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problems problems problems...I can't tell!
O.K. I have a friend, that is a girl and I am really crushing on her. But the problem is that we are really good friends, too, and havn't been for that long. Only since over the summer. Everyone around us, including her knows how I feel about her, but no one really knows how she feels. Some people say, like her, that she doesn't like me. But some people do. I don't know what to think! I asked her if she had feelings for me or not, like that, and she said no. But I know her pretty well, and I know for a fact that she wouldn't tell me about it. I also have heard that she used to like me, before I had feelings for her. I heard that from other people, close to her, but she won't admit that either. Do you have any personal instances that you are willing to share, about a situation like this? It would be great help if you could help me out. Thanks.
-Jared
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Hey Jared! I really don't think anything like that has ever happened to me...but I'm not really sure. But if it did, I would probably either just try to ignore it and get over them or I'd tell them it's pretty upsetting bc you like her a lot and whatever you do, you're gonna jeopardize your friendship. (*even tho if you don't let it change, it won't, but it always seems like no matter how much you try for it NOT to change, it always does) bc if you get over her then she'll still always kno how you ONCE felt about her, and if you keep liking her but she doesn't like you bak, then she'll feel kinda weird about it and you'll be like, upset. So tell her that and tell her that you don't want anything to change between you guys blah blah blah and that you've admitted to her like 1000 times that you like her and she obviously knos how you feel and you think theres something shes not telling you. And just really let her know that you are crushed and she needs to tell you the honest truth about her feelings for you. You told her how you feel and she should be able to tell you. Sorry if thats not much help, it's all I can think of
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