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so scared to even kiss him .. whats wrong with me!!


Question Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 8:01 pm

18F.

So I haven't kissed a guy in probably 3yrs .. oh my goshh embarassing. I'm a pretty girl, it's just that I'm afraid. I've kissed guys before, but it didn't meant anything and it was a little peck kiss.

Now there is this guy i've been hanging out with ..and every time we hang out I like don't want to be put in the situation where he could kiss me because I'm scared .. yeah dumb I know. I don't want to mess it up, but I do want to kiss him .. I realy like him and don't want to lose him.

The thing that worries me is there are two kind of kisses, a peck and an "open mouth" if thats what you want to call it haha. I'm scared if we go into kiss we're going to do the exact opposite. Like he'll open him mouth a bit and I'd go in for just a cute peck kiss, and if that happened i'd be so embarassed. I don't think i've even "open mouth" w/no tounge kissed before.

I know i'm making a big deal about it and it shouldn't be this hard or scary, but it's killing me!! Do you guys have any suggestions for me?? Thanks:)


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Yazeed answered Monday June 14 2010, 4:23 am:
its not stupid.your young and your experimenting,well i mean most giys like to go for a fare closed mouth kiss the first time and as you progress further into the relationship then go into more "open mouth"tounge kissing-Yazeed

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NinjaNeer answered Wednesday June 9 2010, 9:49 am:
This brings back some memories! This happened to me for my first kiss. OMG. It was really stupid and funny, and we both ended up laughing hysterically. So that's your worst case scenario.

Most guys will start off closed-mouth. You can always open your eyes a crack to see what he's up to as you go in :)

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Ayo answered Wednesday June 9 2010, 1:20 am:
Hahaha I honestly think that you're think about this waaaaay too hard. With us guys, it doesn't matter how you kiss us, as long as the feeling is mutual. If you go in for a little peck, and he goes for the open mouth, then he'll adjust. It might be a bit awkward for a nanosecond, but that'll soon be forgotten. Plus, if its both of ya'lls first time kissing each other, and he goes for the "open mouth kiss," then he doesn't know how to kiss... You have to start off slow then build up to the making out.

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