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I don't know if I have my period or not? I am kinda scared to tell my mum...
Hi I have no idea if I have my period and I'm 14 but I'm quite small and am a late bloomer but its kinda dull yellowish brownish and then light brown in the middle it's not sticky or anything more liquidy but not sure and kind of scared to tell my mum
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Tell your mom. c: She's been through it, she can help. (:
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Honey, tell your mom :). Your mom has been through all of this - Plus, she's always there for you!
It does sound like you're starting your period, though. Please tell you're mom, because you won't regret it!
-Bella
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Hey girl!
It sounds like you might be about to start your period. I would just go ahead and tell your mom about what is going on with you. She will know exactly what it is. If its not your period it sounds like it could be an infection but I wouldn't worry about it just yet until you see what your mother has to say.
I wouldn't be scared or embarrassed to let her know what is going on. I am 23 years old now. When I was 14 I started my period I went and told my mother about it even though I was nervous too. And she made me feel comfortable talking to her and really took away all the stress I was feeling about the whole situation.
I hope you figure it out soon chick! :)
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Time or a little grandfatherly advice. Since I am of the age I will offer some.
First it is quite possible you are about to get your first period.
Now about being embarrassed to tell mom. Please understand that your period is a normal bodily function for you as a women. Your period has nothing to do with sex other than your womb is cleaning itself to prepare for a fertilized egg should you make one by having sex. If not the cycle continues. Hence the term menstrual cycle. This is normal.
You would not be embarrassed to go to your mom with a sore throat would you? There is no reason not to go to mom with questions or any problem relating to any part of you. This is part of what being a parent is all about.
I'm sure mom is just waiting for you to come to her so she can help you and guide you through some of the more awkward parts of becoming a women. It is a lot easier for a boy to become a man then it is for a girl to become a women. More changes happen to a girl. Some of which are painful and can be confusing as well.
This is were mom can make things easier for you. Believe it or not but mom was once 14 and has gone through everything you have and will. She knows what is right and what needs a doctors attention. She also knows how to help you care for yourself with your period and can offer you properly advice. She has also learned how to make this time of the month a little more comfortable and can pass this information on to you.
Parents are a great resource for their children. Unfortunately most of us never realize this until we are much older. Never be fearful or embarrassed to go to mom or dad with a problem. You would also be surprised what us dads have learned over the years of living with your moms about how their bodies function. There are few if any questions we can't answer for you.
For the best answers as to how your body functions; your best resources are your parents or your doctor(s). This would include questions concerning sex as well. IF you have that type of relationship with your parents there is no reason why you can't discuss sex questions you may have with them and get a proper answer.
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You should NEVER be scared to tell your mom ANYTHING EVER! That's what she is there for to help you with stuff like this.
You might feel embarrassed about it but just remember your mother was 14 once and likely as scared as you are about periods and discharge. She also knows what is normal and what might be signs of an infection or your actual period.
I know this sounds icky to you but it's best to show her the stains and that your underwear is always wet and ask what she thinks it is. Normal discharge (non-period) is usually egg white color a bit yellowish from what I've read (I'm a guy) and does not smell.
If it smells it's a problem. The fact it's also brownish has me concerned but mom will know for sure. If it's something signaling an infection a doctor can clear that up but really should tell mom. Your mom is probably expecting all this to come up with you eventually. Don't be scared be in the know.
If it's hard to talk to mom try asking an older sister, a friend's mom, aunt, grandma or someone you really trust about periods and discharge colors. Perhaps a female from this site might have more info.
I also recommend you go to www.scarleteen.com as it's a site by professional sex educators for teens and parents where there are tons of articles on this and a way to ask questions of people who would know this on their message boards that they staff. All info is 100% factual and monitored.
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