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what do guys think of virgins?
this is really intended to be for guys 20+ but anyone could answer i guess.
what do you think about girls waiting until marriage? like say if you're engaged to a girl and she tells you she's a virgin and has been waiting for you, is that a turn-on? any comments on it is great
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Yes it is a turn on , and I am male 24 and I would love to be married to a virgin . Because it shows she willing to share something special with you , it shows she trust you and that she really loves you . I think anyguy would love to be with a virgin but that's just me saying that .
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to be honest coming from a man..im 21 and well i mean for me it is a choice thats personal....i chose not to keep my viginity but i think virgins are a turn on...just to imagine it....it is a turn but waiting till marriage is a great choice.:D hope i could help-Yazeed
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If you going to marry try the merch. This is coming from a woman. What if your not compatable. It would suck big time...
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As they say, what a virgin lacks in experience, they will make up for in enthusiasm. Men see sex with a virgin as a turn on because they become the measuring stick (no penis joke intended) for the rest of the woman's sex life, whether they end up marrying them for life or not. Even if they do poorly, the woman won't know the difference.
Personally, I'm not for the waiting until marriage idea. As crude as it sounds, "try before you buy" is a good system. Relationships have been destroyed and marriages ruined due to an unsatisfactory sex life. If sexual needs aren't being met, they'll get them met with someone else somewhere else. God forbid you marry a man only to find we can't get an erection unless you put on an eye patch and growl like a pirate for 10 minutes.
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Hello :)
Many men that I know find it extremely attractive if a girl is a virgin. They see you as clean, innocent, and a couple of other things on the naughty side. So chances are, most guys you'll meet will find it as a turn on. Hope I helped!
Uniq
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well imma girl but I asked my brother and he says it is romantic to know that you turned down every opportunity just to share thee first time with him,
there is NOTHING like the first time! it's unforgettable especially when it's with the person you love
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The desire to save yourself until marriage is based in two things. Religion, and the need to not have constant random procreation in a society with inherited property.
If someone does not themselves wish to wait until marriage, it's likely they would have difficulty understanding or empathizing with your decision.
Adult men grow out of the whole "possessing a woman's virtue" thing for the most part. The ones that don't are the ones who are overly obsessed with innocence and end up marrying a 24 year old when they hit the mid 40s life crisis stage.
My problem with the whole "waiting until marriage" idea is that really what it generally means is "repressing your sexuality until marriage"
You don't explore self, you have no sexual experience of any significant kind, and so when you marry someone sexual compatibility is a complete crapshoot. In the world of modern relationships, this is often a death sentence.
Advising you is hard. You should follow your beliefs, but you should also examine them and ask yourself why you believe them. I don't think you should bank on waiting until marriage being a turn on, rather simply seek someone who is capable of respecting you and your reasons for making that decision, and your right to make such decisions for yourself.
I will, however, say that sex is important to any relationship. You should not expect to be engaged to someone before they find out you're a virgin and that you're waiting until marriage. That's something that should come up within the first month/four to five dates of a relationship. Because while you may want to wait, others may not, and you both have the right to understand what each other's desires and boundaries are to see if you two are compatible.
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yeah I guess it is sort of, because she's saving herself for you, and only you- not passing it out like free samples. And when a guy takes a girls virginity, there's something about it- like she's yours, and only yours. Of course you'll be tighter so it'll feel better for him. So I would be rather happy if who I was getting married to was a virgin- as long as the gap between engagement and marriage isn't too long (ahaha joke....sort of)
hope i helped :)
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