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I am 23 years old, but still living at home. I have been dating a guy for a few months that I absolutely adore. Only downfall is he has tattoos, not just a few but both arms completely covered (sleeves). I have no problem with this however my parents do. I haven't had him over to meet my parents simply because of that reason and they have already told me "he is not going to meet extended family, that's embarrassing to bring around them, he can't go on family vacations" etc... I am not asking them to accept or like the tattoos, that is their opinion. I'm just looking for some advice on how I can allow them to look beyond that and see them how i do, a respectful man who treats me right. Any advice please! (link)
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I agree with samanthaXstone tattoos don't mean you are a criminal or a bad influence there's cops and all with tattoos theses days things are different now your parents need to get out of the old school ways and see how thing have changed . Things that were considered inappropriate then may not be now ,they need to just except the fact that this is who you are happy with and get to know the guy not just judge a book by its cover . I am sure they would hate to be judged them selves .
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My boyfriend and I have been together a few months and I really do enjoy him, I met his family and his little girl and we're really happy, we've always had a healthy sexual relationship and never had problems, about a month ago his lease was up, he moved in with his friend and they're looking for a new place together now. However they share a room so I don't get a lot of intimate time with my boyfriend anymore.
Whenever we do get the chance he just gets it over with and doesn't really put any spice into it. On our average night we spend time with our friends which are just 4 guys we both happen to be friends with. I don't mind them. But my boyfriend likes to play video games with them and completely blocks me out, I don't pester him while he plays because I know it would bug him. However he completely ignores me, regardless of what they are doing, videogames, tv, just talking, Whenever we're alone and everyone is gone or at work I try to kiss him and just rub his back and occasionally touch him, he usually brushes me off of him and when he doesn't we have sex and he gets it over and done with, doesn't touch me or anything, I just feel like when we do have sex he feels obligated. Whenever I try to send him a dirty text or just tells him dirty things in general he never say anything back he just says "Oh that sounds great." He never really tries to be intimate with me or anything. The only way I get him to pay attention to me is if I don't touch him or anything. After I ignore him for a few days he comes around but then always goes back to the way it was before hand. I just want to know how to fix this, it's really taking it's toll and I just want him to give me a bit more attention, I don't want all his attention, but he hardly gives me any and it makes me feel bad about myself.. (link)
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Yeah I myself had been through this once with my ex I not sure what made me feel that way I think it was because we spent so much time together and things felt like they were always the same over and over again I needed time to myself to do my own thing it didn't mean I wasn't in love with my x because I was but I just felt as if I was bored at times . I always showed her attention but when she wanted to be interment with me I would brush her off or change the subject because I didn't feel like I wanted to like the mood just wasn't there . But when we took time apart I found myself wanting her more and really appreciating her . We worked together lived together did everything together , I guess what I am trying to say is that having a little time out is good and it makes you see how much you miss the one your with . Just give him some time to himself and see if that helps .but also talk to him about this and be honest with him tell him how you feel .
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22/F
How do I go about re-sparking an old (since May) flame with a guy I used to see...Here's the catch: we now live 3 hours away from each other. I try to talk to him every once and a while, but the conversations are usually brief. Please help! Thanks! (link)
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I think you need to give a little more information on this one . Like what happened to you 2 b4 ? We're you guys dating in the past ?
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Ok, so I'm a female in my twenties, and so is the guy I've been talking to (Jake) for a few months now. We've gotten along really well, and have a lot in common. I don't want to rush into anything, but at the same time, I want the relationship to be heading toward something.We've already been fooling around and all,too. I finally got up the nerve to ask what we were doing, but didn't get a direct, clear answer. Lately, the conversations have been really good, and he tells me how different I am than people in his past, blah blah blah. For the most part, when we're around each other, it's like we're together...but we're not. He told me how he got out of hanging out with another woman to hang out with me, but then he turned around and said he'd probably end up having to go hang out with her soon, since he's running out of excuses. So...I'm just confused. Is he just trying to get me going by talking about someone else, and get me to be like "no, don't go!"? Or, is he not wanting to be in a relationship with me, and we're just a weekend fling?
I'd appreciate any good thoughts on this...Thanks! (link)
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Well I think you need to ditch his ass . He sounds to me like he is using you . I am a guy and I know how guys think and you have asked him yourself what's going on between you 2 and you never got a clear answer . If a guy likes you and you ask him whats going on he is going to tell you how he feels and most likely you 2 would end up being a couple . But that has not happened instead he is hanging out with another girl and using you both . He is using you,Don't get jealous dont show him any attention and ditch him , he had a chance to be with you but instead chooses to keep things the way they are because that means he is single and can have who he wants when he wants and also gets you on the side . Ditch his ass don't let him play games with you there's better guys out there then this guy . If he really liked you he would want you as his girlfriend not just some hook up .
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this is really intended to be for guys 20+ but anyone could answer i guess.
what do you think about girls waiting until marriage? like say if you're engaged to a girl and she tells you she's a virgin and has been waiting for you, is that a turn-on? any comments on it is great (link)
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Yes it is a turn on , and I am male 24 and I would love to be married to a virgin . Because it shows she willing to share something special with you , it shows she trust you and that she really loves you . I think anyguy would love to be with a virgin but that's just me saying that .
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I am in a happy long term relationship with my boyfriend - 3 years
However last year I slept with another boy, which meant id given this boy my virginity not my boyfriend. I have repented and so on and he has forgiven me.
But my boyfriend wants a virgin to sleep with, as i made him wait so long and then just gave it away meaninglessly. I just dont know what to do. I dont know how to make this happen (link)
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Ok so you cheated right I believe that your boyfriend is not ok with this even tho he may have said he forgives you deep down being cheated on is a hard thing to get over .and if you two had planed on sharing your first time together then that's going to make things worse , because the fact that you couldn't wait and that you gave yourself to someone ells would have crushed him and shows no trust or love on your behalf .
If you really cared about him you would have never slept with some random guy . He is looking for a virgin because he wants to share something special with this person , he wanted to share it with you until you fucked that up . If it was me I would have left you because it shows how much you care. But I can tell you this your relationship is finished u think after he spends his first time with this girl that he will just drop her and come back to you ?? He is looking for your replacement you are done finished he dont trust you or love you the way he did when he first met you . And that's your fault you made the bad decision . And saying that you are ok with him wanting to have sex for the first time with another Virgin show that you don't really love him . Geese if you cared it would kill you to even have thought about being with another guy let alone being ok with him being with another girl . I am sorry to say but you guys are finished .
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So I was talking to this guy for awhile and one day he just stopped talking to me. He said he was busy with school but I just think he needed his space. He never had a girlfriend before so i thought maybe we got too close for comfort and he got netvous and ended it?This happened two months ago and I was liturally so depressed. I couldn't sleep or eat all I did was cry. Eventually it got easier over time and he would text me every two weeks to see how I was doing and I texted him every two weeks to see how he was too. Our conversations were short and it made me so sad. I loved how he would text me but it was just a reminder of what we had and how it's gone. So on Tuesday he texted me and we were talking and he was being so flirty again. And I said I was going to bed and he said he'll text me the next day. This is something I never thought would happen again. So we talked the next day like we used too and I kept telling myself not to get my hopes up and then in the middle of the conversation he just stopped talking to me, and hasn't talked to me since. I know I give him my everything and most effort. The first time he stopped any kind of relationship we had by stopped talking to me i beat myself up over it for so long because I didn't know what I did to make him leave and it took liturally everything out of me to just be able to get back to my somewhat normal self again. And now after that happened I feel shitty again. I honestly love him but the way he makes me feel is just horrible and he doesn't even know it. My question is what should I do with our relationship. If he texts me in two weeks what do I do? Should I text him back? Also what do you guys think is going on? Like why is he doing this and why and how can he change his mind so fast? I know I should get get over him but I just don't think I'm capable of doing that, Atleast for now. I feel like I'm not strong enough to ignore a text from him. I just really need advice! Thank you you so much in advanced! (link)
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So i agree with mannequin24 tell him how you feel tell him that you have fallen for him and that what he is doing is hurting you , that you are confused to what he wants with you . And you might think you are not strong enough to let him go but your wrong , yes it will be hard but in the long run its whats best for you . Holding onto this will just hurt you more and more . If he dose not change after you letting him know how you feel then you need to delete his number from your phone block his number cut all ties to him ,it will take some time to get over him but u will if u keep your distance . You will come across someone some day who you deserve and who will treat you right just don't hold back because of this guy .
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I am 27 years old self-dependent working girl. i am in relationship with a guy from last 8 years. now i informed my family that i want to marry him only so they refuse my request and fixed ma marri8age with a guy to whom i rejected 1.5year back. Now the situation is damn critical for me i can’t hurt ma parents to do court marriage and not even leave ma love. That’s why i decided to finish my life....
pls suggest me some easy way to commit suicide. (link)
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Shit dont kill yourself that not the way you should be thinking . You should Marry the guy you love , and your parents will get over it, they love you ok and they not going to hate you . It's not there decision who you marry or love ok . You are your own person do not let anyone tell you what to do , if you love this guy and you want him then marry him your parents will get over it ok!
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Hi i'm a 13\F
I just got out of a long distance relationship with my 16 year old now ex, boyfriend.
I didn't really wan to, but he isn't Christian, and i am, which is the reason i broke up with him.
To some of you it may sound silly, but the Bible has a say in that type of relationship.
SO my question is,
How can i keep my mind off him, and deal with this heartbreak easily?
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Being Christian shouldn't be a reason to have dumped him I mean hey whats the difference between a good guy and a Christian guy ?? Just because one reads the bible dosnt mean
That the other guy is trash . I am not Christian but I have really good morals and I have nothing to do with the bible yet I am not a sinner as you guys say ? . I think that if you like some one u should like them for them not because of the bible . The bible will not show you the way to true love . Just you remember that . “Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven;
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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 months. We're both 15. We both believe we are in love with each other. A week ago an issue came up and he questioned me about it and I lied without thinking. He told me he lost trust in me d it absolutely killed me. We are still dating today. But another issue came up where I was talking to a friend and he was right there and he said something and I turned to my friend and said he was weird and I winked and said but I love him and he asked me what I said and I said nothing and he asked again and I said nothing and then he asked again and I said that I said I love him. Then he accused me of lying and has been mad and upset with me ever since. I've prayed and prayed that everything would be okay. I'd fall apart without him. And I just need someone to tell me it's going to be okay. (link)
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I had a girlfriend that lived on telling lies and towards the end of our relationship she made me resent her and my trust for her could never be regained . Your not telling lies to save him from getting hurt your telling lies to save yourself and that's showing disrespect to your boyfriend . If you don't want to lose him then you need to be honest with him and not lie . Once you lose the trust in the relationship that's when thing go bad and you can pretty much kiss it good bye from then unless u Change and fast . And just think about this if you really do "love" him then why are you telling lies for ???
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Hi,
My best friend of 15 years is getting married next year.
To my surprise she posted up a facebook status the other day listing her four bridesmaids & I was not included.
I've never felt so hurt by someone in my entire life, I was crying all night thinking I had done something wrong & trying to figure out why she didn't pick me.
Now I don't want to be friends with her anymore or even go to her wedding. I don't have a boyfriend, never have so I will be by myself as usual. Also I don't want to be embarrassed in front of her family who I've known for years starring at me wondering why I'm not there.
She lives in Australia but is coming home to New Zealand to get married here then go back to live in Australia.
How do I tell her I don't want to be friends with her cause she really hurt me & that I don't want to go to her wedding?
I know it's mean but I am just so hurt. If I ever got married I would've picked her to be mine.
Her excuse was that she can't afford to have an extra bridesmaid.
I just want to tell her to f off & to go get stuffed. (link)
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For starters i am a guy 24 so i dont know if what i am going to say will help but anyways here it goes. I understand that u would feel terrible and angry but I still think you should go to the wedding and don't worry about the not having a boyfriend you will find one you might even find mr right at the wedding ? As for your friend I know it's will be hard but try to not let it hurt you and just to go there and enjoy yourself . And hey who knows when you get married you can do some pay back as well lol .
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I can't stop thinking. I'm going on 22 years old and I've never had any experiences with love or sex. The past few months have been a roller coaster of emotions, many extremely positive ones. New changes, particularly significant weight loss have given me confidence I've never experienced before. Having been insecure and somewhat shy, experiencing major confidence for the first time is a remarkable feeling.
In very basic terms, I'm often desperate for male intimacy. I've gone on a couple dates, mildly physical with with one guy, but long story short, we didn't click. I never act on my emotions when things are risky. A lot of my friends engage in sexual behavior with people they don't know but I don't do this. Some of my friends are in amazing relationships so I guess those girls were lucky enough to have feelings for someone in the right place at the right time.
I am absolutely out of this world crazy about a close friend of mine. I can't have him because he's taken. I know we have a connection. I don't make any bold moves, just let anything that is meant to happen happen. And so, the status quo remains. We stay close friends and nothing more than that, because he has a girlfriend of course and I wouldn't have it in me to sabotage a relationship even if I tried to.
I feel a sense of positive sexual/emotional tension when we are in a room together but in the end these thoughts are merely product of speculation. He could be crazy about me, or have no interest at all. I know he really likes me as his good friend and quite possibly more, but there's no way to know for sure.
Around him, I remain calm and collected but only on the outside. Inside, I'm the total opposite. I honestly barely have words to describe how I feel when I'm with him. Pure elation and excitement. I block out what's going on around us. Afterwards I'll have a soaring "high" for hours. It's the sweetest feeling ever, one of them at least. I can't tell if it's obvious how I feel. I have trouble, and often feel uncomfortable with showcasing my emotions externally so I know I haven't been blatantly obvious about it. But still, I give him more attention than most girls do and smile a lot and stuff when I'm with him.
But then I get back to reality and the sadness kicks in of what the situation actually is. As long as there's another girl, I will not have a chance. Even so, I can only speculate that he'd have feelings for me. I have tried SO hard to let go of this and I can't. I feel like it's a burden I'm carrying around against my will. Intelligent, sensible people (including my mom) keep telling me that one day the right person will come along.
You know what? The right person HAS come along but I can't reap the benefits of these amazing feelings because of boundaries. So I guess I will spend my life drooling over one guy at a time who I may or may not be able to be with. I have friends who are absolutely loving the casual dating/sex lifestyle and friends who are loving their relationships.
I'm very open-minded. I try to mingle with guys all the time. I smile and have fun and while I don't have a flirty or seductive personality, I do little subtle things to try and "seduce" them. For one, I don't do enough for it to actually work and two, I'm realizing that this instant sexual gratification type of relationship that so many guys seek does not align with the person I am.
I don't feel comfortable being romantic/physical with a guy I don't have a connection with in a friendship sense. I'm the type of person who takes a while to open up/get close with people. Do I try to change this or accept that this is part of who I am? I tried that route with the one guy I went on a couple of dates with and felt uncomfortable with our mild physical encounters, simply because I didn't know him very well.
So the casual thing is not my thing. Or maybe it is, who knows. I guess the relationship route is my thing but maybe I get too passionate and involved... No answers exist and that's why this is so damn frustrating. A million thoughts are running through my head. I don't know what I want or what to do. The status quo remains and everyone else has excitement with guys while I watch. I do know that I want SOMETHING. and something positive. Right now I feel like I have nothing. I want both love and sex desperately. I want my friend desperately. I cannot stop thinking about him. I want it to stop. I'd rather not want these things as they are affecting me negatively. I just want to be with him!! and if not that, have the feelings I have for him for someone else. I just feel like I'm not going to really start this stuff until I'm 35-40 (almost 22 now) which is depressing.
I'd like to focus completely on my education but this is intruding me. WHY do other girls get their chances but not me? I don't want to get married I just want a connection with a guy. I feel like I'm walking in the dark with this...any advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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All these answers to your question is right and 22 is young I am 24 and I am single and not worried about finding a relationship I focus on me and making myself happy keeping myself busy with boxing and gym and going with the flow . You will find someone some day but your young and you should be not worried about being in a relationship , you need to have fun and do things relationships are not everything and when it's time it will happen for you . And don't worry about the not having sex at age 22 you should wait and share that special time with the one you love there's no rush for sex . Just don't do anything with this friend of yours because he is taken and you should respect that , remember the key word in this he is just a "friend" .
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19/f
This might be quite lengthy, so brief yourself.
My ex-boyfriend and I were together for almost three years. I was his first actual girlfriend, that he apparently "really loved." We had a complicated relationship for a while. I guess you can say, we were "friends with benefits" but we actually had feelings for each other after we broke up. He kind of had a hard time balancing things out with school and a relationship because he would get distracted.
Last month in December, he told me that he wanted to end the complicated relationship that we had. He said that he wanted to start 2013 fresh and he wanted to do better in his life. And of course, I thought it was predictable from his side because he always said that whenever he failed a class. And this was when I didn't see him as often during that semester.
I, personally, was hurt but I wasn't sure if he was being truthful about it or not because he has said it multiple times before and he kept coming back to me. I remember I went through 7 months of depression because I wanted him back but he was treating me very badly. He just kept pushing me away and he was saying rude things to me. So, it was like a cycle because he came back again after he saw that I was trying to move onto someone else and I don't want to always find someone else to have him realize that he still loves me and wants to be with me.
He told me he wanted to have sex with me one last time before 2013 started. His reason? He said he didn't know what was the reason. He said it was tiresome being in a relationship with me, I was "boring" because he knew everything about me already, and he couldn't see me in his future. He didn't have an explanation for any of those reasonings because I don't recall ever having him to do anything for me and I knew we were comfortable with each other, but boring?
Here's the difference in this situation: After New Years Day, I didn't see him. I sensed that he was tempted to see me but he said that he really wanted to move on. And during these two weeks, I've noticed that he's been getting drunk to the fact where he throws up and passes out with these new friends that he had recently met. Two weeks later, he was interested in a girl that he met in December. She came into town to see her friends but she lives in a completely different state. He texted me out of nowhere a few days later and said, "I hope you're happy. Everything came out the way you expected. She told me she couldn't date me."
I was not happy. I was upset that he even brought it up to her in the first place. He said that he didn't and that she did... They didn't do anything, they just Skyped and talked a lot. And he said he doesn't want to move on from her because she said that she thinks it's better to give it time. It was upsetting me because he couldn't even give me time and attention when we were dating, when we were living in the same city. But he thinks that he could make a long distance relationship work, with a girl that he just met.
He kept saying that he's moved on from me, his grades from school in 2012, and from everything that happened. But even when he said that, he's still talking to me. He's still answering. It may be harsh words, but he's still talking and answering. And multiple times when we were arguing, he said, "forget this. I'm moving on." And I replied, "I thought you already moved on." Last night, I asked him to be completely honest with me, if he really did completely get over me and he said he doesn't want to talk about it and that he was going to sleep and stopped texting me from there.
I'm not sure if it's because he really wants to move on, he's using her to project his feelings for me onto her. I don't really know how to take everything that has been going on. I have been really depressed and I have been crying for the past few days. What should I do? What could possibly be going on with him? (link)
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It's over this guy is over you he just is using you now and it's time you take charge of your self and stop this from proceeding he is hurting you and you know what he is doing is wrong . You need to cut all contact with him and focus on other things like sports school whatever keeps u busy and clear of him . Yes he will try to contact you again but it's only because he can see that you don't need him anymore , he is using you as a back up as if things don't go his way he could always have you on the side , and he sounds confused . You need to let him go
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A week ago I went to Florida to visit my boyfriend. It's a long distance relationship and we engaged in sexual activity for the first time.
He fingered me, and I gave him blow jobs a few times, swallowing. Half way through the trip my clitoris became a bit sore and when I got home I went to the doctor. She said it was most likely just a fungal infection and gave me an antibiotic. After that, the pain went away quickly.
However, now I'm really worried. I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone about going on birth control before our next visit and I discovered that he had not gotten STD tested after his last girlfriend who he had sex with, because she was a virgin prior.
But I don't trust his ex-girlfriend and I know people lie or you can get STDs from oral sex as well.
Should I get tested for STDs, and if so, which ones?
Am I wrong to ask my boyfriend to get tested as well, even if his ex was a virgin?
He thinks I'm being paranoid. (link)
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I think that's a good idea , if a girl asked me to do a STD test I would it wouldn't worry me . And if he cares about you he will do it
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We’re both 18 and we’ve been dating for about 7-8 months and it started off brilliantly. Now, I don’t know whether it’s just me or whether something is up between us. He likes to finger me a lot (sorry to put it bluntly) and I like him to do it but he won’t let me return the favour afterwards unless I do it to him at the same time as he's fingering me. I find it hard to do two things at once and I tend to enjoy it less. He used to lay back, let me give him handjobs and stuff & I love giving him handjobs and blowjobs but now as soon as I start touching him, he’ll turn me over and start fingering me which tends to get painful, especially if he’s already been doing it for a while. I’ve told him it hurts and asked him if I can have a break and if I can pleasure him for a bit but he says it’s not fair unless he’s doing it to me at the same time. I know I’m probably not brilliant at it because he’s my first boyfriend but he won’t tell me what he likes and he’s always silent when we're making out so I don’t know whether he’s enjoying it or not (that's something else I'm a bit worried about). It's making me a bit unhappy and it really stops me being in the mood at the time. I do feel lucky to have him want to pleasure me (but just not ALL the time!) Should I just accept it? (link)
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Ok so I am a guy and I went through this with one of my ex girls . Some guys don't get off on blow jobs and its not saying you doing it wrong but sometimes it just dosnt really work for you , and playing with your girl friend while getting a blow job can be more stimulating then just laying back . I myself don't seam to get any real feeling from it and would never like having a blow job , but telling my ex that would make her upset as she really wanted to make me feel good so I would always just play with her and not really let her do the same to me . Just talk to your man and ask him, and tell him how you feel ?
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in all honesty i've never done this before but i just feel like i have noone to turn to about this. so i've been working my ass off to save money fly and see this guy. he lives in the states and i live in canada. we met here when he was on vaca meeting some relatives. anywho at first we webcammed texted and talked on the phone and eventually i geuss our lives put more distance then.. we already were. we planned for me to fly over at the end of the month but im having second thoughts we barely talk.. its just how are u okay bye... dull. and now a new guys popped into my life and he's all ears and gives me so much attention. i dont know if i should go we talked for nearly 8 months.... and its fading.. since we live so far communication is so important and i dont know if we have that. should i wast 1000 dollars to just give it a try? (link)
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I think you should tell this guy how you feel and be very honest with him tell him you have met someone and that you guys do not communicate that we'll any more and the spark has gone out . I my self had met a girl and did the long distance thing . I always talked to her but she stopped communicating now she just messages me once in a blue moon when I am the one who is always trying and always making the contact first when it used to be her who contacted me first . She told me that some guy had cough her eye and that she didn't do anything because she wants me but that was enough for me to know that it's over . You need to make sure to be honest and tell him the truth and don't go see him if u have met someone els that not the right thing to be doing you will end up hurting one of these guys .
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Okay, so I get basically 'good' grades at school and everything, but this year I want to try out for the girls' soccer team-even though the coach is sort of rude. The coach doesn't like me, and I'm afraid of her. She says I'm not good enough for the team. And I'm afraid my friends will laugh at me since I think I'm sort of fat, and that they'll say the same. (link)
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Well first thing is first , don't let any one tell you that you can't do something OK. You might end up being really good at soccer who knows but it's good u want to play a sport . There's always going to be haters out there and you can't let them destroy your life you need to learn to not care what they think and to just go with the flow . And your so called friends tell them to go jump off a Clift , what type of friends are they to say them things to you . You need to take control of yourself and tell them I don't care what u guys think I am not doing this to impress you or that stupid coach I doing this because I can . And hey playing sport is a good way to keep fit and meet new people friends and to be apart of something fun.
Just remember dont let people tell you that you can't do something , because you can because no one owns you but you yourself .
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19F 21M
So I have been dating this guy for nearly a year. It has always been the way it is. I have just always tried harder. Our first date I offered to pay because he was out of work at the time. Over the summer I worked a lot more at my job and was getting bigger checks. He would take me out to a movie once a month maybe twice after he started working. But I would loan him money like 50-100 because he would go without food for a day or two sometimes and needed money to hold him over. Well he is on his feet now and I am proud that we stuck through that together. He has a place and his own car and has gotten 2 promotions at work. I always feel a bit taken advantage of though. I usually make him dinner since when he gets home he is exhausted. I watch his little boy when he has to run out. I don't mind it because I love him. I took him out to a really expensive dinner to this fancy sea food place and spent quite a bit of money. If I want to go out I end up having to be the one to suggest it and pay for it or it won't happen. The last time he paid for a date was back in September. I just feel like put in more effort. Lately He has been low on cash and I have been buying him lunch. He won't talk to me all day until he wants food. I give him the cash and then he stops talking to me again. I try so hard to keep it interesting and happy but he never does anything back for me. He didn't do anything for Christmas for me and keeps telling me he will take me out and doesn't. But he always buys himself toys and video games and goes out to the bar. How can I bring it up to him that I feel like he doesn't try? How can I make him want to? I really need help I feel like giving up but we have been through a lot I love his son and family so much and I genuinely love him as well. Advice or anything is appreciated. (link)
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Hey ,
This sounds a lot like my sisters ex very tight with money and cares only about himself . I am a guy 24 and I would never let a girl pay for anything let alone dinner , this saddens me as from what I have read you sound like a amazing girlfriend really , you only have to read your story yourself to see that this guy has taken advantage of you . My sister was in the Same situation with her ex they been together for 4 years she told him on many occasions to change and he never did in the end she had to leave him even tho she loved him it just didn't work he was very selfish and couldn't see anything wrong with what he was doing ." NO" way should a guy be like this towards you , i would appreciate someone like you buy you gifts take you out and pay for it all . And never ask to borrow money even if I needed it I couldn't borrow money and let the women pay for everything that would eat me up inside . I think you should think about leaving this guy he is selfish and sounds like he doesn't see what a amazing girlfriend he has . Any guy would be lucky to have you but you hurt yourself staying with a guy who really dose not care if he did he would take you out without you having to ask him and he would pay for it all that's how a guy should be . Good luck
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Hi. I cheated on a guy whom i love. I pretended to be somebody. How can i get him back? (link)
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Well I am a guy and I would never forgive cheating no matter how much I loved the girl . You made a big mistake and you have to learn from it the hard way cheating should never happen there's no reason to have cheated if you loved him ? If he dose take you back he may never trust you again and believe me he will feel wired around you . I just hope your reasons for cheating were worth it because you have lost this guy u so called loved . Sorry for being so straight up about it but I just don't like people who cheat I was cheated on and it sucks so bad then she wanted me back and there was no way I could take her back after being with another guy she showed me she never cared about me at all and that's what you have done . No one forces you to cheat you cheat because you wanted to and because u don't love the other person image if he cheated on you with some good looking girl then told you he still loves you and it meant nothing ha hahah would you be ok with it ? Would you be able to kiss them lips knowing some one easel did and more ?i am going to leave you with 2 saying that I live by :1 Treat others how you would like to be treated yourself :2 once a cheater alway a cheater .
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so im a 14 year old girl right i wanna know why i like porn so much especially when the girls double stuffed why do i get so wet?
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There's nothing wrong with watching porn but your at the age when u shouldn't be allowed to watch theses things . Girls can watch porn there's nothing wrong with that its normal but just remember porn is porn not real life sex with your partner . For starters porn guys seam to all have massive dicks and last for ever lol this isn't true it's all filmed to look like its perfect when there's a lot of tacks and what not . But other than that enjoy
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