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Alright, there's this really hot boy. All the girls love him. He's dated a few girls but I feel like I get extra attention from him and we've never even talked before. He looks at me an awful lot and makes it quite clear that he's looking, he's still looking when I look at him then we just stare at each other and I love it. When he walks with his (ex) girlfriend in the hallway, he always looks so bored when he walks by me, idk if that's how it just happens but he never looks happy with her when I'm around. Why is this? If he likes me, why does he get girlfriends all the time? Does he even like me? Thanks! (link)
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Well to put it simply, because he can. Think about it. You said it yourself that all the girls love him. I mean, there's a chance that he likes you, but then again, knowing that he can pick up most girls doesn't really help you because, let's say he picks you up and goes out with you. Well then chances are, he's going to do the same to you as he did with his other girlfriends. You probably won't believe me now. None of my other female friends did until it happened.
My friend was the same way. He had so much swag he could pick up almost any girl he wanted. He messed with 3 of my female friends and basically cheated on all of them, and got the last one pregnant.
Soooo... What I'm saying is, if you do try to be with him, just be careful.
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okay im only 16 and by boyfriends 19. i dont know what to do because my mom says that im not allowed to date him because she said so, but i really like him and my mother just wont see my side. so what should i say so shell let me show her that i really like him and should stay with him?
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Well... actually... YOU can't say or do anything to convince her to let you stay with him. But HE might be able to. Of course, she's your parent and she's just trying to protect you. Plus, if the guy is older then that usually means that the guy is more experienced, and he might pressure you to do things (ahem, like sex). She's just trying to prevent things from getting out of hand.
If you really want to stay with him and have your mom's approval, then he's going to have to show her that he's a really great guy, and not some jerk asshole that's trying to take advantage of you.
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I was fingered recently and it was my second time being fingered. It hurts really bad and i dont enjot it at all. How do i get more enjoyment out of this? (link)
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The person must've been doing it wrong... It shouldn't hurt at all... (well I don't know cuz I'm not a girl) The person should rub your clitoris for a good amount of time to turn you on.
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Ok, this may sound strange, even cliche, but lately I've been getting let down, and right now I'm all out depressed. For no reason! I don't understand! The slightest thing can tick me off, and it's not even something I'd usually get upset over. My mother says it's just "teenage hormones" but I highly, highly doubt that. I'm debating going to the doctors on my own, and asking about some medication I could be put on. It'd be great to not feel this way anymore. I really hate it, and it's wrecking my relationship and friendships. Please help! Thanks! (link)
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Well, to answer this question accurately, You're gonna have to give me more information than that. Such as, do you begin to cry for no reason? Or do you sometimes wake up and feel like NOTHING matters anymore and there's no point in anything?
Because this to me sounds like teenage hormones.
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I know absolutely nothing about engagement rings/diamonds. My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged so I went to go look at this ring.
http://www.zales.com/product/index.jsp?productId=4209145&kpc=1
Supposedly the color and clarity of the diamond are not that great but I love the setting. I didn't notice anything weird about the diamond when i went to look at it but I didn't look super close for imperfections. Can an average person actually tell the difference in clarity and color with a naked eye?
He's all worried that the diamond is not good enough. I told him as long as you can't see anything wrong with it what is the point of spending more money on a better diamond?
Any thoughts or advice?
Thanks! (link)
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Um... I'm pretty sure he ment that its not big enough. I know that when I want to get my girl an engagement ring, I want to give her the best I can find. That way she'll see how much I care about her.
As far as imperfections, I'm pretty sure you can only see that with a magnifying lens, and even then you probably won't be able to point out the imperfections. Color on the other hand is obvious. Diamonds come in a variety of color (colorless, yellow, red, blue, purple, pink, and more), but typically, the diamonds on engagement rings are colorless.
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What is it with black college men and not wanting to be "tied down" as they call it, meaning in a relationship.
My best friend and I have been hanging out multiple times a week for several months now, we have admitted to liking each other, that we aren't seeing or talking to anyone else, and yet we are not official? Why? Although I love him, and he's my best friend, I feel like I'm wasting my time, I want something more meaningful then what we have now, I want a relationship.
How do I approach the subject? We haven't talked about it, any topic of relationship and commitment has been so far avoided. I haven't mentioned anything because part of me wants him to say something first, and the other part is scared of him saying no which will screw up our friendship. Also when do I approach the subject? Right up front or when I'm about to leave? I need guidance on this! Lol! And what exactly do I say.
If his answer is no, then that means we won't be able to be such close friends anymore because if I get another man in my life it will be awkward, and I'll probably have a hard time getting over my feelings for him, especially since we are in the same major and take all the same classes in college.
Oh and don't say he could be using me, because we are intimate very rarely, we hang out as friends much more often.
Thanks!
Me: 19
Him: 24 (link)
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Wow... this is a tough one. Cuz in my experience, the girl never wants to go out with me because she doesn't want to screw up our friendship.
Well you could always give it a try. Kind of bring it up as a joke or something to ease your way into it. Like
YOU: "Its crazy. A lot of my friends don't make plans with me because they assume that I'm always with my 'boyfriend"
HIM: "Huh? You have a boyfriend?"
YOU: "No. But my friends think that YOU are my boyfriend."
HIM: "Oh really?"
YOU: "Yeah. I mean I guess it would be cool because we're always together anyway but... I dunno. What do you think?"
HIM: "Um... I dunno. Maybe..."(He's probably nervous if he says this)
YOU: "Well... Why don't we give it a try?"
Well realistically, it's easier said than done, but use something along those lines.
I dunno about men in general abound not being "tied down." Because usually when I think of that, I think of "Serious relationship working our way to marriage." To me, I don't really want a relationship because I don't want to be dragged to the mall shopping for shoes for 2 hours! Haha!
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We've been flirting back and forth now for awhile and we text almost every day. He usually texts me first but sometimes I want to text him first. I don't really have much to talk about...like I said, we talk almost every day. But I worry that when he doesn't text me, he's losing interest. But on the same token, I worry that if I text him, he'll get annoyed and think I'm bothering him. But I like talking to him. I like getting texts from him. Even if we don't talk about anything. I just like talking to him. But I don't want him to think I'm desperate and don't have a life or something. What should I do? (link)
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You could try texting him every other day at a time when he's mostly not busy. Like around 7 in the evening or something. I used to want a girl to text me a lot, cuz I felt like I was wanted... then I started getting texts early in the morning when I was asleep... haha so just remember not to text him at unreasonable times.
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18F.
So I haven't kissed a guy in probably 3yrs .. oh my goshh embarassing. I'm a pretty girl, it's just that I'm afraid. I've kissed guys before, but it didn't meant anything and it was a little peck kiss.
Now there is this guy i've been hanging out with ..and every time we hang out I like don't want to be put in the situation where he could kiss me because I'm scared .. yeah dumb I know. I don't want to mess it up, but I do want to kiss him .. I realy like him and don't want to lose him.
The thing that worries me is there are two kind of kisses, a peck and an "open mouth" if thats what you want to call it haha. I'm scared if we go into kiss we're going to do the exact opposite. Like he'll open him mouth a bit and I'd go in for just a cute peck kiss, and if that happened i'd be so embarassed. I don't think i've even "open mouth" w/no tounge kissed before.
I know i'm making a big deal about it and it shouldn't be this hard or scary, but it's killing me!! Do you guys have any suggestions for me?? Thanks:) (link)
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Hahaha I honestly think that you're think about this waaaaay too hard. With us guys, it doesn't matter how you kiss us, as long as the feeling is mutual. If you go in for a little peck, and he goes for the open mouth, then he'll adjust. It might be a bit awkward for a nanosecond, but that'll soon be forgotten. Plus, if its both of ya'lls first time kissing each other, and he goes for the "open mouth kiss," then he doesn't know how to kiss... You have to start off slow then build up to the making out.
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so my laptop is always very slow, i never have more than 5 windows open at a time but even if i just have 1 open its just as slow, does anyone know how i can wipe my laptop clean, or just stop the slowness of it ? (link)
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That depends. How old is your laptop? How much RAM does your laptop have? What kind of processor does your laptop have? What programs are you running? All of these affect the performance of any computer.
I can help you more if you give me more details on your computer like what kind of laptop it is and what kind of operating system it runs (Windows XP, Vista, etc.)
If you want to wipe your laptop clean, I can give you more details on it if you'd like.
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Hello! 14 f XD
I love wearing makeup..but I'm not the type that HAS to have it on. I like being my natural self you know? XD Plus my boy friend likes me better without makeup in the first place..he says I shouldnt cover my Beautiful face..>.< What I want to know is what makeup styles would be exeptible for a 14 year old? Almost freshmen..I don't want to look older than I am. I want to look presentable..not like my other classmates :/ I would like to have my own "Style" of makeup you know..that won't go with everyone elses..I want something to express me. Sometimes I do my makeup dark..sometimes simple and light..depends on my mood. So any older girls have any ideas for me? Any opinions? Thanks you!!!! >. (link)
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I'm male and I can tell you right now, that us guys won't notice your makeup unless its obvious. And your boyfriend is right. You shouldn't have to cover up your face. Cuz eventually your face will break up horribly like my sisters! Haha! But the only thing that I can think of that would be acceptable for someone your age would be a little bit of eyeliner... and I bet your boyfriend won't notice.
But if your REALLY want your own make up style, then just disregard this answer... Cuz I don't really notice it on girls unless its really obvious.
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I want to go on this ride that kind of just goes up and spins to upside down constantly and water shoots out at you, but I never went on a ride that goes completely upside down before. Turning on the side, yes but never like a somersault. I never went on the roller coaster before or the Zipper because I'm so scared that I might throw up and embarrass myself.
But my brother sometimes eats right before and goes on crazy rides and never throw up! But some people do throw up, even on an empty stomach.
Why is this?
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Well, its most likely people's tolerance for motion. If you have a low tolerance, then most likely you'll throw up. If you don't feel nauseous after riding the rides that turn on the sides, then you'll be able to handle any ride or roller coaster that goes upside down.
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i need a digital photo album maker program that can be burned into a cd.. (link)
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You don't necessarily need a photo album maker to do that. I'm pretty sure you can use "Adobe Photoshop Album." (not to be confused with "Adobe Photoshop") But I haven't used that program before. You can download it at http://www.softpedia.com/get/Multimedia/Graphic/Graphic-Viewers/Adobe-Photoshop-Album-Starter-Edition.shtml
What you could do is put all of the photos you want into a folder, and in whatever CD burning program you use, make a Data CD and drag and drop the folder. A CD can hold a lot of photos (700 MB), but if you have a DVD burner, burn them onto a DVD, as they can hold significantly more (4.7 GB).
Hope this helps. If you have anymore questions, just ask.
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22/F
I'm in a male-dominated field at school, taking summer classes. I haven't had a summer term before, so I've never had to worry about this.
Is it weird to wear a dress to class? Knee length, nothing fancy, just a sun dress. I like wearing dresses in the summer, usually, but I'm only one of three girls in 60 people. Would I look too fancy, or like I'm trying too hard?
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Trying to hard to do what? If its what you like then go for it. You're in a class of 60 people so I don't think anyone will care. Chances are, they're too worried about what others think of them to worry about you.
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i need to know how to give my boyfriend a booty dance. (link)
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Well watching youtube videos always helps. It also depends on what type of music you're going to, if any. I'd prefer a girl to give me the slow and sexy one, about the same tempo as Ciara's "Ride."
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I recently upgraded my laptop to windows 7 from vista and since then i coudlnt get my hp webcam working so i downloaded the 64bit file update and tried it but during installation it said please connect the webcam but since its a laptop its internal and already connected. anyone have any ideas? cheers (link)
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Dang. I have the exact same problem, so I don't know if I can be of much help, BUT what you should do is look for drivers for your laptop. You should be able to find it on the website. But I don't know if they have the correct drivers. You should search for "(your model laptop) Widows 7 webcam Drivers)" or something along those lines in google. I have a Sony Vaio and I wasn't able to find the correct drivers to enable my web cam to work.
Hope this helps and I hope they have the correct drivers for you. I'm really irritated that I couldn't find drivers for mine.
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Okay so me and my best friend are dating and we have been for a month or so and we make out all the time but I kinda want him to do more. Problem is he's never been with anyone and gone past first base. So how do I get him to move to second? (link)
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You take matters into your own hands and you take it as far as you want it to go. Or you could take his hands and place them where you want them to be. He'll get the picture.
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i have tons of digital photos in my computer. i got tired of printing all of them then sticking to separate albums which take a LOT of space. do you have any ideas, or freeware i can turn to that automatically makes photo albums so I could just burn it in a CD. I need it badly cause no one knows if my pc will need to be reformatted again and lost all of em.
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! :) (link)
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I'm kind of confused about this... You have digital photos on your computer... but you're tired of printing them and putting them into separate albums? Are you talking about an actual, physical album you can touch, or a file folder on your computer? Lots of photos will take up a lot of space no matter what. Even if you put them on CDs. What you could do is buy yourself a portable hard drive (they vary in price, depending on how much memory you buy) and dedicate that to just your photos. That way, all of your photos can be in one place (and you can still make CDs if you'd like. Its just stored somewhere other than your computer's hard drive)
As far as putting photos into separate folders... It IS time consuming, but I think you have the best control when you do it by hand. There are however different keystrokes that you can use to make the process go by faster.
For example:
To choose all pictures use Ctrl+A (Chooses all)
To select more than one, hold down Ctrl and click on all the photos you want to drag and drop to a new folder (It'll deselect if the file is already highlighted)
Hold down shift and use the arrow keys to select files adjacent to each other
Hold down ctrl+shift and using the arrow keys to select rows of files.
I hope this information helps. If not, let me know. I'm not entirely sure what you were asking and you need to be a bit more specific on what the problem is.
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I am 15 year old female, and I am so close with my parents especially my mum. We are practically best friends. But lately i have been feeling very irritable, especially when my parents start touching each other, and talk about their sex lives. It is just so annoying. Like at family parties i have to walk out because i can't stand the talk. For example, your mom is a horn dog, or we have sex everyday. Gah! i am ready to rip my hair out. I get so angry i walk out. Grr. Can you please tell me why i am so irritated and sensitive with this subject? (link)
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Eww God... I'm right there with you... You're irritated because the details about you're parents' sex lives is not really something that you should know about. Hell... I don't even like to think about my parents' sex lives.... ... ... Well you could just talk to them and ask them to stop talking about that around you... or you could just keep doing what you're doing and walk out. That's what I'd do. You, as their child, being irritated about your parents discussing their sex lives is completely natural.
Wish you luck.
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So I am 16 and my bf is 14. I usually date people 19 and older basically graduated. Now when I met him He told me he was 16 I was like I dont usually date people my age but you seem cool so ohhK so we started dating for abt a month and he confessed to me that he was actually 14 I wasn't hard on him because I know it was compicated for him to tell me that but I do have feelings but he doesn't want me to bring up the situation ever and it doesn't help that not I call him adorable instead of the usual sexy hahhaha. And now it's ok with me because I'm in love with him and everytime I think of breaking up with him it literally gives me nightmares. But that doesn't change the fact that he lied. He says he lied because he really liked me and really wanted to be with me and he knew I wouldn't want the same thing if I knew he was two years younger than me. Which was true but you didn't give me a chance to decide for myself, so my question is is age honestly just a number or what? should this honestly matter to ne if I love him? HELP (link)
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Well you actually answered your own question. If you even think about breaking up with him, you'll have nightmares. You could break up with him because he lied. But then you'll immediately feel terrible about it. Or, you could just accept the fact that he is 2 years younger than you, and he has swag and got you to fall in love with him and go about your happy lives.
And yes you did have a chance to decide for yourself. You could've either agreed to go out with him, or not. You do that with any guy you go out with. He just increased his chances of him going out with you buy lying about his age. The thing is, you trained him to lie. YOU wouldn't have given him a fair chance if he had told you the truth.
Just be glad you both are together. Or you could take the dangerous rout and break up with him and see how you feel later (I wouldn't suggest the latter option).
Good luck.
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17/f
(I've known this guy since I was 7) he is now 21.
When I was like 15 almost 16, him & I became best friends, and eventually had sexual relations (yes i know he's older & etc. I am very mature for my age because of everything I've been through, so dont judge me or give me sh** for it please, because you'll just be a broken record that I wont really listen to--sorry.)
Any ways, he has like no one there for him anymore except for me, and he's on drugs really bad; which I'm used to dealing with because my step dad used to be on them really bad.
(lets name him John)
John and I tell each other everything and anything, our whole friendship is based on honesty and just being real, even if the truth can hurt.
& John never really had any one there for him, like he has his grandparents but he cant really talk to them, and all his friends are moving away; so all he really has is me.
I want him to know that I don't like that he does drugs (except for weed, he knows that I dont care if he smokes weed), like he kindve already knows a little bit, but I want him to know I care for him and love him I don't want him to get hurt or end up killed over the drugs hes doing now.
He basically already knows I'm always here for him no matter, but how I do I tell him I care for him so much and tell him I dont like the drugs without pushing him away?
& I know I should just stay away from him because he's drugs, but deep down he is a really good and nice person, hes just made a lot of very bad decisions and ended up with the wrong crowd basically; & when it comes down to it I love him, even if he is all wrong & f*cked up, but we all are in some way, & you can't help who you love..
(keep in mind me & him have never dated, we're basically best freinds with benefits.)
& I apologize if this comes off as mean, I'm really not trying to be, I'm just stressed out from it all & I'm tired of people telling me how bad of a guy he is & stuff like that..
So I guess here's my question how do I tell him how I feel without pushing him away?
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A person can be a good person but still be addicted to bad things. Well, I'm guessing you're really hesitant because like you hearing everyone saying that you should stay away from him (or something along those lines), he hears people tell him to quit drugs, so you don't want him to shut you out.
It would be best if you two had some alone time, and when that happens, that's when you tell him. Don't really beat around the bush, but also don't outright say "I want you to quit drugs." You have to ease into it.
But you'll also have to understand that drugs in general will change a person. A person's personality is in the brain, and drugs and alcohol messes with the chemicals in the brain, so there's still a chance that he may get upset when you do talk to him. After all, drugs make him feel good, right? Why would he want to quit something that makes life bearable? And people's been telling him to quit before (I'm sure of it).
I'm really glad that you're there for him, however, you have to be careful not to let his habits drain you emotionally, because that could bring you to begin abusing substances as well.
You should really push for him to not take any kinds of drug at all. Even weed. Weed IS still illegal, and if he's caught with that, nothing good can come from it. He's still taking in smoke into his lungs, which is also unhealthy.
I wish you well and I hope everything works out for you.
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