. I put pads in, in the morning and since we swim first period i take it out in the bathroom and go swimming because your period temporarilly stops in water. I don't put a pad in after because i usually go to free swim at the end of the day so it would not make any sense. But my bathing suit bottoms get all bloody. Is there any way to make it easier at camp with putting the pads in.

PLEASE HELP! I rate al 5's!

thx

omg please try tampons! that's the only thing to do.. they're sooo easy to try. start out with using Tampax Pearl or Playtex Slimfits or Playtex Gentle glide. Ask one of the councelers for some tampons. good luck! xox melissa

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i dont really like thongs, but where could i buy underwear that is kind of like a thong, but doesnt go up your but crack. basically like are a bit thicker. any website/stores (NOT victoria's secret, i already know that one)

limited too has these underwear that look like thongs, but theyre regular underwear but the sides are just strings so they look like thongs. http://www.limitedtoo.com/detail/1920759 they look like that press zoom in so you can see. the strings on the sides are wider though. hope i helped! xox melissa

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ive known seann since 8th grade(im going to be a jr in highschool now) we stopped being friends in 9th grade because he went to a diff school. im really good friends with this girl christine. christine is like best friends with sean. i know she doesnt like him or anything but mike and i have been sort of talking over the last few weeks. he texts be, told me he liked me and we hungout and hookedup. christine was there but i dont think she saw. idont know what to do or how to tell her idk if she`ll be mad. whats the best thing to do

okay this doesn't make sense. who is mike? you start talking about christine and sean and then you say: "i know she doesnt like him or anything but mike and i have been sort of talking over the last few weeks." and then you say: "christine was there but i dont think she saw. idont know what to do or how to tell her idk if she`ll be mad. whats the best thing to do
" is mike christine's girlfriend or something? sorry but i don't understand your question. try asking again but make sure it makes sense so i can read it lol

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do you have any tips on having sex, or any other pleasurable things to do besides sex?
i've never made out before, so if you could also ive me advice on that first, that would help haha.
how do i shave my private area, im a girl.
&by the end of the day, my panties are always wet, like sweat almost, and have a little bit of a smell to it, do you know of anything that can get rid of this problem? pleaseee help me.
thanksss

ok well you can masturbate just play around with ur privates. you makeout usually when you have a boyfriend its just like kissing. to shave your private area you can either wax it which hurts or u can shave it just buy a razor and shaving cream and shave downwords. and your underwear is wet because its discharge which is perfectly normal and it means your period is coming soon. you can't get rid of it, but you can stop it from going into your underwear by wearing pantiliners which you can buy at a grocery store, walmart, walgreens, places like that. good luck xox melissa

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Okay, there's this Buy It Now item on Ebay, and it comes with a Slim PS2, 2 controllers, 86 games, and all of the cords and memory cards needed to make it work. It comes with everything and everything is in New condition never tooken out of the box. The Buy it now price is $210.00 and $19 shipping. Is that a good price?

yea thats a really good price your lucky that you found it but be careful.. it might just be fake and the games might suck but you can buy it if you want. if you were to buy that at the store it would be $1000+ hope i helped xox melissa

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What is the differnce between fabric transfers and t-shirt transfers? In a craft store, there were those 2 hanging on the wall and I needed to buy one to put on my cotton shorts, but i couldn't decide. If this makes any difference, for t-shirt trasfers you could get 10 for 5 dollars, but with fabric transfers only 5 for 10 dollars. I'm putting them on cotton soffe shorts. So, whats the difference?

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Are cramps bad for you? Is it bad when you get really bad ones, like unbearable? Any solutions?!

no they're not bad for you, your period is just coming. put a heating pad on it or a hot water bottle and take a really warm or hot bath. hope i helped! xox melissa

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