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my mom doesn't trust me!!!
hey everyone... well i need help... well my mom doesn't trust me at all anymore!!! its because i lie to her alot!!! i've tried to stop!!! but its rea;;y hard... && i do things behind her back like talk to guys... and she doesn't want me doing that either!!! so how should i get her trust back?
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you shouldnt have betrayed her trust in the first place to get her trust back i think you should make her happy by not doing the things she asks you not to do
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Just start over and do what you need to do so you wont have to worry about getting a keeping her trust so much.
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Stop lieing.
Do some stuff around the house, to show to her your responsible.
Let her know what your doing behind her back so tenchnecally you aren't lieing, and you are telling her, and she knows, so you don't lie anymore.
It will take a while, unless you prove to her that she can put her trust back in you.
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The only way you can earn her trust back is to stop lying. Don't talk to guys behind her back, or just tell her that you're just friends with the guys you're talking to. She has a reason for everything she tells you, and you should respect her opinions and rules. Everybody lies once in awhile, so just try your best to listen. I used to lie a lot also, but I realized the hard way that what we she said was right, and I was wrong for not listening in the first place. Once you get your trust back, explain to her why you do the things you do calmly, without getting upset or mad. Good luck, and leave more info in my inbox if you need more help =]
-mystical_breeze
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Well, it is very hard to get her trust back, since you do lie to her alot. You shouldn't really have done it, because your mom is like your best friend, and of course, your mom. You need to stop lying, and tell the truth. Even if she doesn't believe you, you need to look her in the eye and tell her you are telling the truth, and not just lying. If she doesn't believe you, you are going to have to do alot of stuff for her. What I would do, if I was in your position, would be to try to do stuff around that house that I normally don't do, without being asked. Maybe, give her something that you made, and you made it espiecally for her. If she thinks you are up too something, say you aren't, and you want to acknowledge her for being a great mother. And maybe, you shouldn't talk to those guys behind her back, because that isn't going to help at all. You can either stop talking to them, or tell the truth to your mom. Tell her, so she can trust that you will tell the truth for now on. That is what I would do.
-Kutt
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If you wanna get her trust back, i would start w/ showing her that you can be responsible & doing what you say you will do. Start helping out around the house more & do everything you say you're going to do. You have to commit to not lying anymore either, you cant continue to lie to her if you want her to trust her. Just think about everything before you say it, make sure you're going to do what you said.. nothing more or less then what you said & all that stuff. After a while of showing her that you are trustworthy & responsible, i think she'll trust you more :] Hopefully that helps.
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