However, if it does hurt, you can't let that get in the way. If the time is right and you're absolutely sure you want to have sex and you're protected, don't let a fear like this stop you. You don't want to be putting off sex for the rest of your life because you're afraid of a little pain.
It may hurt the first time. It may even hurt the second or third. But don't worry. First-time sex is going to be awkward no matter what. You just have to get the initial awkwardness out of the way before you can start really enjoying it. [ SarcasticGreetings's advice column | Ask SarcasticGreetings A Question ]
Yazeed answered Monday June 14 2010, 1:53 am: well sex can be very painful...there is really no way to prevent it,it should hurt the few 3 times or so..but always make sure your ready and use protection:D-hope i helped-Yazeed [ Yazeed's advice column | Ask Yazeed A Question ]
Trauma answered Monday June 14 2010, 12:29 am: Sex can be painful, but it's usually nothing too bad. It's important to be relaxed and sure that you're 100% ready for sex. If you are, use lots of lube, and take things slow at first. If it starts getting painful, tell your boyfriend to stop until you're ready to try again. [ Trauma's advice column | Ask Trauma A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Sunday June 13 2010, 11:41 pm: its different for every girl. for me, it hurt my first few times, for some of my friends, it didnt. just depends mostly on whether your hymen is already broken or not. this is a thin layer of skin behind the opening in your vagina. some girls are born without one, for others it breaks while exercising or running or even when they masturbate or use a tampon.
just breathe easy. no one knows for sure. just be sure and use a condom and make sure you're not tense. (tension will tighten you up, making it hurt worse) hope i helped. :) [ laynemayhem's advice column | Ask laynemayhem A Question ]
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