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Is there a rule about texting guys?
We've been flirting back and forth now for awhile and we text almost every day. He usually texts me first but sometimes I want to text him first. I don't really have much to talk about...like I said, we talk almost every day. But I worry that when he doesn't text me, he's losing interest. But on the same token, I worry that if I text him, he'll get annoyed and think I'm bothering him. But I like talking to him. I like getting texts from him. Even if we don't talk about anything. I just like talking to him. But I don't want him to think I'm desperate and don't have a life or something. What should I do?
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Hey,
No, there isn't really a 'rule'. It doesn't matter if you don't have much to say, just that you said something. When he doesn't text you it could mean that he is busy, letting you have a break from him (guys feel the same about texting as girls, don't overdo it), or he might have nothing new to say that day. He knows you have a life and you just want to share it with others, so no worries. If he doesn't text you, don't take it personally; if he likes you, he will pretty much always be friends with you unless you do something real bad, such as cheat or lie (if you are dating). Also, a guy will usually tell you if they are busy and cannot chat at the moment, but most the time they don't mind if you text them every other day or so. I text my guy friend or he texts me everyday and he doesn't mind at all for he knows I like talking to him. Plus, he likes talking to me.
Guys love when you show interest in them. So, tell him you like talking to him and then he will always know that you just want to hear his messages/voice <3
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You could try texting him every other day at a time when he's mostly not busy. Like around 7 in the evening or something. I used to want a girl to text me a lot, cuz I felt like I was wanted... then I started getting texts early in the morning when I was asleep... haha so just remember not to text him at unreasonable times.
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