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I'm a new young mom who has a lot of things to say to whomever is willing to listen :). I promise not to judge you no matter how crazy you may think your questions are and I will give the best answer I possibly can!

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I have been with my boyfriend for a relatively small length of time, and its his birthday too, but im away on his birthday. Im going to get him a present and i wanted it to be really thoughtfull because im really into him but i have no idea what to get, any ideas for things? I have no pictures of us so picture frames etc are out. Thanks Muchly!

you could get him a t-shirt of his fave band which isnt thoughtful but its fun. but for the thoughtful part, i think you should MAKE him a card. make a poem or find one for him and write it in the card. or you should do both. that way it a thoughtful AND fun gift!

♥ leah

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sorry to ask such a disturbing question but how do you know if your having an orgasm?

blood presure rises, heart beats fast, you sweat, and you get excited.

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okay heres my problem..one of my best friends is going out with this guy two years older than her... and he has a REALLY bad rep like everyone knows him for having sex and using all these girls... but ive talked to her and him many times and hes changed a lot over the year, and he really likes my friend and he wont let her do anything too bad because he doesnt want her to think hes using her, but were going into highschool and i really am scared for her beacuse she will start to get the bad rep and no one understands there relationship and will think hes just using her.. what should i do and what should she do should she break up with him and wait till later in the year or what?

thanks

NO THEY SHOULDNT BREAK UP!!!!!!!!!!! ok, i had to get that out of my system...sorry. ok now, for your other questions. look, if your friend really likes this guy then it really shouldnt madder right? and i know this is hard for you but if you see or hear anyone talking about them then stick up for her. tell them to mind their OWN bizness and to stop being the preppy bitches that they are being. i know its tough to stick up for someone but its one of the only choices you have hun! sorry if this didnt help ya.

good luck,
♥ leah

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Okay. I've gone out with this boy 3 times. We've been broken up for about 4 months but I still love him very much. I told him I liked him still and he told me that he liked me too. We'll talk online a lot but the weird thing is that once in awhile, he won't IM me. Almost like he doesn't want to talk to me. When we do talk though, he'll say that we need to hang out and he actually talks to me and we get into a conversation. He asked me out on Thursday but I said no because I just couldn't figure out what was going on and I'd rather have him ask me out on the phone or something and not online. So basically my question is..does he like me or not? What exactly is goin on?? I'll rate 5's for good answers and 1's for smartass ones. THANKS!

i think he does like you, but thats just my opinion. maybe he is just too shy to ask you on the phone or something...idk really. but i DO understand why you said no. i would have done the same thing actually.i even pulled away from my bf when he was trying to kiss me bc i didnt want him to kiss me bc his friends were making fun of him lol. my point im TRYING to make here is that you should have to be pressured to do anything. if it doesnt feel right then just tell it like it is. i think you should talk to him on the phone yourself. tell him you really do like him but it was alittle weird when he asked you out online. i hope i helped and i hope everything works out!

♥ leah

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How do you tell someone * like maybe cookierat123* that the advice they give makes them want to vomit without hurting that person's feelings?

um.....let me think....uh...well, if someone said that to me *like maybe you* i wouldnt really care bc i dont care wat people think about me. i love who i am and i dont let people *like maybe you* stand in my way!!!!!!!!!! so there!

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Hey,
ok there is this church- it's REALLY close to me, and it's the church all my friends go to. They also hold a youth group there- also where all my friends go. But my problem is, my family hates the preacher and preist, and they hate us. But i REALLY need religious guidance, and i thought it'd be cool if my friends were there with me. And all my friends went to summer camp -- without me! lol, see the camp was held by the people from the church, and my parents wouldnt let me go! So they have all this fun at camp and they know SO much more about God than i do.. so to tell the truth, i really have no idea who/what God is! I cant read the bible because (to me) it makes no sence!! too many big words.. lol. I want to go to a church.. I REALLY do, it's just i feel like my friends will have more to talk about without me. And i dont want them to go to a differnet church, because that would be selfish. I love God, I do! BUT WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?!?! I rate high!

wow, that is one tough situation. i understand about the bible thing. becasue i have no clue wat its talking about...well, untill i got the bible for teens. just get a bible that is meant for teens. it helped me and it even has stories about kids with problems just like you and me. read it every night(not the whole bible but just some). show your parents that you REALLY want this more than anything and that you want to learn more about God. and just to let you know right after i type this im going to pray for you. o and that is a good thing to do too. pray! talk to God. talk to him about all of your problems and if he doesnt solve them dont get mad bc god does EVERYTHING for a reason. and i advise you to create a relationship with God. tell him how you feel each day. he is always with you and he DOES care about you. i hope everything works out for you. and if you want to ask me any questions about any of that stuff or anyother stuff then feel free to.

♥ leah

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what kind of food are healthie that make your body in perfect shape

I will rate high I promise that is if you give a good answer please help me I really need it please

ok, fruits or veggies are ALWAYS good for you. eat alot of them. maybe some yougart. dont get junky foods though. i hope thats good enough.

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My birthday is next weekend, and everyone is asking me what I want, I really dont know, anybody know any cute things i should ask for?? But nothing too expensive, thanks alot

make up, lip gloss, shirts, any cheap bracltes, neclesses or earings.

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I have been nevous about going back to school since July. school is gonna start next monday (yea early) and i'm scared about i guess everything ( classes, new friends, teachers, friends, friends, and enemies). How can i get over my school gitters by Monday?
Please help
Thanks
10th grader in da house.

okey dokey first of all i have some advice for ya.
1.be friendly to everyone
2.try to look good on the first day *wink*
3.smile at people
4.dont judge anyone
5.make a good impression with the teachers
6.flirt with guys
7.have fun
8.be your self
9.just be outgoing and show the real you.
i hope i helped. if you want you can drop something off in my inbox.

♥ leah ♥

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Hi. I have a problem. What should i do?

Y SHOULD I CARE?!?! lol jk. hey how r ya! just think about the problem and rate me!!!!!! jk

♥ leah

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hey guys..i am soo scared to use a tampon cause i'm scared it's gonna hurt or imma put it in the wrong hole or something..lol.. but i reallly wanna know how to use one/ put one in..cause i'm tired of using pads..please help! thx soo much xoxo

trust me hun, your not gonna put it in the wrong hole lol. you would know. but just try to relax when you put it in. it might hurt alittle bit when you FIRST start to put it in but after awhile it gets better. hope i helped.

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Hi I'm in the 6th grade but anyways well wen i'm in skool there is this boy who whacks this chair against my chair, calls me stupid all the time, hits me and kicks me and all that crap and yet hes nice to me but i just dno if thats a sign of flirting and him wantign to get my attetion or just him hateing me and we are friends he sed it himself...plz help i'm just real confused

o boy...young love...he likes you sweety. im in the eighth grade and ive been there. AW! i think its kinda cute but dont let him push you around.

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hey so i have this problem with two boys coby and kalvin. i really like coby and like kalvin. coby is going to a different highschool than me and kalvin is going to my same highschool but i am in love with coby. i dont know what to do. i cant tell kalvin the truth because coby is one of his good friends. kalvin and me are close as friends and me and coby are close all around. what do i do? please help i rate 5's all the way

ok, well, if kalvin likes you i really think you should go with him. i know you said you really like coby but to tell ya the truth hun, it probably wont last very long if your going to difrent schools. i mean, you will get REALLY acatched to him and then sooner or later one of you is gonna break up with the other and its going to be really sad. you might not know it now, but you WILL get over him. i hope i helped.

♥ leah

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ok well im totally freaking out...my bf was over today and we started kissing and my younger sister (10) walks in and sees us,so she told my mom and dad and now they are mad and wont let me see him, im soo sad and i cant stop crying, what should i do?

you need to talk to kyour mom and dad about it. tell them(not in an angery voice) that your growing up and those things are bound to happen sooner or later. tell them that you really like him and dont think its right to tell you that you cant see him. and if they dont listen then im sorry but i think you need to take a stand. tell them that you really like him and you are going to keep seeing him no madder wat they say and tell them if they ground you then you dont care. say your not a little girl anymore and your not going to take that anymore. i hoppe i helped!

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Hey. What's up?

I Have an amazing boyfriend. I love him. We have been together since Feb. 2nd, 2004 (for the people trying to figure that out, its been 1 year,6months and 9 days) I Love Him, like I said. However, sometimes I think that I may like other guys. Where I work there are 2 guys who I
"like" but I wouldn't go out with them if they asked me. I want to stay with my boyfriend. I think about these other guys sometimes tho.

Any ways or tips to stop these thoughts?

I am more then sure that I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I wouldn't ever date these other guys.

How can I deal with the thoughts?

Is this normal?

(Sophmore, Female)

-Kels-

ok, here is wat i did when i was in that situation. i just thought about what my life would be like if i didnt have my bf and it worked. think about the good things your bf has to give. thats so cute...your i LOVE! ADORABLE! ok im done lol. i know this is going to sound SO STUPID but here it goes. just amagin your bf is always with you. like talk to him in your head. thats all i got. so sorry if it doesnt work.

♥ leah

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ok this is more of a question for the guys...but mabe the girls can answer it too

why do guys lie?!?!

i have a guy friend and hes awesome! but he ALWAYS tell me he loves me and i KNO hes lieing...he tells every girl he loves her...and he goes out with every girl...and cheats on every girl

i kno ALL guys dont do this...but i just wanna know why some do

because their STUPID!!!!!!!!!

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If yur on the 1st day of yur period, but yur flow is just normal, not heave and not light, can yu go swimming w/o a tampon? Like is there anything yu can use or do to go swimming w/o a tampon. Dont talk about how easy to use and comfortable tampons r, thats not what i care about. Plees help, i rate high

no, you really should where a tampon. its not good for the people around you. its a health thing. like if someone had STD's and they got blood in the pool bc they didnt have a tampon on...then...that wouldnt be good. so yes you should wear one even if you hardly bleed.

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I just got that simply straight shampoo for my hair... Well the conditioner but anyway.. DO i have to do anything special for it?? Like leave it in or whatever??? Anything special after i shower and blowjob or whatever??? I'll rate too

ok, i used to have that stuff. alright, you should leave it in for about..i would say 5 min untill you wash it out. it makes more strait that way. but you dont have to do anything else for it.

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my hair is thick and wavy. how can i make it have volume?

straitener, ani-friz gel, hair spray. thats all i gots.

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my best guy friend and i have been friends for 10 years. recently we went kayaking together to a private beach thing. he was being really flirty and being extra nice to me, showing off and was acting all weird. he's never acted like this before. my other best friend thinks he likes me, but I'm not sure. If anyone could has an opinion on this it's definitely appreciated. Thanks

I think he likes you hun!

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