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Too tight?
Hello Everyone
Basically whenever me and boyfriend tried to have sex, he couldn't get it in. I am a virgin so obviously i'm tight. He was really big and got it in eventually but it hurt too much so we didn't have sex. He fingered me for a while before but it took a while to get it in.
Is there anything I can do to make it "less tight"?
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youll never get actually "less tight" until you have sex a few times,its gonna hurt regardless,but its gonna hurt no matter what.fingering will help but not so much,-Yazeed
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This may be TMI but I would also say try a different position. I lost my virginity doggy style because I was so tight he couldn't get it in there missionary. For me it also hurt for the first few times we had sex. I also bled the first 4-5 times. It sounds weird but in a way the pain almost made it more romantic because since he was being so gentle I felt like he was taking care of me. It was also something I really really wanted to do with him. Could it be possible you are not quite ready for a sexual relationship?
The only way to make yourself less tight is to either have sex or use a dildo so it stretches it.
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i know this might sound weird and you might be uncomfortable with it, but it really does help. try using a dildo like on your own to make it 'less tight'. its gonna hurt at first but eventually it will get better and then you will be in pain when you're by yourself.. not when you're with your boyfriend!
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try a non-oil based lube if you're using condoms. don't try to substitute it with anything like baby or massage oil though-- oil eats away at latex.
also, have you tried other positions? i find that it's easier if you do it laying down on your stomach legs closed most of the way with your boyfriend on top.. something about the angel makes it eaiser..
hope this helps <3
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