Hello Everyone
Basically whenever me and boyfriend tried to have sex, he couldn't get it in. I am a virgin so obviously i'm tight. He was really big and got it in eventually but it hurt too much so we didn't have sex. He fingered me for a while before but it took a while to get it in.
Is there anything I can do to make it "less tight"?
youll never get actually "less tight" until you have sex a few times,its gonna hurt regardless,but its gonna hurt no matter what.fingering will help but not so much,-Yazeed
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My ex and I are VERY close.We hangout all the time ,sometimes alone and sometimes with a group. We had an alone hangout the other day and got into a deep talk. We had both had drinkin that night so we were pretty much freely speaking the truth.He ofcourse started making moves on me and kissing me and all that and while he was doing all that i told him it was wrong because I still see him as more than a friend and he said he still sees me a little more than a friend but less than a girlfriend (whatever that means) He told me that he literally can't describe how he feels towards me and that he cares about me so much and that he sees me as his little sister and that he will protect me no matter what and that he wants me to be happy,and he wishes he could feel the same way about me as he did when we dated . Yet,i dont know how he could see me as his little sister yet want to hookup with me all the time. He told me that we won't hookup anymore because he doesn't want to give me mixed signals but all he does is tell me how im such an amazing girl and he trusts me and all this stuff and i just don't see how he can't see me as more than a friend! I'm always there for him but maybe if we spend a significant amount of time without eachother ,he will realize he really does have feelings towards me..but im not sure.What should i do?! Im crazy about him
okay,take it from me,this guy is a total asshole.hes using you for his needs,if he just sees you as a friend then dont waste your time on him.he aint worth it.and if he thinks of you as a sister but wants to kiss you and bust a move,hes obviously using you,look just im a guy i know how they think,dont waste no more time on him,youll thank me later-Yazeed
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18F.
So I haven't kissed a guy in probably 3yrs .. oh my goshh embarassing. I'm a pretty girl, it's just that I'm afraid. I've kissed guys before, but it didn't meant anything and it was a little peck kiss.
Now there is this guy i've been hanging out with ..and every time we hang out I like don't want to be put in the situation where he could kiss me because I'm scared .. yeah dumb I know. I don't want to mess it up, but I do want to kiss him .. I realy like him and don't want to lose him.
The thing that worries me is there are two kind of kisses, a peck and an "open mouth" if thats what you want to call it haha. I'm scared if we go into kiss we're going to do the exact opposite. Like he'll open him mouth a bit and I'd go in for just a cute peck kiss, and if that happened i'd be so embarassed. I don't think i've even "open mouth" w/no tounge kissed before.
I know i'm making a big deal about it and it shouldn't be this hard or scary, but it's killing me!! Do you guys have any suggestions for me?? Thanks:)
its not stupid.your young and your experimenting,well i mean most giys like to go for a fare closed mouth kiss the first time and as you progress further into the relationship then go into more "open mouth"tounge kissing-Yazeed
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15/f & my friend greg** is 15/m .
My friends dad beats him. And according to court his dad is allowed to give him "spankings" & there's no proof that he beats him. This may be hard to follow.
Gregs mom would take his father to court, so that he would never have to see his dad again. But Greg has been to rehab before & his father could use that against them in court.
I'm so scared my friend is gonna get seriously hurt. I'm talking to him right now on face book & he's telling me how his dad left him on the stairs bleeding and he couldn't move what so ever.
What if his dad takes it too far? I don't even know what to do. My mom would take Greg into our home in a heart beat, but him & his mom would get arrested for him running away.
WHAT DO I DO ? :'(
well i mean i agree it is not right what his father is doing to him and hes trusting you enough to tell you this,the worst thing you can do is not say anything,so i suggest that you do call the police or some other individual that can help-Yazeed
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14/f
Yesterday, I went to this street festival where their was live music in Chicago. I was dancing and talking to this cute guy who looked 16-17. Later on we started grinding and just having fun. When I had to leave I kissed him and he gave me his number. We were texting and I decided to ask him his age. Turns out he's 21! So I lied and said I was 17 (I've been told I could pass for 17). He says he wants to see me again but I don't think that will happen since I was just in the city for the weekend. It was all in good fun but I feel kind of weird now.. I know we won't be like a thing and probably won't ever see each other again.
I know it's illegal since I'm a minor but what would you do if you were in my situation. I honestly though he was 16 or 17 but found out too late he was 21.
well you learned a lesson,always find out who your talkin to first, and since it was onlt for the weekend it should be a big deal to just forget about him:D-yazeed
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hey, my boyfriend calls me babe.i wanna give him a nickname too but i cant think of anything.i would prefer something that will match what he calls me.but i cant think of a masculine version for babe.
well my fiance calls me love,its not exactly masculine but its a cute name i think:D -Yazeed
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umm hii umm..! i need help because me nd my ex are still talkin and we both still like eachother cause i asked him and he said he did but like are we ever going to get back together i dont know what to do anymore can you help me..! :(
well its not really such a hot idea to get back together,you guys arent together for a reason,but in time youll see what is honestly worth your time and whats a waste,,,
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does it feel good for the girl when the guy finishes inside her?
my fiance tells me it feels amazing BUT me and my fiance are in love and have been trying to have a child so make sure your clean and only try unprotected when your ready for it.make sure its the right person and always get your self checked:D -Yazeed
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hii. i was just wondering if wearing two condoms is better than one ?
thanks
kaitlyn
no,its actually more likely to break then using just one.and it takes the pleasure out of sex if your really looking for something to prevent pregnacy take the pill,but even with the pill always wear protection.
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guys are always like "I LOVE P***Y" but like .. why? they dont get anything from it. but then again they like it. i doont get it
hah woah i wouldnt say we dont get anything out of it.its very pleasurable...once you have it once its kinda like a drug.its addicting,cuz nothing else feels like it.idk its a very great feeling and you get a lot out of it actually:D-Yazeed
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how do u give a guy head and how long do u give him head
you give head by just putin it in your mouth and moving head back and forth,make sure you tuck your teeth in and always make sure your comfortable.and do it till he cums or just as long as you feel.
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i wanna have sex with my bf but im scared it will hurt like when the dick goes in meh
well sex can be very painful...there is really no way to prevent it,it should hurt the few 3 times or so..but always make sure your ready and use protection:D-hope i helped-Yazeed
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so basicly theres this guy who liked me like a million years ago and i wad really meant o him. but now its been a really long time, and we dont really talk anymore, we pretty much just ignore eachother, andi know its crazy but i really like him. for a long long time actually. but the thing is that after we stoped talking he sort of went from being this sorta wierd guy to becoming a huge pimp. but i really like him and idk what to do. please help me?
okay well i dont think you like him..you like the idea of the old him..but people change..and obviously he is one of them...and to get involved with a"pimp" isnt exactly a good idea at all...so i think you should try and find someone who will really be worth your time...i hope i helped:D-Yazeed
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Okay so i like my best friend alot but she has this best friend with benefits/ boyfriend only because them two were force to break up. Well i liked her since i have know her but she still have feeling for him. Being her best friend i feel like im always there for her more than he is, im always with her and i do just about anything for her. We are constantly texting and talking and it kills me that we are not going out cause i would like to. Its even to the point where people thing that we are dating but we are not. So ive told her all of my fellings that i have for her and she was like well i like you but i still have feelings for the other guy and then she starting saying that she felt so bad cause i was feeling down and stuff and that it was her fault that i am depressed. Well idk what to do or think and im constantly thing about her and it kills me so i need people advice on what i should do.
hey man i know exactly how you feel..i actually have a huge crush on my bestfriend...and i mean dont let this guy take her away if your always there for her let her know that your the one for her.show her that your the one who will blow her away...have her go somewhere wit you where you guys can be alone.tell her and tell her that this guy cant treat her how you can...i would do that for the girl i like but i cant its sort of hard at this point but dont do what i did and wait to long...if you want her...bro go get her!:D,I hope i could help
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So! As you all know i have written for your advice about the same guy. It was the age issue. Still not doing to great on that anyways but now for another problem.
At the beginning when we first started talking he told me that he wanted to be friends and NOTHING MORE! Hes never had a serious relationship with a girl, and i think he is just kind of scared, with the whole me being 17 and him being 21 thing..he knows i would do anything for him in the world. So we hung out, partied it up a little. SOBER! we kiss, and hug..he puts his arm around my waste, he lays his head on my shoulder. He "liked" me. you could tell. Well, I have been thinking about giving up because he told me he couldnt hang out. So i texted my friend and told him i was going to give up.he told me not to if i really wanted him..SO IM NOT GIVING UP! but my guy told my friend that we were just meant to be friends, and he took it to far on accident. like what does that mean? Obviously he likes me. What should i tell him? Because i like him more than he knows..People make fun of him so much, calling him a dumb redneck and stuff, and it makes me mad and i holler at people.What do i tell him, other than how i feel??? I LIKE HIM ALOT, AND I NEED HIM!!! AND I KNOW HE LIKES ME!
think about how he feels ....i mean if your younger than he is and he doesnt wanna mention you to his family or friends then hes not meant to be....i mean age is a number and thats it but if hes embarassed over age than imagine what else he will do to impress his family and friends so i mean he is honestly not worth your time...im sorry but i hope i helped-Yazeed
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i have a question when we do sex does it bleed for women.
that actually depends how you are ppl react different to sex,it also depends how the guy is but it proably will bleed the first few times since your bodys not used to it..so i hope i helped:D-Yazeed
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My boyfriend says my cum tastes sour. Not like rotten sour, but like actually sour. Is this normal?
well its possible that your eating alot of protein try eating pineapple it makes cum more sweet then sour...and dont worry usually woman cum is more sour but not so sour that you cant stand it...i hope i helped:D-Yazeed
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this is really intended to be for guys 20+ but anyone could answer i guess.
what do you think about girls waiting until marriage? like say if you're engaged to a girl and she tells you she's a virgin and has been waiting for you, is that a turn-on? any comments on it is great
to be honest coming from a man..im 21 and well i mean for me it is a choice thats personal....i chose not to keep my viginity but i think virgins are a turn on...just to imagine it....it is a turn but waiting till marriage is a great choice.:D hope i could help-Yazeed
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My boyfriend is 19 years old. He's very innocent, well... Not exactly. I just call him innocent because he's the type of guy who is disgusted by porn. He does not know what exactly turns him on. He said only when he makes out, some what touch me in some places, and sticks his tongue in my mouth. That's basically it. He says that only turns him on halfway or somewhat. What is something that I can do to fully turn him on?
okay well if hes not into porn doesnt exactly mean hes not really hard to turn on...well i get turned on when my girlfriend puts her hand in my shirt and like gently scratches my back and also try touching him..may seem awkward at first but if he sees that your trying hell get into.....hope i helped-yazeed
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