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I'm Michelle. I'm 17 years old and going to be a senior in high school. I work at Giant full time during the summer- 40 hours a week. I love to have fun, talk, and my boyfriend. Asssk me anything!
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I have a twin brother and we are really close he's not spent much time with me lately and im scared i love him to death and if anything happend to him i would never forgive my self even if it wasnt my fault. He has thes friends lets call them bob and joe and they curse alot and thats not like my brother. I'm just worried. Somone pleez help me.
twin delama
Talk to him about it and be like "Wow, we haven't hung out in a long time, what have you been up to lately?" he'll probably just say "Nothing" so be like, "Have you been hanging out w.bob and joe" and he'll probably say yes and then you can ask about where they go and what they do and bring up the fact that you don't really like bob and joe and you think he shouldn't hang out w.him. If he just says its none of your buisness, tell him what you just told us, that you're scared and if anything ever happened to him, you wouldn't forgive yourself. If hes like "No I'll hang out w.whoever I want to" then tell your mom that you think he has some bad friends. Or you could go hang out w.bob and joe and your brother and see if they're really bad people or they just say bad things. I don't consider myself a "bad" person but when I'm alone or around my friends, cuss words just kinda...slip out sometimes. It's not part of my normal vocabulary but it just happens sometimes. Guys tend to cuss a LOT...so you should really find out if they do bad things, or just talk badly...bc they mite actually be really nice! But talk to your brother and then your mom or someone if he refuses to admit bob and joe are bad and he shouldn't hang out w.them. But before making a big deal out of it w.your mom involved, find out what bob and joe are really like
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How do you ask a guy out without making it seem like your completly stupid? Like, how do you make it come up in a conversation? because I'm talking to this boy online, and I really like him, and we're awesome friends, and I want to know how he feels about me. How do I do it? None of my friends will do it for me because they say thats "cheating"
Invite him to go w.you and a bunch of your friends (*assuming you have the same friends..) somewhere (*movies, mall, bowling, hanging out @ someones house...) and be kinda flirty w.him and see what he does..you're w.your friends so it's not like a date, but after hanging out w.him a couple times (*w.other people) and if you think he's into you, then be like "hey do you wanna come over on _____" and see what he says and then after he says whatever he says tell him that it's going to only be you and him there and you have smthn important to tell him, and then when you guys hang out tell him how you feel about him!! Like seriously, you will NEVER kno how he feels unless you tell him first. But hanging out first in a group gives him a chance to really see how you are, bc in school you probably act a little different then how you are in real life. Really, whats the worst that can happen?? If he doesn't like you bak, it'll seem like the end of the world but you'll get over him eventually and it'll be ok. And if he likes you bak, then it'll be really good!! It's not weird for a girl to like a guy...soo go for it and tell him how you feel!
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I just have a quick question, shouldn't take long.
See, I'm wanting to lose some weight in the tummy area, but... I've heard that if you work out a lot, your breast size drops. I'm a C cup, and I like it that way. Any tips on things I can do that will drop weight in the stomache and nowhere else?
Thanks!
Yah that happened to Jessica Simpson (*except it was from the atkins diet, not exercising)..you can do sit-ups or the ab roller or ab lounge or smthn like that (*you can get them off TV or @ Wal-mart)or you could get plastic surgery but thats kinda major if you just wanna loose a little weight
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O.K. I have a friend, that is a girl and I am really crushing on her. But the problem is that we are really good friends, too, and havn't been for that long. Only since over the summer. Everyone around us, including her knows how I feel about her, but no one really knows how she feels. Some people say, like her, that she doesn't like me. But some people do. I don't know what to think! I asked her if she had feelings for me or not, like that, and she said no. But I know her pretty well, and I know for a fact that she wouldn't tell me about it. I also have heard that she used to like me, before I had feelings for her. I heard that from other people, close to her, but she won't admit that either. Do you have any personal instances that you are willing to share, about a situation like this? It would be great help if you could help me out. Thanks.
-Jared
Hey Jared! I really don't think anything like that has ever happened to me...but I'm not really sure. But if it did, I would probably either just try to ignore it and get over them or I'd tell them it's pretty upsetting bc you like her a lot and whatever you do, you're gonna jeopardize your friendship. (*even tho if you don't let it change, it won't, but it always seems like no matter how much you try for it NOT to change, it always does) bc if you get over her then she'll still always kno how you ONCE felt about her, and if you keep liking her but she doesn't like you bak, then she'll feel kinda weird about it and you'll be like, upset. So tell her that and tell her that you don't want anything to change between you guys blah blah blah and that you've admitted to her like 1000 times that you like her and she obviously knos how you feel and you think theres something shes not telling you. And just really let her know that you are crushed and she needs to tell you the honest truth about her feelings for you. You told her how you feel and she should be able to tell you. Sorry if thats not much help, it's all I can think of
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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...
IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?
Please answer, don't leave me in suspense!
He's straight...it's not like shes a guy so he's not gay.
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Could you tell me how to get cursors for your desktop. I mean not for my advicenators website or my xanga one or anything like that but just for my desktop instead of the boring original arrow? Please help!! I will rate a 5 if anyone could help me!
On my computer it goes like this (*it's probably the same on every computer if you have winuows xp): Click start , then My computer , then under System Tasks on the left side go to Change a Setting . Then it will either come up in Classic or Category View . If it is in Classic View (*a big long list) Go to the left side under Control Panel and click on Switch To Category View then go to Appearance and Themes (*first category) then on the left side under See Also go to Mouse Pointers and a window will pop up . On the top of the window there are different tabs you can click on. Click on Pointers and you can choose which ever one you want! They aren't too exciting..but I don't think you can get ones on your computer like you can on advicenators or smthn...
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what is a birthday suit?
when you're naked, BIRTHday (*birth- like what you were born in)
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I think I'm anorexic. But I might not be because everyone says that the first quality of an anorexic is denial. I don't know. My friends say that I am, because I don't eat much for lunch and most of the time don't eat lunch at all. I never considered myself underweight, but I guess I would be in like, the 10th percentile. What do you guys think?
It depends, like if you don't eat because you're not hungry or like if you just wait to get home to eat bc you don't like school food or smthn...then you aren't anorexic. But if you starve yourself on purpose bc you are afraid of gaining weight, then you probably are (*or will become) anorexic. Just next time you aren't eating at lunch or dinner or where ever, ask yourself why you aren't eating. Some people have small stomachs or small appetites and they just don't eat a lot. If you're worried there might be something wrong w.you bc you never wanna eat, go to the doctor. They can put you on a medicine to increase your appetite if you're afraid you may become unhealthily underweight..just try to eat (*when you do eat..) healthy and nutricious foods
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No offense to anyone. If you take it offensivly, good for you. That is fine and dandy. But get the hell over yourselves.
Why is it that girls are all bitches and guys always seem to be assholes?
Do you mean on advicenators or in real life? On advicenators..there are some assholes that answer questions w.pretty gay answers. I don't think ALL girls are bitches, just honest or maybe a lil mean. If you mean in real life..it's just the way it is. Like, nobodys perfect and every girl will do bitchy things and every guy will be an asshole at some time- some more then others, but not everyone is ALWAYS like that. But sometimes, people act a certain way to you because of how you act to them
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I have straight hair already, but it is pretty static and VERY flyawayish...and its kinda bushy sometimes...what is the best hair straightener out there? I've heard ceramic hair straighterners are good??
CHI and HotTools are reallly good..but Conair works good too and is lots cheaper...anything ceramic should work really well
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Well, my brother told me that if you put up blue christmas lights it meant that you were Jewish. So does anyone know if this is true or is my brother smoking something? Thanks!!
xo_sherry_ox
I rate 5's!
Jewish people do put up blue lights..but a lot of other ppl do too. Jewish ppl don't celebrate christmas so its not like blue christmas lights would make you Jewish..
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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them?
Yah, you can like JUST their persoanlity (*and that's good too...it shows you're not shallow)...and usually when you start to like their personality...no matter how ugly they are, you think they're hott...its weird but thats the way it is
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What turns u girls on most about guys. How can I turn on my best mate who i want to be my girlfriend. Im too afraid to ask so i wanna get her to like me a lot so shell ask me out
please help
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I dn...like every girl's different, but almost EVERY girl likes guys who are: hott, funny, nice, smart, stuff like that. Just be yourself...bc you shouldn't change just for a girl. If you want her to start liking you..then just flirt around w.her a little bit. She'll get the message. And I know you're scared to tell her..but I really think you should. Because waiting around for her to ask you out is no fun and she might already like you!! Just tell her how you feel and if she's really your friend..nothing will change between you guys even if she doesn't feel the same way about you. But if she does..then you can ask her out and everything will be happy!! (*even if she likes you back..she might not come right out and say it when you tell her that you like her..)
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how do you get rid of zits FAST! besides the everyday face wash... thank you for those who help
Clearasil Ultra...and I heard toothpaste works bc it drys them up..but then I heard it will dry them up too much and you'll have like a chapped face. So you should only use a little tiny bit St. Ives apricot scrub is good to use a couple times a week (*not everyday) to prevent zits and keep your skin clean
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What is freshmen??? is it sumink American or what cos i herd it in sum messages but i dunno what it means.
Yah..like in high school theres freshmen (*9th grade) sophmores (*10th grade) juniors (*11th grade) and then seniors (12th grade) so when you say I'm a freshmen..it means you're in 9th grade..I guess its an american thing..I dn if they say it in other countries
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So I've been preparing fish a lot lately...but haven't ever had to thaw it. Now I've got to thaw it...and I can't remember the best way to do it. Sound silly? It is. I won't use the microwave...because I just wont. I know my mom usually thaws chicken in a tub of luke-warm water...but does that work effectively with fish? So how should I thaw this thing? Thanks.
In the refrigerator..that's the best way to thaw anything
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Well, I hope this doesnt get deleted because I really need some advice. If anybody knows how to handle Geometry proofs and knows how I can get ahold of it, that would be great. It is over Finding congruance of triangles, by using a proof. Please Help!!! ^_^
_-Devin-_
What parts don't you understand? Leave on in my inbox or IM me! We're doing that in math..it was so hard @ first but once you memorize most of the theorms and postulate and definitions..it gets way easier! If you need anything explained just asked! My teacher gives us like pages and pages of notes..
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hey michelle! its caroline....and i have quite the question for you! well, i really wanna get my hair cut (i have dead ends and its freaking me out!) but i don't know what i should get done...what hairstyle do you think would compliment my face-shape and features? thanks a ton! Caroline :o)
Hey Caroline!! Well I think your face is heart shaped so I think you should get little bangs like on the side bc those are so cute! You should also part your hair on the side according to this hair guide I have. Since your chin is the thinest part of your face, layers just below your chin can add width. Chin length to shoulder length hair probably will look the best! You have really pretty hair and you're really pretty so don't worry...anything will look cute!!
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i just started taking the pill about a month or so ago. i've been majorly moody and emotional. do you think its the pill that has been making me like this?
Thats possible bc it messes w.your hormones. Find out what some of the side effects are, or talk to your docotor about swicthing to a different type of pill.
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okay..theres this 1 spot on my head thats hurting like really badly!! its swollen and hurts whenever i touch it just like when my hair hits it, it starts to hurt. Any 1 have any idea what it might be??And should i ask my mom to take me to the doctor? thanx
--Alexa--
Yeah...go to the doctor! It could just be a bump from getting hit in the head by smthn or maybe dry skin that you itched and its irritated but like I had to go get an MRI for my hand and this guy that was there got bite in the head by a borwn recluse spider and he mite have brain damage. Not that you'll have brain damage but you mighta gotten bit by a bug or smthn...just go get it looked @ or ask your mom if she can see anything. Most likely you just got hit in the head by the volleyball and it left a bump
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