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sex... im scared it will hurt


Question Posted Sunday June 13 2010, 11:27 pm

i wanna have sex with my bf but im scared it will hurt like when the dick goes in meh

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SarcasticGreetings answered Thursday June 17 2010, 10:04 am:
When you have sex for the first time, it may or may not hurt. See if it hurts if he fingers you.

However, if it does hurt, you can't let that get in the way. If the time is right and you're absolutely sure you want to have sex and you're protected, don't let a fear like this stop you. You don't want to be putting off sex for the rest of your life because you're afraid of a little pain.

It may hurt the first time. It may even hurt the second or third. But don't worry. First-time sex is going to be awkward no matter what. You just have to get the initial awkwardness out of the way before you can start really enjoying it.

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crownontheground answered Tuesday June 15 2010, 3:34 am:
Having sex is an important decision. Make sure you're emotionally ready.. Because you may regret it in the long run.
Be prepared. The pain isn't bad, and it goes by fast.

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Yazeed answered Monday June 14 2010, 1:53 am:
well sex can be very painful...there is really no way to prevent it,it should hurt the few 3 times or so..but always make sure your ready and use protection:D-hope i helped-Yazeed

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Trauma answered Monday June 14 2010, 12:29 am:
Sex can be painful, but it's usually nothing too bad. It's important to be relaxed and sure that you're 100% ready for sex. If you are, use lots of lube, and take things slow at first. If it starts getting painful, tell your boyfriend to stop until you're ready to try again.

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laynemayhem answered Sunday June 13 2010, 11:41 pm:
its different for every girl. for me, it hurt my first few times, for some of my friends, it didnt. just depends mostly on whether your hymen is already broken or not. this is a thin layer of skin behind the opening in your vagina. some girls are born without one, for others it breaks while exercising or running or even when they masturbate or use a tampon.

just breathe easy. no one knows for sure. just be sure and use a condom and make sure you're not tense. (tension will tighten you up, making it hurt worse) hope i helped. :)

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