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I honestly love him but the way he makes me feel is just horrible and he doesn't even know it.
So I was talking to this guy for awhile and one day he just stopped talking to me. He said he was busy with school but I just think he needed his space. He never had a girlfriend before so i thought maybe we got too close for comfort and he got netvous and ended it?This happened two months ago and I was liturally so depressed. I couldn't sleep or eat all I did was cry. Eventually it got easier over time and he would text me every two weeks to see how I was doing and I texted him every two weeks to see how he was too. Our conversations were short and it made me so sad. I loved how he would text me but it was just a reminder of what we had and how it's gone. So on Tuesday he texted me and we were talking and he was being so flirty again. And I said I was going to bed and he said he'll text me the next day. This is something I never thought would happen again. So we talked the next day like we used too and I kept telling myself not to get my hopes up and then in the middle of the conversation he just stopped talking to me, and hasn't talked to me since. I know I give him my everything and most effort. The first time he stopped any kind of relationship we had by stopped talking to me i beat myself up over it for so long because I didn't know what I did to make him leave and it took liturally everything out of me to just be able to get back to my somewhat normal self again. And now after that happened I feel shitty again. I honestly love him but the way he makes me feel is just horrible and he doesn't even know it. My question is what should I do with our relationship. If he texts me in two weeks what do I do? Should I text him back? Also what do you guys think is going on? Like why is he doing this and why and how can he change his mind so fast? I know I should get get over him but I just don't think I'm capable of doing that, Atleast for now. I feel like I'm not strong enough to ignore a text from him. I just really need advice! Thank you you so much in advanced!
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So i agree with mannequin24 tell him how you feel tell him that you have fallen for him and that what he is doing is hurting you , that you are confused to what he wants with you . And you might think you are not strong enough to let him go but your wrong , yes it will be hard but in the long run its whats best for you . Holding onto this will just hurt you more and more . If he dose not change after you letting him know how you feel then you need to delete his number from your phone block his number cut all ties to him ,it will take some time to get over him but u will if u keep your distance . You will come across someone some day who you deserve and who will treat you right just don't hold back because of this guy .
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I was in a similar situation awhile back so I know how much it sucks. I think you need to talk to him about it first and ask him why he's doing it. Be honest with him and tell him that he's hurting you. Maybe he doesn't completely realize what he's doing. But if he doesn't make an effort, than you really to move on. He will not change and continue to hurt you. You need to do whatever is best for yourself and cut all ties with him. As for why he's doing it, it could be anything. Some guys are just that way. I made the mistake of becoming friends with a player and in the end, I'm glad that I got away from him because he would make me feel so crappy when he would stop our conversations so abruptly. So good luck with everything :)
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