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My name is Danielle and I love to help people. Ask my anything and I will try my best to answer as accurately as I can with personal advice from my expierince or knowledge.. Good luck and God Bless all!
*Keosha*

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I have this swimming party on July 24. I weigh 147, 5'1, so im chunkey, or "fat". Well, I want a flat tummy. I will feel way much better. You know. Well this is what i have to loose weight, (my idea)



100 crunches, 100 calf phrases with 10 ilb. weights. go up by 5 every day.


eat only grilled chicken & fish. Salad, fruit, and drink water ONLY. Walk 15 minuetes after every meal. Smaller porportions. Skip exercise for only one day, that day only eat fruits & veggies.


So, does everyone think this is a fine plan? Thanks!


-Also. I want it to be REALLY flat. You know? soo, i meen im willing to do anything extra, i just dont have a bike and i CANNOT run. Thanks!

Your plan is perfect! I couldnt of thought of anything better! Keep it up and you should get to your flat tummy in no time! Good luck!
-Keosha

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I need some ideas for a job b/c i need to get some cash for a car and i play volleyball so I need a job thats easy to change stuff something like walking dogs or stuff like that.thanx for any comments!!!

if you live near condos you could try cleaning condo's on weekends, make pretty good money.
You could try babysitting, house sitting, mowing lawns, gardening for old people.

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What are some products I can use to clear up my pimples? I don't have like brigh red acne just alot of little tiny pimples on my forehead and chine then blackheads all on my nose.

I already use AcneFree and I`m not getting much result. ProActive is too expensive, and I`ve already tried Clean and Clear, Stridex, Biore, and Clearisile.

Noxema works well and so does CeraVe which is a hydrating cleanser. Depending on if you have oily or dry skin im not sure which will work better, if they fdo work for you. but if you are a teen and going through puberty maybe try changing your diet because your diet has a lot to do with your skin and breaking out.

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My lips are really chapped and I'm using the jar of Carmex with the yellow lid. I've used it a lot and left it on, but everytime it wares off my lips start to peel and I'm tempted to bite them again and get them chapped. Should I leave the peeling skin alone? Any additional advice would be wonderful.

Since carmex isnt working for you very well try another chapstick, maybe a medicated one. Yes, Leave the peeling skin alone and drink lots of water to keep your skin hydrated, that helps often. Hope that I helped you.
-Keosha

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My 12 year old son has been bullied by a boy in our neighborhood for several years now. My son has a lot of friends, but of course all his friends are around his age and scared of the bully.

The bully (Gary) is 15. A few years ago my husband and I talked to Gary's parents, because he stole a toy from my son on the school bus. Gary claimed not to have the toy, and his parents protected him--and said we were in the wrong. This only child is perfect according to them. I have given up on going to the parents. The attitude of the police is "boys will be boys" (we live in a small town).

I caught Gary in the act a couple of weeks ago. He jumped on, and broke a ramp that my son and his friends built for their bikes. I told him he was acting like a 6 year old, and that someday someone bigger and meaner will come along and "take him out". He rode off on his bike in a hurry! However now he harasses my son about telling "Mommy". Last night he threw big rocks at my son's bike, causing some damage to paint. Apparently it even makes things worse if I interfear. Usually I do leave it to my son to settle disagreements, but this boy has crossed the line.

My 21 year old son, is 6'4, 240 lbs but If I use him to intimidate the 15 year old, this would be no different than a 15 year old picking on a 12 year old. Although...I doubt Gary has paid much attention to big brother. He'd probably be scared of him, we all know Gary is a coward in disguise.

My son does not want to walk away, because this means he would have to leave his other friends behind, plus he wants to "look tough" Any tips on dealing with a neighborhood bully?

The only thing that I can think of as of now is to file a restraining order and if it continues take this to court and let the bully get crimial charges. It's unfair, yes, but there isnt much else that you can do. I would try this and see how it works. Best of luck.
-Keosha

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. The first few months we started dating, he asked me the usual "virginity" questions and things like that.. I told him everything, BUT I added and took away things to make me sound ok. I still wasn't comfortable telling him everything.

After the drama of me being a "liar", I prayed, and realized that if I want this relationship to be the way it needs to, then I need to let him know EVERYTHING about me. Nothing should be hidden. So, at 4am (what a great time) I let him know.

8 months later, he has moved to my city for me, we'll be going to school together.. basically starting a new chapter. Everything is PERFECT.

I live in a VERY small town where everyone knows everyone and everyone likes to have something to say bad about someone. A guy that comes into my boyfriends store often came in to tell my boyfriend a handful of LIES about me. The things he said didn't derive from any truth.. they were literally made up off of the top of his head. My boyfriend knew this guy lies about a lot of things, but then someone I had never met before that was friends with the liar backed him up.

The liar is someone I went to highschool with, but never knew. I knew of him. The other guy I have yet to have ever met him, nor have seen in my entire life. Plus.. both guys kept saying to my boyfriend "don't tell her we said this.." That's pretty obvious to me that those were all lies.

I want to confront the liars without making a scene.

I feel like I'm 15 again.

Why can't people grow up, and why can't my boyfriend believe me??? I have been truthful to him since the one and only incident before.

I'm way past this nonsense drama. I'm ready for a future and I can't have this future here with people like that. I'm tired of people that I don't even KNOW stepping into my relationship and causing problems.

...I'm clueless.. Hopefully this will blow over.

Yes, I can see where you're coming from feeling like your 15 again. That's very childish to do and personally, in a relationship there cannot be love if there is no trust. If he loves you he should believe you. I wount stress over it because you have no control over it. Everything happens for a reason, so I would just let it blow over and remember ... Love = Trust.
Hope I helped.
-Keosha

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Is there a way to make your own pore strips to get rid of blackheads?

Honestly this may sound funny but I heard that duck tape works.

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hey people i start cross country next week and i have no clue what kind of shoes to get.so any one know a place to get good running shoes.and i will also need cross country shoes ...please help me!!

thanks.

meghan

Nike's running shoes or Reebok's running shoes. They are the most comfortable for running. Hope I helped.
-Keosha

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ok. well i was wondering if it's true that you miss chances to grow if you wear a bra at night. like a bra with an underwire and such as you would wear during the daytime. answers are very much appreciated, and thanks ahead of time!

No this isnt true at all. However, if you find wearing a bra at night uncomfortable you can always wear a sports bra. My mom always told me if you dont wear a bra at night your boobs can get saggy as your grow older. Hope I helped.
-Keosha

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Okay, well i need something to do around my house so i can get money. I really want a new iPod, because i dont like the one i have now. Any ideas, for around my house work?!

Wash the dishes
Take out the trash
Wash cars
Mow the lawn

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hey everyone... well i need help... well my mom doesn't trust me at all anymore!!! its because i lie to her alot!!! i've tried to stop!!! but its rea;;y hard... && i do things behind her back like talk to guys... and she doesn't want me doing that either!!! so how should i get her trust back?

Just start over and do what you need to do so you wont have to worry about getting a keeping her trust so much.

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How long do hangovers last and is there anything I can do to feel better?

They say to get rid of a hangover drink a shot of the same drink that you had that gave you the hangover.

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Do Nair-type products make hair grow back thicker?

They shouldnt.

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alright, i got my nose pierced in march, for the
second time, the first time i took it out too soon
and it closed up. anyways, ive had it in for about
5 months, i had a fake nosering in, the one they
pierced me with in the first place, but im really
sensitive and cant have anything fake in my nose,
so i put in this solid white gold ring and it was
doing completely fine, for 5 months. then recently,
within the past week theres been this bump outside
my nose, i woke up this morning and it was HUGE.
so i took out the ring and put some cleaning stuff
on it, and now its all puss filled, i know it sounds
gross but if you have alot of piercings youd be used
to hearing this kind of stuff, anywayss.

tomorrow my mom is taking me to get it lanced?


is there anything i can do in the meantime to help
the swelling and stuff, is it possible to keep the
ring in? i rly dont want to close it, again.

I have my nose pierced and i used to get a bump on the inside. It should go away by itself. Just clean it good and u should be able to keep your ring in.

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I've heard a lot of things about the pill and I wanted to know if they were true.

Does It make your periods more regular?
Does it make your periods lighter/not as painful?
Does it make you gain weight or lose weight?
Does it help clean acne?

Thanks

Yes to all of your questions.
Some people can gain or lose weight on the pill. It all depends on how the pill agrees with your body.

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What's the difference between getting your master's degree and your bacheler's (sp) degree?

Your bachelors degree is 4 years of schooling and your masters is more.

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Alright, so i have extremely dry skin,and i also have acne prone skin. I have been trying different moisterizers out forever. And honestly, i am sick of it cuz i have not been able to find one that works. They ALL seem so greasy and shiney afterwards, and if they arent, then i have dry skin after i put them on. I already know what to look for Oil free. and all that. My skin is retarded

I need help!!

thank you

I have the same problem and I went to a dermatologist. The extra dry skin in our situation is call Serebia. They gave me a facewash and lotion to use on a daily basis. CeraVe. You might be able to get this at a drug store or at walmart. If you can find it let me know and if you cant let me know so I can help you.
-Keosha

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Is this something wrong with me?

It's not a constant thing, but I have some real problems with anger at times. For example before.. Mom and I were in the car and I was crying.. been bogged down by stress, friends issues, and a recent breakup. Then I totally lost it because I felt she wasn't listening to me. I started throwing everything everywhere and kicking and screaming, telling her to listen to me. she tried to act all "calm" about it and even tried to change the topic and ignore what I was saying. I got mad and told her to stop being calm and lose the tone. I got even madder, and then something snapped. I put my fingers in the car window, and pushed the button up until my fingers got caught and kept doing it till I screamed in pain. I also bit hard into my hand in anger and the marks are still there.

I have never done anything like that before. Mom and I haven't spoken since. I feel terrible about what I did. I have no idea what got into me. Is there something wrong with me, or was this just a one-off thing, like losing control for a moment? I feel really ashamed because my mom is good to me, and I went and did something like that. What should I do? Is this a serious problem that requires serious help?

thanks

Umm.. I think that you may have anxiety and need to see a counsleor because doing things like that isnt abnormal behavior but its not good. If things like that continue you may have to be placed on meds to control yourself. Try apologizing to your mom and talking to her calmly..if you can. Good luck!
-Keosha

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okay..

Basicly my mom has anger problems..
Her anger is causing many problems, and her relationships with the family are at stake.
She has LOTS of anger and I think the anger management classes would be a waste for her, because she needs to know whats bothering her. If i try to tell her, she'll start yelling and slamming things around saying why do you think i'm crazy..i don't need those fucking therapists telling me whats wrong..blahblahblah.

Are there any ways to MAKE her go to therapy?

so maybe someone could help me out?
i'm pretty tired of living with this.

If she wont go to therapy, maybe you should. They will help you find ways to cope with your family issues and if you can move away with another family member to get some space. You cannot change or help someone who doesnt want it.
I hope i helped. Good luck
-Keosha

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is infusium 23 leave in treatment good for your hair...i was looking for a deep conditioner but thats the closest thing i found im just making sure it wont make my hair fall out or something i need answers asap please =]

Yes it is. Also loreal leave in conditioner works well also. Hope i helped you.
-Keosha

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