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Want to finish my life in order to avoid being forced into an arranged marriage.
I am 27 years old self-dependent working girl. i am in relationship with a guy from last 8 years. now i informed my family that i want to marry him only so they refuse my request and fixed ma marri8age with a guy to whom i rejected 1.5year back. Now the situation is damn critical for me i can’t hurt ma parents to do court marriage and not even leave ma love. That’s why i decided to finish my life....
pls suggest me some easy way to commit suicide.
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Shit dont kill yourself that not the way you should be thinking . You should Marry the guy you love , and your parents will get over it, they love you ok and they not going to hate you . It's not there decision who you marry or love ok . You are your own person do not let anyone tell you what to do , if you love this guy and you want him then marry him your parents will get over it ok!
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suicide is nt an answer at all l knw getn maried to the man you dnt love isnt good and shuldnt hapen bt thn if u kil yourslf and leave your lover on hs own after such a long time sharing love how wl h cope wth al ths thnk of your man too,is this how you show him you love him? Talk to your parents show them hw much you love ths man and what type of a person he is and if they still dont aprove get maried at court thy wl b hurt but then they wl c you love each other and cme to a point of knowing that your hapines is the one that matters the most
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I can only imagine what it would be like for your family to tell you that you can't do what you like with your life. That must be really hard to deal with. If I were you I would try sitting my parents down and talking with them. Have you tried this yet? If so, what do they say? Tell them how it makes you feel to be forced into something you don't agree with. Tell them of how strongly your feelings are for the person your are with now. Tell them your feelings of wanting to commit suicide. It's possible that when they know how your feelings are impacting your mental health, that they will consider those feelings and give into your wishes. Whatever you do, DO NOT take your life. Ending your life is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Remember that there is a solution to your problem and taking your life isn't it. If you need any emotional support you can message me if you want. I wish you all the best and good luck! Keep your head up girl things will get better. These websites also might be able to help you with how you feel right now. Please take a moment to just check them out. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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If you don't want to marry someone you don't like and do not know than don't. I understand in your culture that this is the norm. It's hard to do but tell your parents you can't be with someone you can't stand for eternity.
Tell them why won't you allow me to be happy with someone I genuinely love? The relationship is a decade old and thriving. Marry whom you wish and if they give you grief or disown you (not likely) than you're a grown woman who can live on her own, support herself and he can for you.
Killing yourself is the stupidest idea you could entertain here. No matter how monumental a problem seems there is a solution even if it doesn't come evident easily. Death is too high a price to pay and not the solution to any situation. Stand up to your family and as the other person below said NOBODY can make you do a damn thing you don't want to. They can apply pressure but that's all.
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What would killing yourself solve? You would just be leaving your friends and family broken hearted. I'm sure your parents would rather see you marry the love of your life than kill yourself.
And besides you are 27 years old! You can choose who you want to marry. NOBODY CAN MAKE YOU DO SOMETHING YOU DON'T WANT TO DO.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S: Fight for your love.
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