I cheated on a guy whom i love. How can i get him back?
Question Posted Friday January 11 2013, 2:07 am
Hi. I cheated on a guy whom i love. I pretended to be somebody. How can i get him back?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Bobo24 answered Sunday January 13 2013, 2:03 am: Well I am a guy and I would never forgive cheating no matter how much I loved the girl . You made a big mistake and you have to learn from it the hard way cheating should never happen there's no reason to have cheated if you loved him ? If he dose take you back he may never trust you again and believe me he will feel wired around you . I just hope your reasons for cheating were worth it because you have lost this guy u so called loved . Sorry for being so straight up about it but I just don't like people who cheat I was cheated on and it sucks so bad then she wanted me back and there was no way I could take her back after being with another guy she showed me she never cared about me at all and that's what you have done . No one forces you to cheat you cheat because you wanted to and because u don't love the other person image if he cheated on you with some good looking girl then told you he still loves you and it meant nothing ha hahah would you be ok with it ? Would you be able to kiss them lips knowing some one easel did and more ?i am going to leave you with 2 saying that I live by :1 Treat others how you would like to be treated yourself :2 once a cheater alway a cheater . [ Bobo24's advice column | Ask Bobo24 A Question ]
aliah answered Saturday January 12 2013, 9:41 pm: Well you could apologize and explain to him why you messed up. Then see if he will ever take you back. [ aliah's advice column | Ask aliah A Question ]
MandaBear answered Saturday January 12 2013, 4:22 am: You could ask for forgiveness but I doubt the relationship will ever be the same again. He will never trust you and might not forgive you. Ask yourself Do you really love this guy if you have cheated on him? If not learn from your mistakes and move on!
Xui answered Friday January 11 2013, 2:58 pm: To be honest I never quite understood these types of questions. If you loved someone then why did you cheat?
There may be no way to get him back. You betrayed him and hurt him. You could try asking for forgiveness but sometimes sorry just isn't enough in these kind of situations. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
sierramuckridge answered Friday January 11 2013, 2:56 pm: Hi honey, being cheated on can hurt someone in many ways, it affects their self esteem, trust, and they feel as if the person they loved doesn't care for them anymore. Depending on how far you went with the other guy, just a kiss or all the way, will be part of determining whether he will chose to forgive you or not. Keep in mind, if this is a serious relationship, meaning you've been together more than a year, this will also affect how things will turn out. You can't do much, to make him forgive you, because ultimately it is his decision. You can never really take something like that back. It can be forgiven, but not forgotten. Just make sure to let him know that you love him very much, and it won't happen again, if that IS the truth. The only thing you can do from here is be completely honest with him, and reassure him.
Brandi_S answered Friday January 11 2013, 10:34 am: You have to ask for his forgiveness and hope he gives it to you. You may not be able to get him back, because cheating on someone is a big deal. It hurt him deeply, I'm sure, and it demolished all trust he had in you.
You need to apologize, ask forgiveness, and hope he is willing to give you a second chance. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
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