I'm in love with my physics teacher. No it's not a crush, I love him.
Of course he doesn't know, and I don't plan to tell him. I don't see him appreciating that kind of advance from me.
In any case my school doesn't approve of student-teacher relationships and I think he happens to like his job and wants to keep his employment intact. Lol.
Anyway, the school year is about to end and since I can't 'proclaim my undying love', I want to slip him a little something.
The thing is, I'm completley clueless in this department.
I'm trying to think like a man, but nothing's flashing.
I want to make something with my own hands. So it has to be homemakeable (If thats even a word)
So please, All ideas are appreciated.
Thank you so very much!! ^_^
I'm not going to answer this from a guy's point of view. I'm going to answer this from a teacher's point of view. And by that, I mean I'll ask my girlfriend, since she's got a teaching certificate and I clearly don't.
First and foremost, do not tell your teacher you love him, in any way, shape or form. Granted, in most cases it is best to show your feelings, but on a professional or scholarly level it's better left unsaid. Not only will this create an awkwardness between you if you meet in the future, but you'll force him to question his position. He'll wonder about his teaching methods, his personal relationships with his students, and you'll make him paranoid that you're not the only one who feels this way about him. People have resigned over this exact sort of thing. If you really do love him, you'll keep quiet as you won't want to put such stress on him.
Secondly, the coolest gift my girlfriend ever got from her students was a simple card made out of a sheet of paper. The student drew herself on it waving goodbye and had a nice long note saying how good a teacher my girlfriend would be and she knows that future students will love her as much as this bunch did. She got this while student teaching, so it was a huge boost of confidence for her. It's still on our frige today. Note that this was given to her by a high school senior, not a kid. It meant even more because of that.
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this is really intended to be for guys 20+ but anyone could answer i guess.
what do you think about girls waiting until marriage? like say if you're engaged to a girl and she tells you she's a virgin and has been waiting for you, is that a turn-on? any comments on it is great
As they say, what a virgin lacks in experience, they will make up for in enthusiasm. Men see sex with a virgin as a turn on because they become the measuring stick (no penis joke intended) for the rest of the woman's sex life, whether they end up marrying them for life or not. Even if they do poorly, the woman won't know the difference.
Personally, I'm not for the waiting until marriage idea. As crude as it sounds, "try before you buy" is a good system. Relationships have been destroyed and marriages ruined due to an unsatisfactory sex life. If sexual needs aren't being met, they'll get them met with someone else somewhere else. God forbid you marry a man only to find we can't get an erection unless you put on an eye patch and growl like a pirate for 10 minutes.
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I'm just curious, but I heard that size really doesn't matter. My friend says that a guy can have a one inch penis, and it can still pleasure the girl. Is that true?
Well, not to that extreme. The point where a female feels pleasure from vaginal penetration is about 4 inches deep. The average male penis is between 5-6 inches. That means most men are equipped to satisfy a woman, minus factors such as experience, stamina, etc. A lot of woman don't end up orgasming from vaginal penetration anyway, and so clitoral stimulation is where a lot of them get off at. That's why lesbians can enjoy sex, even without the aid of toys.
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Okay, I want to be safe, U am only 13, and I don't really want to sign up on a website that I have to take surveys and I get paid. I don't mind if it pays very little, I don't mind if it is cleaning floors type of job. I need help finding a job that is not online.
http://www.ehow.com/about_4676357_federal-laws-child-labor.html
Long story short, 13 year olds cannot get normal jobs.
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I am looking for a job for the summer, I am 13 and I need money. I have nothing to do over the summer. I need help finding the right job for me so I can have something to do over the summer and get some money. So what jobs are out there in Kansas City,KS that hires 13 year olds?
http://www.dol.ks.gov/es/html/child_dee.html
There's your answer. In short, unless you're an actor or run a paper route, the answer is you cannot be employed.
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I recently self blessed a crucifix necklace and promised that i would not have sex until i was married. i am 15 years old and I have so much tension and horniness so this is incredibly hard. I want to masterbate so bad, but i feel like if i don't masterbate, i'll only get hornier and want to do bad stuff before i am married. I don't want to have sex though i think it's awkward and disgusting kinda, considering that my labia is huge. But is masterbation considered stroking your vagina? cause i don't finger myself. what i do is i watch stuff and stroke my.... ya know. I don't know if thats considered masterbation, but i am catholic. I don't know what to do. I can't wait about 11 years to have pleasure, i have to take it out someway..... i dunno what to do!
Ignore that last answer about it being wrong and a sin. We don't have these urges as some part of a test to see if faith outweighs primal urges. We have these urges because, well, we're human, and they're natural. To deny yourself personal pleasure will build tension and stress and cause problems in other unrelated aspects of your life.
I'm in no way considered to be religious, but I was raised Episcopalian which is not very far removed from your own Catholicism. I was never faced with this same issue, partially because I never took it seriously, and partially because any decent Christian wouldn't deny a kid in his sexual prime the right to masturbate.
Waiting until marriage is a personal choice. Abstaining from masturbation is a stupid and self-harming one.
Also, I must admit I only clicked on this question initially because I thought you were asking if it were wrong to use your purity necklace as a masturbation tool. That just raises all kinds of new, disturbing questions!
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Ill keep this short as i can :)
Is there anyway to find an external power suply for computer speakers? I have a sub and pair of logitech speakers i want to take down the skatepark and play music off of but i have no idea how to power them. they plug in to the wall using the standard (English) 3 pin plug socket
http://blogs.villagevoice.com/music/images/plug.jpg
the above picture if your not sure.
i allready have the necessary cables to plug my mp3's and things in to its just finding a suitible charge that will last a good 2-3 hours.
thanks for your help :D
If you can park your car anywhere close to the skatepark, you can get an adapter that plugs directly in to your cigarette lighter that will take a normal 3 prong plug. Failing that, look on the back of your speakers for a model number. Google it, and see if you can find any compatible products for it. Logitech may make a portable battery powered power supply you can use.
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Hi...
here's some context for what went on: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=581185
So me and this guy ended up making out three or four times after the first time... the one before the last went as far as i've ever gone in my life. he ended up putting me on his sofa (no one was there and for some reason i ended up going there!!!) and taking of my bra and shirt and kissing me there... a few mins later he pulled the same trick again and put my hands on his pants, this time i was okay thinking he was sincere about what he said about being "serious" last time.
Anyway so he ended up masturbating in front of me...
two days later he txts again and i end up being super later for a friend's cause i went to his place. that's when things got weird and he revealed his perspective on the situation, in a very subtle way that suggested that i am basically a hookup...
i texted him once after and 7 hours later he answers back with plain hi...
it's been a week and nothing! he's even blocked me on msn (not that i log on all the time)
what is going on? i told him that i am okay with this as long as he doesn't say anything.... can't we be friends?
Well, I didn't read the last question. It had a lot of words and I'm not the reading type.
Seems like he only stuck around as long as he did because he got as far as he did. Since you didn't fuck him when he got your shirt off and he doesn't expect it anytime soon, he has lost his interest in you and doesn't want to waste any more time pursuing you sexually. You will never be friends.
This may seem pessimistic and harsh, but I was a teenage boy once and I see the signs. We get really good at telling a girl what they want to hear, being so sweet and "not like those other guys." No, we're like those other guys. They're pretty good at it too.
Don't waste your time. Move on. He'll probably never attempt to contact you again.
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Hello,
I am a male (18) and I've been having sex with my girlfriend for five months now. As the title says my girlfriend has trouble cumming. I am not sure why this is, the past five months she has never had an orgasm. I can however give her a clitorial orgasm, but not a vaginal one. I haven't yet tried fingering her to that point and she refuses to finger herself.
I wonder if there's anything I can do to make her get her orgasm. She is really getting frustrated during sex, she actually gets to the point when the orgasm should come, "but then everything disappears" she says. These frustrations occur multiple times during sex, followed by an emotional breakdown(on her side).
I real feel bad about not being able to give her an orgasm, so please, are there any tricks/tips/suggestions?
Thanks in advance!
Sometimes, it just will not happen. My girlfriend has never had one either, and we've been together for over 5 years. No one could make her do it before, and she can't do it herself either. Oral stimulation brings one up pretty quickly, so we've just adjusted our sex style. She comes, I come, everybody wins. It's just not at the same time.
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I just bought a new 40" LCD TV. I am wondering if
spending the 10.00 a month extra for the Direct TV
HD package is worth it?
The picture looks great to me now without it. Will I really notice a big difference adding HD?
Thank you.
It depends on what the package entails. If $10 a month only gets you HD channels, I'd say don't bother. If the picture looks good already, why pay more to upgrade? I've never had DTV, I had Suddenlink but cut it off cause we're broke. The HD package I had was an additional $15 a month, but included HD channels, DVR, and On Demand. That was definitely worth every penny. Since my job kept me out most of the time, the DVR meant I could still watch everything, on my own time.
HD can be overrated. Hell, I sold and delivered HDTVs every day, and I still can't always tell a HD picture apart from a SD one.
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does fingering hurt if your a virgin?
Most boys don't realize this, but "fingering" doesn't entail shoving your fingers in and swirling them around. Whether your hymen is intact or not shouldn't be a factor, as the point of it all is clitoral stimulation, which requires no real penetration.
In short, it's probably going to hurt regardless; because if you're asking this, you and your partner are inexperienced enough to not know what the hell you're doing. Your best bet is to guide his hand (I'm assuming this is a female asking this, but if not, reverse roles) exactly where you want it and tell him what to do. If you don't know what feels good, touch yourself beforehand and figure it out!
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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin.
Hair is one factor, cleanliness is another. As long as you're clean down there, it shouldn't be a big deal. Personally, I like it trimmed, not shaved. Shaving causes red bumps and pain for the woman, and the slightest bit of friction from my 5 o' clock shadow can ruin her vibe.
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What is worse for you; throwing up or taking laxactives? I was just wondering which form of bulimia is worse on your body.
Because I'm too lazy to research it, as apparently you are too, I'm going with common knowledge. Vomiting constantly will damage your esophagus and your teeth, what with the stomach acid not being where it's supposed to be. Consistent laxatives will likely mess with your digestive system, cause constant cramps, and basically destroy your ability to hold it in. So which is worse? Fucked up teeth and a dilapidated throat? Or stomach pain and uncontrollably shitting your pants? I see no clear winner.
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do all black guys have big private parts
Do all of them? No. On average, however, a black man's penis is about an inch longer than the average white man's penis.
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Where can I see pictures of Emma The Amish Girl for free on-line?
Nothing real naughty, I just wanna know what she looks like. I can only LISTEN to Howard Stern and she is supposed to be on there so i wanna know what she looks like.
I will rate you!
http://www.newamericanpinup.com/Month_April2010.html
They're censored, but probably still NSFW.
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I was just curious. If you walk in on your girlfriend using a vibrator or toy, does it make you jealous or do you find it to be a turn on? Because I would think most guys would think its not a bad thing and actually like it, but my boyfriend seemed almost jealous, like I was using the toy because he wasn't doing his job right. Which wasn't why! lol
I don't think it's fair for guys to get jealous. I wouldn't expect my girlfriend to be jealous if she caught me, and she'd be naive to think that I don't. If I walked in on her, I'd throw out a line like "you need some help with that?"
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What keeps you goin evryday? why do you wake up and do the things you do? making coffee,makin love? is life worth it?
I'm in a rut. Right now I'm stuck in a 60-70 hour a week job that screws me out of overtime, keeps me from home and friends, and drains me physically and emotionally. I can't buy or do anything fun because all my extra money is being thrown into savings in case we move this summer. The house is a constant mess, I don't have the time to hit the gym like I want to, and just sitting down and watching a movie is too time consuming.
I'm in autonomous mode. I'm a machine right now, just doing well enough to not get yelled at. I can't quit my job because while I am not getting paid what I work for, I am still getting paid more than I would getting a new job, especially one with less hours. Not to mention, we're living paycheck to paycheck anyway so I can't take a pay cut. My girlfriend has her teaching certificate and if she gets a job outside of town, we're up and moving in 3 months, so I don't have time to find and settle a new career.
So why do I do it?
I do it knowing that things can only get better. If we don't move, I'll take a different job and sludge through the bills somehow. I'll still be broke, but I'll be happier. If we do move, she'll have a decent job and I could afford one with a pay cut. Once we settle down and catch up financially, I could go to wrestling school and the gym as I so badly want to.
Also, I'm agnostic and I don't really know what's waiting for us on the other side. I'm not ready to jump in and find out, nor do I believe anyone here knows the correct answer, so I'm going to take this life I have and use it as I see fit. I don't want to look back and feel like I've wasted it. Right now I'm all about surviving until our circumstances change; and if they don't, I'll force them to.
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do you think it would be better if all men died out and only their sperm was saved so the female population would die out? We could eat the men and also reduce world hunger. Just think, Bush and Cheney would be gone along with all those other assholes. We could keep the gay, sensitive ones for the sperm, right?
what a perfect world it would be.
what do you think?
No, the world would be filled with irrationality and everyone's money would go towards buying purses and shoes.
You'd all be dead in a week.
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so my boyfriend and i have this agreement that when we go out and party we tell each other first and then call each other when we get back to just say a quick goodnight and to make sure we got back fine because we live far apart. He has been going out a lot lately and i haven't. And he keeps not holding his end up but it really hurts me because i expect it and then it doesn't happen. We have been through it and i threatened to break up with him over it before. I don't want to end our 2 year relationship over something this stupid because i know he hasn't cheated or done anything deliberately to hurt me. He gets home and passes out. Meanwhile, I wake up and then cry myself to sleep. I know, pathetic right? Anyway it causes a lot of emotional pain and i don't know what to do. If he can't keep up his end it feels like he just doen't care at all about how i feel.
we are both 18 in college.
Personally, I wouldn't recommend having a long-distance relationship when in college anyway, but that's not what you're asking. When making a new step in life, it's easy to forget what you've left behind when you're in the thick of things. My girlfriend moved to a different city to go to college while I stayed here, and I can tell you for sure that had she not been constantly calling me, I probably wouldn't have thought to call her. It's not that I didn't want to, or that I was an inconsiderate prick, it's just that being in a new environment threw me off my regualr schedule and I would tend to forget my "roots," if you would.
I don't think he's meaning to do it. I just don't think he realizes the magnitude of how seriously you take it. Threatening to break up is not the way to handle it; he'll see that as you being overly emotional and he won't take it seriously. You just need to explain to him, in a calm and serious manner, what it has meant to you and what you need to change. Any decent man will lend you his ear and act accordingly.
However, I was once an 18 year old in college too, so there's always the chance that he will decide to move on from this long distance relationship for closer, shorter, and more physical ones. Please don't tell me he's not the type, you know him too well, he'd never hurt you like that, etc. People can change when thrown into a new environment. Hell, my girlfriend and I didn't really have any serious problems until we were 3 years in, and that was after she had moved away and moved back.
In short, be honest with him, and have faith, but don't be so naive to think he'll fix it immediately, or that there will be no more hang-ups or possible trust issues.
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Can you get pregnant from a toilet seat?
By toilet seat, do you mean penis?
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